hello i need help witha realtionship problem!?

Question

K DIS IS DA STORY: IM IN LUV WIT DIS GUY DAT I DATED FOR 7 MTHS N WE HAVE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR 3 YRS NOW REASON IS CUZ I CHEATED ON HIM TO GET BAK CUZ IM A *****. K BUT I LUV HIM SOMETIMES U CAN EVEN HURT THOSE DAT U LUV! AFTER ME N HIM BRK UP I DATED GUYS FOR 2 OR 3 DAYS NEVER LONGER DAN A WK. I FINALLY DATD A GUY FOR A MONTH WE WENT TO PROM TOGETHER DAN BRK UP. NO BIGGIE KINDA HURT BUT NOT AS MUCH CUZ I LUV MY FIRST GUY! STILL! THE PROBLEM IS I CAN'T SEEM TO MOVE ON. BUT YET DIS IS DA CONFUSING PART. SUM TIME IN NOV. I SAW THIS GUY AT THE SUPERMARKET AND FELT BUTTERFLIES IN MY STOMACH A GUY I HAVEN'T SEEN IN 4EVER. I HAD BARELY TOOK A SHOWER B4 GOING TO DA SUPERMARKET N HE COMPLIMENTED MY HAIR. IT MADE ME FEEL GOOD YOU KNOW. WE FINALLY STARTED GOING OUT AFTER A FEW TALKS ON DEC 12 HE ASKED ME I OF COURSE SAID YES STILL KNOWIN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT EXCEPT FOR HIS NAME WE MOSTLY TALKED ABOUT WHAT WE WERE DOING DAT DAY AND THATS IT! LOL WE BRK UP LAST WK ON THUR. I LIKE HIM N IDK Y

hey everyone here is more to it i do know how to spell but the thing is that i ran out of room so i had to make the words short srry about that! more to it is guy"a" is two years younger than me im 18 sad i know but i do love him guy" b" is one year older and i do know a little about his personality but not enough to feel the way i doyou see i think i feel that way about him because i finally want to move on. guy"a" has a gf but he tells me he still loves me. guy"b" well when he is with his friends (whom are also my friends) starts acting weird but when were alone he holds me tight and we go to the park lay on the grass and looks at the stars with. i think its romantic. because all i want is for someone to hold me tight and thats exactly what he does but only when we r alone you see know! and well guy"a" is pretty much scared to fall in love with me again!

Answer 1

hey just to let you know i would have helped you or given some advice but i couldnt read that sh*t the way you wrote it..since when is "dat" a word.. if it is then i need an updated dictionary and also i wasnt around when they added "witt" and "dan"..

learn how to right if you want people to take you seriously
peace the f*ck out!

Answer 2

If guy A has a girlfriend and still tells you he loves you, then he is just telling you a story. Probably wants to keep you around in case he and his gf break up. You can be the fall back girl. Forget about him. Tell him to buzz off and leave you along.
Guy B sounds like a really great guy. He is
descreet around your friends. That is soooo
mature. No one should have to watch you both holding each other and kissing etc.
That is for being alone. He does sound a bit shy cause you said he acts weird with you around your friends. Talk to him about it. Tell him you don`t want him to act all kissy face when around people, but that if he likes you to at least show it a little bit or is he ashamed of you? Might as well start communicating early in the relationship.
He may not be ready for anything more than just holding. Do not rush him. It may scare him. He may be getting teased about
you too, Idk. or may be embarassed because of some goofy reason. Guys can really have some strange ideas when they
are being serious.
If you ARE ready to move on. Just be yourself and take it slow. You both must
get to know each other and you cannot do that in a few weeks. Compliment him too.
Tell him how you feel about different things.
Ask him questions about what if anything bothers him. The more you talk the more you learn and that is the first step in any relationship.

Answer 3

If you do not want to know anything about the people you are talking to, they will not think you care and will not take you seriously.
I think if you see him again, you should tell him that you are a freak and in need of someone to sort out your problem with. Can he help? If he says yes, then let him help. Tell him everything here and see what comes of it.
You are in love with thinking you are in love with the first guy. He is probably happily married or getting married by now and you are still pining away for him.
Grow up, move on and get over yourself.

Answer 4

OHMYDEARLORD DAT W HARD 2 READ.
so...lets see. Make a list of positives and negatives on the two guys you really like, tot up who has the most positives after subtracting the negatives and hey bingo you have the guy you need to go talk to. If it's man 'a' you'll need to make ammends from the past and tell him how you really feel. If it's man 'b' however I think it's one of those so called "love at first sight" scenarios- you're only judging him on looks and if his personality doesn't match then I suggest you do just forget about him.

good luck :)

Answer 5

if your not over the first man then no relationship will work. You have to get over him first.

Answer 6

Huh?

Answer 7

please use proper english