Please help me as I am very confused. I transfered into my school in January 07 and one of my RA took an interest in me. He was from Kenya and was very cute and popular. I had never actually dated a guy since I was always moving as a teenager. Essentially he made me feel like he was a great catch and was a good person. Two months into the relationship I began to realize that something was not right with him. He barely called me for example when I went to visit my parents in Italy and when I went on his Face book he was talking to some girl at another college. When I got back to the states I found out he was talking to another girl, and almost kissed her. He cried and pleaded with me to stay with him and told me a sob story about how he was insecure about himself and thats why he did it. I knew he wore a wig and stuffed his shoes to appear taller so I forgave him out of pity. Two months later he does the same thing again. He gives me same excuse and like a moron i forgive him.
2007-12-27 19:42:07 · 4 answers · asked by adastra1000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok I know I am stupid. so fast forward 6 months i catch him talking to a random girl from another college on facebook. I am like wtf, and we end up fighting and and i end up breaking up with him. anyways i told him i wanted to be friends because i hate losing things and hes like no i cant because i care too much about you. which i think is bs because of his actions. so anyways i called him in morn to wish him merry xmas,and he doesnt answer instead he calls me at 10:00 at night with my fav lovesong playing (i cant help falling in love you with u.) he just gave me one word answers during conversation then says , i have to go. tat nite i go on facebook and find that he blocked me from his profile. i was like wtf is he playing games with me? i am trying to have a peaceful break up. so bascially i am confused because i have to work with him since i will be a ra next semsester.unlike him i am not popular.i am not sure how to act while working with him.I still care about him to.what to do?
2007-12-27 19:54:01 · update #1
Lose him! You have given him 1 chance & that is MORE than enough.
2007-12-27 19:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) He's not good enough for you. Dump him and forget about him.
2) Report him for taking advantage of his position. I'm sure there are rules about that.
2007-12-28 03:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gives you any trouble, report him. He can not harass you at work and get by with it. It is always best to avoid dating people you work with. Too much drama!!
2007-12-28 03:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. he'll do it again. u deserve better then a guy u cant trust. he does it once... ok maybe but twice.... yea something is wrong. dont wait for a third.
2007-12-28 03:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by LuLu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋