ok like i just wanna go to sleep and not be bothered after sex and she wants to snuggle and stuff and i dont wanna do that. how do i get her to leave?
2007-12-27 19:00:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she just want to feel love...cos most women went for sex coz of love not for lust..dont tell her or u will end up hurting her
2007-12-27 19:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by light girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a normal difference between men and women. Girls wanna get closer after sex and guys are worn on and wanna sleep. In my experience, if you spoon for about 5 mins or so and then go to sleep your gf should be satisfied. You don't have to sleep intertwined all night, but indulge her a little bit. If you care about her, this shouldn't be a problem for you.
2007-12-27 19:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by lovin life in california 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ya tacky man. If you want her to leave after sex, then she isn't the woman you should be having sex with. Order a prostitute, pay her off, and the deal is done. Or do it yourself.
But with a woman you say is close enough to be your girlfriend (or is she just your booty call?), you should be caring enough to give her the emotional love she thinks she is sharing with you. You need to either grow up and be man enough to visit with her, whisper into her ear how beautiful she is to you, and cuddle awhile, or don't start the whole thing in the first place.
Sounds to me like the most loving thing you could do for this girl is to break up with her so she can find a man capable of caring for more than himself.
2007-12-27 19:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well... if all you wanted was to have sex and then not be bothered, you should have paid a hooker. That's why you pay them for sex. That's all you get from them... no love, no emotion, no real pleasure. It's just a job, not a love affair. Tell your girlfriend that you aren't ready for a relationship right now.
2007-12-27 19:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by TheWiseOne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your arm around her and go to sleep. You get your sleep, and she can do the snuggling if she likes.
It's rather impolite to kick a girl out as soon as you finish, let her stay and make her breakfast in the morning like a gentleman.
2007-12-27 19:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sausage Mahoney 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
dude
dont have sex with her if you dont wanna "snuggle" afterwards its part of sex...no sex no snuggling you chose. get over it...most boys would love to be "getting some" so your in the lead dont be so selfish!
2007-12-27 19:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 you sir are an *** 2 let her fall asleep on ur chest 3 hug her to you 4 go to sleep like that 5 wake the **** up sneak out from undert her WITHOUT WAKING HER UP 6 make her pancakes/eggs 7 bring them to her in bed!
2007-12-27 19:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dragon Guardian Of The Abyss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a moron look man this girl will do anything you want and she gives you great sex and all she wants is for you to hold her a little after!
man just man up and do it, look it will pay off in the end! she will want to please you even more.
its not a bad thing just tell her that you need to take it slow and a little holding in the beganing and she will love you for it
2007-12-27 19:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
she just probably wants to be with you cuz she likes you a lot.
and she thinks its safe to be around you.
just put ur arm around her and go to bed like that
2007-12-27 19:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz she wants MOre sex..?
2007-12-27 19:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋