Singles & Dating - 25 December 2007

i have am confused between TWO guys,one is extremely handsome with a cold heart and feelings and the other is a person whose heart is filled with joy and happiness,always makes you see the cosy smile of his,i learned from him a lot,how to be confident.i know have two problems,how to show my love and know who actually loves me,who to CHOOSE?this is my thrid one but not the major,i actually dread love as i have been through a harsh break up,three years ago?!!!!!!! actually,may be they both do not love me and take me just as a bestfriend,how SHALL i know?help plzzzzzzzzzzz

2007-12-25 23:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by skull92 1

I am a 24 year old female. I dont see my parents or any of the adults in my family. I have no one to go to if things go wrong. I was close to my ex but we are not close anymore.

I am scared and feel alone. I feel insecure about my life and i want some security. I will have a degree in a year but my job wont be very well paid.

What should i do to survive on my own? I dont feel safe being all on my own and think i need to find some security.

I am seriously thinking about finding a guy who is a bit older than me who can take care of me financially so i can be comfortable and follow my dreams. By a bit older I mean 30.

How can i build my life up from nothing?

2007-12-25 23:36:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know theres birth pills and stuff like that. but i want to know what to use if its a spur of the momnent kind of thing and im at my house and theres no condoms whatcould iuse. i dont want to risk getting pregnat.

2007-12-25 23:31:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my ex just over a month ago, but we still see eachother casually and are trying to work it out so we might be able to get back together. But we are constantly fighting, most of it, is over stupid stuff.

A couple of days ago, we had another fight and i told him i couldnt try anymore over text. There is this other guy who has been msging me the last couple of weeks, coz he wanted to take me out to dinner and watch a movie at his, so after this arguement with my ex, i finally agreed.

My ex sent me a text later that night asking if i was with a guy and i said that i would talk to him later. I ended up sleeping with this guy who took me out to dinner, and i told my ex the very next day.

My ex acts like i cheated on him, but said we can still try to c if we could have a relationship, if i get this other guy completely outa my life.

I told this other guy that i was guna stop seeing him and explained. He was really pissed off, even tho i warned him it might happen.

2007-12-25 23:27:19 · 21 answers · asked by louise 3

I was away for 2 weeks. We both have AIM
and when I checked her Aim info "I love (my name)" font
got smaller font and size..she gets mad whenever
i make mine smaller. She even said she made a new
SN while I was away and she did IM me with when
I was using AIM epxress but I didnt receive. She said she was bored. What would it mean?

2007-12-25 23:18:45 · 2 answers · asked by trickybryan 1

i am in love with my good friend but he tells me he doesn't want to go that way. I think it's partly because I'm too just an ordinary girl and there isn't anything that will make him want me. his friends are dating singers (famous in town) and pageant winners.

I've been offered a modelling contract. But I wouldn't be signing up if it were not for him because the modelling assignments will take away a lot of time off my school work and I know I might be under a lot of stress. I don't like posing and all that, which I find very tiring and i get all nervous and get stomach cramps from all that stress.

Should I?

I know i'm pathetic but I just want to make myself a girl that my guy will be proud of.

2007-12-25 23:13:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex sent me quite a shocking threatening email the other day after i asked him why he had being signing me up to spam, i replied saying how shocked i was that he had threatened me, he replied again saying his car had been hit and he was really angry at the time, he was sorry and he will stop signing me up to spam. i replied again and then he began being nice to me, he has a profile on bebo and for the first time in ages he accepted me adding him because it was private. Why is he suddenly being friendly again? Do you think he wants a new start? i also sent him an email just to scare him saying i would contact the police after he threatened me.

2007-12-25 23:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 23:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Pistol Knight 7

but we broke up 2 years ago. i don't want him back, i already told him that. and that is what i also want to tell myself.. when i saw him with a girl last christmas eve, i was jealous coz i thought it was her new girl only to find out that it was a common friend. why cant i get him out my mind.?. do i dtill love him? why i am feeling this way.

2007-12-25 22:51:56 · 22 answers · asked by shortydos 2

2007-12-25 22:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a girlfriend and she's live in another country. I really want us to be together,but it's gonna be really difficult for the both of us because of differences in culture and religion.Sometimes,I really do doubt myself,"What if I can't make it through this relationship? Wouldn't it be just a matter of waste of time?" But do you guys think that I should continue on or just play along until she finally gives up? I really need you advices and support....

2007-12-25 22:42:20 · 10 answers · asked by Ferrero Rocher 2

doesnt it really piss you off when somebody you know has been with someone for like a week or two, even two or three months and say that they are in love? how the hell can they say that is LOVE?! - btw before anybody makes a comment about me being a humbug and stuff, im currently in a relationship which i have been for 3 years. just want peoples opinions on this, do you think it is even possible to be in "love" in the space of two weeks? tbh it just annoies the hell outa me!!!!

2007-12-25 22:33:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So there's a guy who I was dating for 3 months and he said that he actually wasn't looking for a girlfriend. It hurt me. I can't forget. After a month I texted him, I still like him and he replied he did too, but he just didn't want a relationship. I said I can't handle that..He asked what he should do then. Nad I replied what would you like? And he said: Don't be bold, I'd like to stay friends but I'd want to take your clothes off all the time, so that wouldn't work...What should I think about him?

2007-12-25 22:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by Luiza D 1

A gentleman? What a load of crap.

A relationship is suppose to make life easier for both people financially by helping share the costs of life.

So why do so many of you women keep bringing back chivalry? We're equal! You have equal rights as we do. You pay also! I'm under the impression that many girls go into relationships just for the money. You work, I work! Stop depending on us!

2007-12-25 22:30:45 · 13 answers · asked by The MAN 1

I've just turned 20 and talk to a girl on msn and on the phone. I know it sounds sad but i really like speaking to her. We have been talking a while now and can still speak hours and not be bored or anything. Recently though i've been feeling like, if she was to go with a guy from down there or if i went with a girl from here, it may create a certain amount of hurt feelings. I know i dont have a right to feel like that but i do. Instead of just sitting feeling like that i thought that mabye we should speak about it. Sometimes i feel really close to her then other times not so close. I also asked "Say we met in....., would you want to be more than friends or what?". She said that she would. If i do and she does, i think thats something worth discussing also. She is shy on the phone and i feel like i'm being a stalker or something. Do you think i should ask things like this or just leave it?

2007-12-25 22:24:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and we broke up very suddenly and she went back to her ex. well than she found out she was prago. he dumped her I was really mean in the break up but want to know if its my kid she b prago with. we only knew each other for like 2 weeks the amount of time we went out. and we have not talked since i kinda think she may not want to tell me or maybe is scared of what i might say do to me being a toatal jerk +++++++some when my emotions are toyed, with and I act pretty sadistic. so how do I go about finding out details befor I ask her straight out. and I will ,but I must give her time. gotta be patcaint on these deals. she didnt want to talk to me aftar the break up and wouldnt respond to me so I guess im scared of the rejection. do women have a hard timebut giving the situation it would be hard for me to tell some one that too but what the heck am I gonna do. cause if it is mine I gotta marry her and not letr her get an abortion cuase its half mine

2007-12-25 22:10:08 · 14 answers · asked by whatup? 2

I asked my ex to get back together with me. He dumped me and feels I haven't fixed myself that quickly. I was insecure and played emotional games with him. I realize this all comes from trust issues and low self-esteem. I feel that I am getting better and he told me to keep working on it. He has a new girlfriend and claims to be happy. I told him I am happy for him and that I wished him well. But actually, I feel miserable. What should I do?

2007-12-25 22:00:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 21:50:50 · 17 answers · asked by sh p 1

2007-12-25 21:49:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do nice looking girls like quiet guys? The kind that sit back look interested, smile, but just don't say much?

2007-12-25 21:47:53 · 19 answers · asked by squashwriter 1

2007-12-25 21:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have the best guy friend in the world i tell him everything he help me get together with the best boyfriend ever but all that changed when he told me he liked me last year. so i broke up with my boyfriend cause he was pressureing me too and i couldn't get out of it. So now i jsut started 8th grade and he has a girlfriend but she moves away so its just me ,him and my friend. he told me from the beginning of 8th grade that he didn't like me. so i am single and so is he lately he is starting to get rough with me like hugging me and touching me. he is really strong and what happen is that he was really mad so me and my friend wanted to see what was up so i pulled back his hood and he grabed my arm and it lift a print. and when i tell him i like someone he goes straight to that person and tell them to stay way from me i feel like he is my mom when he gets mad when i talk about the guy i like
what do i do
i need help
PS i went to the consoular and she just talk to him?
HELP

2007-12-25 21:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by His Angel Baby 1

I was just told this story by a friend of mine. She started going out with this new guy. They were at his home on a date, watching a movie, and she was going to sleep over. Like around midnight or so, his ex calls him, because she claims she is stranded and has no way of getting home, or where to go for the night. She claims she fell asleep in the library and woke up after all the public transportation has closed. She claims she has no money for a cab to get home. So the guy feels bad and wants to help, basically ends the date with his new girlfriend, and goes and picks his ex up at the location where she is "stranded". The girlfriend got really mad a him because that is disrespect for him to be breaking up their date to go and rescue someone who is no longer in his life. So, she gave him the ultimatum that if he dont take her with him to go and pick up this girl, she was going to leave him. So they went and picked up the ex, and he gave her money for a hotel. Is this guy an idiot?

2007-12-25 21:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo User 3

i am so disappointed in my life right now. i feel like i hav no way out of this relationship. i feel like i need this person in my life bc he brings me happiness but then i think about how he tried to get back with his ex gf and i forgave him for it when i found out about it. idk what to do anymore...i feel like i need him to breathe bc he is such a big part of my life. but i have other friends and family that tell me to leave him but i cant do it right now. i feel like i know the right thing to do is to leave him but my heart wants to stay bc i have faith that he will change and learn to respect and honor me but its been almost a year since he started ******* up...and idk how much more i can take of this. i would love to hear feedback from anyone with good advice bc i have been struggling for so so long. i feel that bc we are in a long distance relationship right now, we started to argue so much on the phone but we are ok when were together but he does respect me fully...idk...

2007-12-25 21:18:43 · 13 answers · asked by bizzybee 1

I just want to know is it wrong to be having sex at this age. And is it wrong to have it with someone 1-3 years younger than you or even the same age as me

2007-12-25 19:43:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

in school , during p.e lessons , boys always look at our chest and say: " look , look , their breast are so big and it is jumping !! " do you think we want them big and give you a chance to laugh at us ? is not what we can decided okay , guys ? this is what god do to us , girls !! stop laughing at us !!

2007-12-25 19:32:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

of cancer. Doctors lied, said she'll be fine and when she died I freak out because I never in my life would imagine my Mom dead ever. and up to today it feels like yesterday. Im so afraid this pain would never go away. My Bf tells me i should talk about my Mom more to let the pain out. When I do talk about her I always (ALWAYS) end up sobbing and crying. I miss her so much. I get so sad and this pain is something so painful, like a piece of your heart has been ripped out of you. I miss my Mom so much and people say I would move on, but look at me 2 yrs later the pain I feel is about the same.

Whenever I cry to my BF I can see how sorry he is that I lost my Mom. He;s really the only person I talk to about how I feel. When I try to tell my sisters we just all end up crying.. .so I never really want to make anyone else sad by bringing up my Mom. I just miss her so much, at times, I dont really know what to do.. .


Does anyone knows how it feels to lose someone?

2007-12-25 19:30:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually get some eye-to-eye contact when we get close, she's in three of my periods at school. I get some time to study her reactions when she catches me staring at her or me catching her staring at me. I usually have a reputation for being "the karate kid (black belt)* Well, now I'm just hopin' that she likes me back. I mostly like her for her smarts,curves, and mostly her personality. Furthermore.....I just need some tips on how to see whether a girl likes me or not. Need help! Thanks for all!

2007-12-25 18:57:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am still a teen ager, fourth year high school.. I like this guy and he wants me to be his gf too.Should I go for it..or should i practice a hard-to-get doing that a woman does when a man courts her...help me plzz...ill wait...

2007-12-25 18:55:57 · 15 answers · asked by russel john 1

He drinks.
Once or twice a week.
Every time he drinks = shitfaced.
Acts like suchhhhhh a dumbass.. I can't handle him at all, leaning all over me, slurring everything.
And wonders why I get mad.
What the hell.
Yeah, I'm not mad when I'm drunk with him, but fro one, I barely ever am or have the desire to, and 2) I can handle my alcohol and limit myself.
I love him. It's so depressing. I'm always upset. I hate this so much.

2007-12-25 18:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous