Just wondering...... and how did it happen where you ready or not?? did your bf pressure you?? How was it??
2007-12-27 08:20:07 · 49 answers · asked by Katie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
17, Junior prom in High School.
I don't think I was ready, but WE were, if that makes sense.
We had been together for over a year, and had done a bunch of other stuff. I was too immature, looking back on it, but our relationship was more mature, and was ready to move to that level. I'm not saying that he would have dumped me if it hadn't happened, just that we were in love, we were good friends and a good couple, and we were "in that place" where it was okay. He was kind, gentle, and caring, so it wasn't as scary as it could have been.
The first time wasn't good at all, but it got better. We're still together, by the way - married for 11 years.
2007-12-27 08:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Becka Gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 and yes I was totaly pressured by my BF at the time and it was BAD ... sorry but it was!! I ended up dumping him 'cause the way things happened made the relationship go really bad.
So .. u boys out there don't pressure the girl/woman u love into doing anything she doesn't want to cause then the love between you could end !
Seriously !
=o)
2007-12-27 08:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Daly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-27 08:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, memories..haha.
I was 14 years and 11 months old. It was on October 31st (Halloween). It was my 1st boyfriend. He didn't pressure me at all, I thought I was going to marry him so it felt right. But again, when you are 14 you think you are going to marry anyone. It's a though age. Anyways, wasn't that great because you don't know what sex really is yet, is not like you can compare it because is your 1st time. So, you'll have to wait for the second time to say "Ooooh".
2007-12-27 08:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by canovanas23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 22 years old. I would have preferred to have lost it years before but I was rather shy. I tended to wait for the girl/woman to make the first move and they were waiting for something clearer from me.
I was with some friends. We were cuddling naked under the blankets. The female friend and the other male had already been involved but I didn't know it at the time. In the midst of cuddling, we ended up doing more than cuddling. She looked me in the eyes and asked if I really wanted this. I said yes and the male ended up giving us some privacy for a while.
At first, all I was planning was to pleasure her with no thought to myself. Much to my surprise and joy, she decided to reciprocate. No longer being a virgin helped to open up more of my self-confidence. I was still rather retiring, but I a part of my personality had been released.
2007-12-27 08:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Donald J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was 17, and the guy in question (also 17) did not pressure me; I was ready. It was sweet but it was also my first learning experience that hardwood floors are not optimal surfaces for doing such things; we had avoided using the squeaky bed for fear of tipping his mother downstairs off to what we were doing.
2007-12-28 04:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Pyrophage 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 it was on the 4th of July, I was very ready, my bf did not pressure me, it was very romantic, very planned, and it was with the right person for the first time and it was good.
2007-12-27 08:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋