I have been through a lot of relationships lately, & i think that i havent been single longer than a month in this past year. I feel that I need to concentrate on college & working & guys are not in the picture. I just need support that i can stay single- even when i get lonely-- idk TIPS on advantages of being single?? :D
2007-12-27 18:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick up a hobby.
2007-12-27 18:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by BOOOOOO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay single. Don't have kids. Finish school. The saying that if a woman is not married by the time she is 30 she only has a 20% chance of getting married is not true. The age is more like 40. So you have plenty of time to finish your studies and enjoy being single and child free.
2007-12-27 19:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by hack_ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single means a hell of a lot of choices and .... peace of mind. You can go to social gatherings and flirt without guilt, date without commitment - it's the perfect time to figure out what you want: you can date random guy #1, #2, #3 and see what fits you.
More importantly, it's also the perfect time to get to know what you want in terms of career, whether you want to stay where you're at or if you want to move elsewhere. Take advantage of not having anyone to think about! You're free to do what you want.
The biggest advantage to singlehood is freedom and choice.
2007-12-27 18:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong about being single. But then again I get what your saying. Its always nice to have someone by your side. I think you should definitely stop seeing men even if its just for fun with no feelings attached and focus more on yourself. Keep your mind distracted and find yourself. Love will come when its meant to come. Don't worry about that for now. Be happy and positive! Life is beautiful.
2016-04-11 04:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to do whatever you want and whenever you want to!! If you feel lonely hang out with your friends, that's why you have friends right? Fruitless relationships are just stressors in your life. If you feel like having a companion you can go and have a night on the town and find someone to you want to for the night, this doesn't mean a one night stand. Just talking to someone new or just the touch (non sexual) of someone new is a great satisfaction. Don't be habitual dater like many women... it just burdens your soul.
2007-12-27 19:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by TrueMetal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very smart! Stay single until you meet a guy WORTH knowing. Use this chance to spend time with your friends and family and doing things you enjoy, exercise, movies, shopping etc. You don't need a guy to be happy but you WILL meet a great guy one day, don't waste your time with loser guys, wait for your prince :-)
2007-12-27 18:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ben J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no to second dates! haha Just explain to guys more than once(we don't listen the first time) that you simply want to be single and you have no intentions of a relationship with anyone...then do your own thing.
2007-12-27 18:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pathofreason.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need anyone to feel great about yourself.
You can do what you want, when you want/More time to yourself
And like you said, more time to concentrate on study and working.
Spend lots of time with friends that make you feel great.. and when you find yourself missing intimacy, remind yourself of the negatives.
2007-12-27 18:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by cmp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being able to go and come as you please, no unexpected plans pop up, no one feeling neglected when you are busy, no worrying about where he is or what he is doing, more time for study, more time for friends.
2007-12-27 18:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No drama and youre free to do anything lol.
2007-12-27 18:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by Water 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋