Singles & Dating - 27 December 2007

so i got an envelope from my b/f at my mum's house, which is unusual since i live with him, my b/f was at work at the time. i thought this was a bit odd..

i automatically thought he was gonna leave me so i called him up giving him a mouthful of crap saying that i was dumb for trusting him etc, he got really p1ssed at me and slammed the phone down. i opened the envelope and it was a letter explaining how much i meant to him and that he loved me forever! with a poem inside too! i have apologised since and he laughed about it, but i still feel bad, how can i make it up to him?

2007-12-27 09:09:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everybody has a wandering eye, right? Its hard not to stare at an attractive guy or girl when they walk by, whether your partner is with you or not. But what is too much? What is acceptable in these situations and what is totally unacceptable? For instance, is it ok for your spouse to tell you your sister is attractive? Or that she has a sexy tattoo? Or is that going to far?

2007-12-27 09:02:27 · 2 answers · asked by <3 FLYERS <3 2

We have been dating since August. One night when we were both very tired, just about to go to sleep I said "I love You" He said " I know you do" and I we went to sleep. then when he came over he was drunk, but not being a jerk, being romantic but he kept saying he loved me while we were having sex. At least I thought he said it. I didn't clarify and the next day he didn't remember much. What is a way to get him to spit it out and say I love you?

2007-12-27 09:02:14 · 19 answers · asked by Sup! 4

I'm a 6'6" attorney and I always feel inclined to do adventurous things that on the surface seem to have a serious risk of bodily injury (e.g. ice climbing, drag racing, etc.) but are not really that risky. Additionally, I love speculating and taking what people might call financial risks. Is that a turn off for women? or do they not care?

2007-12-27 09:00:16 · 29 answers · asked by scandal917 2

ok so, the thing is i really really like this boy, i love him so much, we aren't going out or anything, but i know hes kind of seeing other girls to so this is why i want to try and tell him how much i love him. and how much i want to be with him. but all of a sudden he has these mood swings and starts calling me every name possible and it all starts if i say i miss one of my guy friends,and i mean we arent even going out and he goes off on one. i havnt said anything about his other girls, yet he has a go at me? but he can be the sweetest person you'll ever come across. but anyway, i just need some advice on what i should do, i dont know wether to give up on him or try and make things work between me and him. i love him so much, more than anything. it kills me seeing him with other girls, but he knows that i love him. and hes not bothered it seems and he only wants me when he bored almost, i just dont know what to do, and i dont really have anyone to talk to about this, advice? plz

2007-12-27 09:00:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father has schizophrenia and has always been pretty neurotic. He cant carry a conversation and he has a short fuse with his anger. He's always been very mean to my mom and myself, which made it hard for me to ever get to know much about him. I was wondering if my lack of a relationship with my father has anything to do with why i am attracted to members of the same sex?

2007-12-27 08:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents and his parents have been friends for 1000 years and so me and my 2 bros always sleep ovr at his house or he sleeps ovr at my house last time he slept ovr he was sooo flirting with me he started holding my hand and we ditched my bros at like 3 in the morning when we went tiping and it seemed like he wanted to kiss me but didnt know if I like him bak then a week l8r I slept ovr at his house and I almost kissed him( my 1st kiss) and then his stupid mom mwouldnt let us go outside but we made the best of it and played truth or dare and gave eachother tattoos (he gave me a rose on my shoulder) I can't stop thinking about him so I told him in a email that I liked him he replied saying he only wanted to be friends
and by the way I am getting all a's and b's and 2 c's in scool so Im doin good, I have alot of friends, I dont disrespect my fam or teachers so I have all good priorities....I dont think Ive wanted anyone else more tham him in my whole life and its not like Im ugly help!

2007-12-27 08:54:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could a guy be genuine if he talks about the future, moving to another country to be with you after just dating you for a couple of months?How do you know he is genuine and not just saying things to get what he wants.He was nice, we went out for dinner/movies, and he invited me over to his place and he cooked dinner.We went out for 3 months, but I did not sleep with him cos I wasn't ready.He seemed to be okay with this, although he kept trying, but didn't push it too far.I was taking my time to get to know him as I wasn't sure, but was liking him more and more.

He never introduced me to his friends or family, which I didn't mind, but I don't think he mentioned me and acted single around them.He went to Majorca with his male friends.We had a trip planned also.Before our trip, I found out he emailed girls randomly in Estonia, where he was going on a booze cruise in Estonia with his friends saying he wanted to party all night long.

Was our relationship nothing? Did he just use me?

2007-12-27 08:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

The girl is my worst enimie and she is the one who told me. SHould i dump him 4 good?

2007-12-27 08:50:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been witht his guy for 11 days. Okay he's different. he has tatoos, piercings, expelled from school. He tatoos and pierces for a living. His parents think he is not responsib;e enough to have a gf. I have a family reaching for the best for me and stuff. I havent introduced him to my family yet.. Anyways, he got in a big fight with his family and his dad says that he will not a gf... and that he will send him to aus if he doesnt break up with me. My boyfriend doesnt know what to do...
please help.
I really like him, I never have liked someone so much, it's true.

2007-12-27 08:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Sally Park 3

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. İt was tumultuous for close to a year because he was lazy and I supported him financially plus he was very jealous. But we were soo attached to each other. İ still stuck it out because İ believed he would outgrow this phase as he is only 20 (now) and I am 21. İ broke up with him several times because he didn't look like he would change. He convinced me and even begged me to come back each time. about 3 months ago İ had a huge crush on one of his old roomates and told him about him just before we broke up. İ slept with this guy once just to get him out of my system (and confessed to my boyfriend about it the next day) and I was doing well until my boyfriend said he forgave me and wanted me back. thing was he changed in these 3 months and he is sweet and much more understanding than before. İ just don't know if I still love him even though we seem to have gotten back together. We are so attached to each other and İ feel so guilty. What should İ do? İf I leave him again İm afraid he'll be torn and I would be torn because we are so emotionally attached. He even wants to marry me and İ need a visa to stay in the country. But another part of me says that this relationship will die in a couple of years and İm so afraid of making a mistake either way. Please help me!!!!

2007-12-27 08:45:46 · 7 answers · asked by leyla a 1

my partner is in turkey visiting his mum who lives there as she emigrated.now he wants me and my son to move there.any ideas?iv never been there b4 but he has a job and flat lined up.he says he wont go without us and hes the one for me.

2007-12-27 08:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i kinda flirt with all of them so consider that also...
but i don't wanna sound like i'm just really tryna get with them...
i'm just REALLY bored

2007-12-27 08:39:36 · 5 answers · asked by melissa 2

2007-12-27 08:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I´ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 months, and she told me that she is pregnant ..Wich is weird cuz we haven´t had sex before, just kissing.. im VIRGIN.
Im 18 years old.

Please! Im so desperate and scary.

2007-12-27 08:36:05 · 18 answers · asked by hayquienjura p 1

2007-12-27 08:35:27 · 15 answers · asked by manaallyn07 1

ive been talkin 2 this lad frm london 4 about 2 months nw ive seen pics of him n were always txtin he wnts 2 meet up in london but i dont no wt 2 do im 14 and hes says he is plez help me

2007-12-27 08:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Emma 1

well I've been with my girlfriend for 11-months (almost a year) and well like she always thought of me as "perfectly loyal" i knew this wasn't true...so i told her that in the past, when she really angered me, i checked out another girls *** and ive been involved in conversations talking about other girls...(nothing too deep, just saying who look sbetter than who) i even apologized and wrote a poem

well she felt betrayed and said that she doesnt really trust me and stuff, and now she keeps reminding me of it constantly...what should I do?

any advise or anything would really help...

2007-12-27 08:30:39 · 24 answers · asked by Mikey =P 2

If they were both very pretty and had the same proportions.

2007-12-27 08:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-27 08:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by Matty V 1

Just wondering...... and how did it happen where you ready or not?? did your bf pressure you?? How was it??

2007-12-27 08:20:07 · 49 answers · asked by Katie P 1

2007-12-27 08:19:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this boy
but i dunno how to let him know without making it obviosue

2007-12-27 08:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by hannah w 1

Ive been with my boyfriend for aout 3yrs and we seem to spend more and more tme apart. We argue alot do to my jealousy and possesiveness. I just really need some great advice on strengthening my relationship

2007-12-27 08:10:03 · 16 answers · asked by CELOH 1

If you truly like a girl who you dont communicate with a lot and she does something to really upset (not like cheat but promise you something and does not deliver) you, could you get over it?

2007-12-27 08:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by explosyv 2

ideas please,,,
i done cuddly toys so thats out, i sent eeyore some time ago..
am thinking chocolates but can u send these by post? wont they mess up in the 2 days delivery,,,?
flowers are no go she not that type...
any other ideas
im stuck

2007-12-27 08:07:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are good friends and i kno we like each other should i tell him

2007-12-27 08:00:54 · 35 answers · asked by La'Mary J 1

K DIS IS DA STORY: IM IN LUV WIT DIS GUY DAT I DATED FOR 7 MTHS N WE HAVE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR 3 YRS NOW REASON IS CUZ I CHEATED ON HIM TO GET BAK CUZ IM A *****. K BUT I LUV HIM SOMETIMES U CAN EVEN HURT THOSE DAT U LUV! AFTER ME N HIM BRK UP I DATED GUYS FOR 2 OR 3 DAYS NEVER LONGER DAN A WK. I FINALLY DATD A GUY FOR A MONTH WE WENT TO PROM TOGETHER DAN BRK UP. NO BIGGIE KINDA HURT BUT NOT AS MUCH CUZ I LUV MY FIRST GUY! STILL! THE PROBLEM IS I CAN'T SEEM TO MOVE ON. BUT YET DIS IS DA CONFUSING PART. SUM TIME IN NOV. I SAW THIS GUY AT THE SUPERMARKET AND FELT BUTTERFLIES IN MY STOMACH A GUY I HAVEN'T SEEN IN 4EVER. I HAD BARELY TOOK A SHOWER B4 GOING TO DA SUPERMARKET N HE COMPLIMENTED MY HAIR. IT MADE ME FEEL GOOD YOU KNOW. WE FINALLY STARTED GOING OUT AFTER A FEW TALKS ON DEC 12 HE ASKED ME I OF COURSE SAID YES STILL KNOWIN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT EXCEPT FOR HIS NAME WE MOSTLY TALKED ABOUT WHAT WE WERE DOING DAT DAY AND THATS IT! LOL WE BRK UP LAST WK ON THUR. I LIKE HIM N IDK Y

2007-12-27 08:00:49 · 7 answers · asked by princess 1

I hate the fact men are going for stick women nowadays

I mean, I wear size 12 top, sometimes bigger or my 36D chest gets crushed because they dont design clothes for women who have larger than a C cup breast basically.

I'm not fat, I know that.

But I have curves, My waist is smaller than any of my friends that wear smaller sizes than me but I'm hourglass shape basically.

Seeing all these size 0 models on t.v almost makes me sick

How can you guys like that?

Its like looking at a brick the women are the same size all over.

So basically what I'm trying to say is, do you agree? why not?

Mika is right

BIG GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL! :]

2007-12-27 07:56:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's my natural size and if i tried to gain weight i wouldnt gain it in the right places.

2007-12-27 07:55:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous