What is wrong with me? I seem to compare the guys to him we have two kids together. am i going to be alone forever. I am also studing nursing so I barely I have time. I miss someone wanting me. Should I be happy about being single or what?
2007-12-27 18:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You divorced him for a reason, don't forget that. Right now concentrate on your education. Once that's done and you're working you can start to get into dating again. Take your time and find the right guy this time.
Good luck.
2007-12-27 18:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, time will heal the pain and you will surely find someone wanting you at the right time. They say love comes with timings and seasons, well, ur just in between seasons. Take it from an expert who has been in between seasons for longest period of time.
It is only natural that you compare other guys to your ex, as you have been married to him, and your subconscious mind will naturally seek out to resolve whatever outstanding unresolved issues yet to be resolved between you and your ex through other guys. Don't be surprised if you end up with someone like him or may even look at him. Thats why they say divorce is never the answer.
Anyway, since u are already divorced and ready to move on, make your peace with him, try your best to be happy for him and surely, in time, you will meet someone special who wants you.
2007-12-27 19:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not u you just got to let go for Ur husband and find someone that makes u happy and find someone that u can trust build a relationship with and not just with u for Ur kids too.
2007-12-27 18:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by david_vnhrn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak with a counselor about your feelings, and attend free social events when you can such as bingo or church functions. You WILL meet someone who is right for you soon.
2007-12-27 18:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you sleep around...
be vague and make is sound like its no
big deal
example:
"so do you have a boyfriend?"
"no...I just sleep around."
then walk away. and say it calmly.
he'll get really jealous.
2007-12-27 18:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋