The girl is my worst enimie and she is the one who told me. SHould i dump him 4 good?
2007-12-27 08:50:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your "worst enemy" is providing you information that undoubtedly hurts you emotionally? I would check the source again before you go jumping down your boyfriend's throat.
If the news was true, what's the use in stringing it along? Confront him with the information, and when he denies, the best thing to do in a "he said, she said" situation is to get everyone together in the same place and have an adult conversation. Usually the truth sorts itself out when everyone is faced with confronting each other.
2007-12-27 08:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by jmb8715 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well she's having a hard time right now so she would get over in half a year or 1 year or more if you can't wait that long then ask someone else you think is really cute and ask her out BUT you probably shouldn't be going out right afterward or she think that your the type of guy that's just desperate for a girlfriend and also a (player) so wait for 2 or 3 month and then you can ask someone out again or just wait 4 her
2016-05-27 05:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the person that told you is your enemy, it may not be true your boyfriend is cheating. Try to find out for sure and if he is really cheating, he does not deserve you. Drop him like a hot potato. Honesty is the best policy in a relationship. Tell him who told you about the cheating. You will be able to tell by his answer if he is telling the truth. If he can't give you a straight answer, he is lying and you are better off without him.
2007-12-27 09:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by krmdnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how do you know that he was cheating. By your own admission, this girl , who is your worst enemy, was the one who told you. If you are her enemy, it follows she is your enemy, so what makes you think that she will tell you the truth, or want to help you out by letting you know that your boyfriend was cheating on you.I suggest that before you do something you will forever regret, make sure it is true, then give your boyfriend an opportunity to defend himself or explain.The easiest way for enemies to hurt you is through lies, hence, use some common sense and caution in your actions.
2007-12-27 09:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before you cut his throat make sure he really is cheating on you
if he is, you might want to muse for a few minutes about WHY he is cheating on you and why he is NOT breaking up with you
and don't trap yourself in the 'because every men is an :@sshole' kind of thinking, because if they are, what's the point in dumpin your bf and getting another @sshole instead?
no man would cheat on a long term gf unless there is some SERIOUS sh!t in the pancake
everything happens for a reason
oh yeah and giving him a bad time simply because he had given you a bad time would mean sinking to his level, or even lower, as he did not cheat on you (if he did) to make you feel bad
if you had previously 'given him a bad time' if he did something that you did not like - that might easily be the reason why he is having sex with someone else - as you have associated yourself with the image of the 'punisher' and no man will like living with that
it is one thing to do something that someone else might not like and it is quite another to intentionally hurt someone
imho
2007-12-27 09:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by former_ih_teacher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya'll are enimies is she telling the truth?
If so let him have it try to bust him in the act! Make him feel like S*h*t
2007-12-27 08:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I always keep on my mind- he cheats, he is gone 4ever from my heart. Just think, cheating is DUMB so he is DUMB. eventually if you cheat, whoever you are cheating on will figure out and things will go bad. Dump him ASAP. Over the phone is pretty harsh so just yell it at him or something....
2007-12-27 08:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be joking just cuase shes jeolouse. if u know its 100% true then give your bf a hard time, but just think that she might be joking, i've had people say things like that to me before just cause they want my bf. Hope this helps xx
2007-12-27 08:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your bf is cheating but in the other question you just asked your wanting to have sex with him. You have some serious thinking to do.
2007-12-29 05:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zoey, Yes you should cause now cheating just gets easier and easier for them ! I was on the recieving end of a repeat cheat !
2007-12-27 09:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋