Singles & Dating - 25 December 2007

on the net. and you feel youve actually fallen in love with them. when you finally get to see their pic and your NOT to happy with their looks...would you be honest, and tell them to end all? or would you keep shtum and carry on loving that person?

2007-12-25 17:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that he wants to do certain things like fingering and touching and stuff like that and im not really sure if i am ready but i really really think i love him. i dont know how i could tell him no or if i should. HELP please!

2007-12-25 17:50:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got drunk last night and I called this guy that I've known for about seven years. I wanted to wish him a merry Christmas, and we talked for a little while, but he seemed a little distant and he told me about 2 or three times that he would call me back because he was busy, but he wouldn't, so I kept calling him....(hey I was drunk I couldn't help it)...but anyway I told him that I missed him and he told me that he missed me too, but after we hung up for the third time, he told me to call him in 20 minutes, and I was like "Just call me back whenever you're finished doing what you're doing, and he was like "Ok" and so we hung up and about a half hour later I called him back, and oh to make a long story short he kept brushing me off and seemed distant. I sent him a naked picture of me (yes we've had sex several times with each other), and I think I left him a message saying something like "you're my man, call me back." It's so embarrassing. Is there something wrong?

2007-12-25 17:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by Infinite 1

I feel like no one likes me (guywise) I use to have self confidece but that is just crumbiling away. There. Are absolutly no guys that like me. I always thought that I was at least desent looking but now I see no point. All my friends have boyfriends except me. That doesn't bother me but it adds up and it doesn't help my situation at all it sucks I seriously think that I'm going to be a 89 year old lady with 9 cats. I like that I'm going to be a loner and that I'll never get married or even have a boyfriend much less. Please I need advice I hate thinking this way about myself

2007-12-25 17:47:18 · 27 answers · asked by Morgan A 3

Can someone PLEASE me some advice on how to tell my boyfriend that I lied about my age.....

He's 24..going on 25 in May...
I'm 18..going on 19 in September.....

I told him that I was 20........

The only reason why I lied was because I didn't think he would talk to an 18 year old..and him being 24...already out of highschool,college...and with a career....
while myself....I just started college for Aeronautical Engineering...I know that's good but I didnt think he'd want someone this much younger than him

I know it was Very dumb...and pointless of me to do....

But now I need advice on HOW TO BRING IT TO HIM..HOW DO I EXPLAIN...I know JUST TELL THE TRUTH..BUT HOW...

He's the PERFECT MAN.....and I really dont want to do and I REALLY dont want to lose him.....I know he's gonna be hurt and very upset when I do tell him...But what do I say afterwards..What if me just wants to leave and go somewhere ...Do I stop him...
Please Help.....

2007-12-25 17:35:01 · 35 answers · asked by :) 4

I go to college 4 hours from home and almost never come home except for holidays is this a big problem or should we be able to work through not seeing each other?

2007-12-25 17:24:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well first off i'll state a few facts about myself.. :)
I'm 15,
I'm 140 pounds (though i am very tall. i have a little bit of fat on my stomach and legs but i've never been told i'm fat or anything)
And i've been told i'm very pretty with an unusual look, but i think nothing of the sort.

I have very low self confidence. I think I am GINORMOUS and ugly and gross. But most of the time i try to look good when I go out and all these older guys look at me and check me out. But i get really self conscious about myself and turn the other way and walk off. Even if i think they're hot too. Sometimes i see people checking me out behind my back in mirrors and I get really uncomfortable but flattered. Please help me deal? I'm usually shopping with my mom ( i know, immature, but hey she loves it)

2007-12-25 17:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3

I don't even think I'm to the point where I love her yet but I just feel so lonely right now and very depressed. sigh
She wants to remain friends, is that a good idea? ahhh i don't know what to do please help.

2007-12-25 17:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 27 and I have been dating my g/f who is 29 for about 2 years. In early November, I told her I wanted to end the relationship because I didn't feel it was going anywhere and I though I was falling out of love with her. She took it REAL hard and so after a lot of begging, pleading, crying, promising, etc, I agreed to give it another chance. Well, things havn't really changed much. It's nothing with her personally, she's a nice girl, I just don't feel the love that I once did and I don't want to keep going in a relationship that I don't think has a future. Anyway, today she dropped a bombshell on me. She told me she's 12 weeks preg accedently and she's keeping it. I was planning on breaking up again but after New Years (I was gonna spare her the heartbreak over the holidays) but now I don't know what to do! She's been on the pill the whole time we've been dating so I never thought to wear a condom. Should I stay with her now or not? I can't see myself ever loving her.

2007-12-25 17:05:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) He tells you that you are sweet.
2) He tells you that the only difference between you and a flower is that you are more beautiful.
3) He gives you a rose (puts it in your hair) and tells you that you are so beautiful that an otherwise beautiful rose looks ugly when seen with you.
4) He tells that he loves you and wants to make love to you.
5) He tells you that he wishes that he could kiss you from now until forever.
6) He hugs you.
7) He tickles you.
8) He tells you that you look like a princess only you are sweeter.
9) He offers to carry your school bag/luggage.
10) He asks you to close your eyes and then brings forward an apple and aks you to open your eyes. He then gives you the apple.
11) He says "I love you".
12) He gets you pregnant.
13) He tells you that he wants to have 12 children, 8 little girls like you and 4 little boys like him.
14) He buys for you a doll.
15) He tells that he likes you.

This question is for adult females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-25 17:04:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl has been off and on with her ex for the better part of 2 years now. as her friend prior to them getting together I was always there for her to help her through him screwing up and them fighting. during an off period, recently, we started dating, (kind of unexpectedly) for about 4 months. things were great. when she started to have feelings for him again I decided it was time to call it off and let her figure things out. she's back together with this idiot AGAIN and wonders why we can't talk anymore (I think she feels like we should still have that friendship we had before we got together) I told her I had to make a clean break and not be in her way, and that I need time to move on. I'm in the process of moving on, but she keeps texting, and messenging me, and wonders why I can't talk to her or see her anymore. What's the deal? Am I doing the right thing by avoiding her? Why is she so concerned about me now?

2007-12-25 17:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well what if I just get under her shirt and feel her up... do I have to take off her bra? I'm sure it would be alot better with the bra off, but I am getting to second in a movie theater so it would be weird with her bra off in there. Does it still count as second though as long as I'm under her shirt??

2007-12-25 17:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not real good wit women so instead of asking other men what they think ill try womens opinion



im currently single and not lovin it
any advice on how to ask out a girl and keep them happy basically wat women apreciate in a man

2007-12-25 16:58:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

been with this girl now for about 6 months, going good for the most part, but there is one part about her that bothers me. She is a major attention freak. She has all these guys who chase her, ex's, guy friends, and I can just tell that she leads them on just enough so they'll keep chasing, but not enough to actually do anything wrong to me. Another example, shes switched jobs a few times, and has male coworkers chasing her, and instead of acting like she has a b/f, shes giving her number out, getting numbers, has guys from working calling her at all hours of the day. Like I said, nothing crossing the line yet, but enough to bother me and know she is leading them on to entertain her ego. Shes also the type who, before we were going out, completely surrounded herself with guys who liked her and that was it, had 1 or 2 female friend and that was it. So....should I be cautious dating someone like her? Is it a matter of time before I get played? Why are some girls like this? Thanks!!

2007-12-25 16:42:02 · 4 answers · asked by Jack B 1

I want to know...
When you're seriously start dating someone when you're like sixteen or something or older, what are the probabilities of having sex?

2007-12-25 16:33:41 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ Xite ♥ 3

I mean I can appreciate an attractive guy, andI sometimes think a man's body looks good. I am also attracted to a guy's physique.

But, I'm not really turned on by d*cks. When a guy comes near me, he doesn't smell as good as a girl, and I easily get turned off. But, seeing a women naked turns me on.

I can't imagine having sex with a guy. It looks too painful and unsatisfying. Guys are so rough!

But, I can imagine having sex with a women, because they are so soft, conforting, and compassionate.

Watching men has sex with women doesn't make me feel as good as watching women have sex with other women. I get off on watching girl-on-girl action!

Is this some twisted kind of bisexuality, or are my feelings trying to tell me something about myself?

Be honest. Not necessarily rude, but honest!

2007-12-25 16:31:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok Folks, a little background. I am a semi professional hypnotist and at times I get called on to do some hypnosis for parties and just for fun. Anyway...the other day I was giving a Christmas party for some coworkers at my school (about 20 in all) and I was asked to do a little hypnotism for them.I asked for volunteers and I hypnotized about 5 of them and had them do some really cool stuff (freezing hands, feeling hot, forgetting thier name) and one of the folks I hpnotized was this girl who I work with that I have had a crush on for awhile. We are just friends but she went under really deeply and was a great subject. One of the routines I did was I had her (and others on stage) have an orgasm from a handshake. She was one of the best. After the show she was really out of it and didn't remember anything but was upset when the orgasm was mentioned. I feel really badly. The question is, should I feel guilty and what should I do?

2007-12-25 16:30:14 · 4 answers · asked by cosmiccantinacowboy 1

This guy I've been hanging out for a couple of months has a pic of his ex on his phone. I did not find it accidentally but he showed it to me. I did not show him that it bothered me but played it off like it was cool. They have a kid together and they were together for 6 years. He says he really likes me and is willing to wait till I'm ready to be in a relationship with him coz he thinks I'm worth it. I have been spending alot of time with this guy not only on regular days but also his bday and xmas and I'm afraid that one day he might realize that he's not over her, but he told me he will never come back to her and his ex knows that I'm talking to him. He respects me alot. Is this a red flag for me that he's not totally over her?

2007-12-25 16:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by elle 1

I am a single, straight, successful, educated, 28 year old male. I have no interest in getting a girlfriend, much less getting married and having children this early in life. I just can't believe how many of my unmarried friends are panicking because they are almost 30 (like that is old) and are not in any kind of a relationship yet. I have only gone on two dates in my entire life and they all took place 5 years ago. Believe me, there are much more important things to do right now! My friends mock the fact that I haven't even had my first kiss yet or even my first passionate hug! I think it's funny and provides something to look forward to! People my age are also in a rush to move out and waste their money on rent when they already live close to work, have no kids or wife. Is my generation simply bonkers or what?

2007-12-25 16:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Jack C 1

Alright. I am sixteen and I have a boyfriend who is seventeen. We have almost been going out for a year now.
We are completely in love and I know we are, we love each other with all our hearts. Please don't say anything about you don't know what love is or any of that BS. I know what love is..

So we recently have started taking about sex. I never planned on having sex until i was engaged or completely in love with someone and i knew it. I guess I'm just old school like that. I never would have thought I would find my true love this early in life, but I guess how it was supposed to be.
I want to get on birth control and my boyfriend wants me to get on it too. We want to be completely safe. We will use condoms too. I just want to know, how i can bring up ME getting on birth control to my mother.

my question: Is there any easy conversation starters on this? I don't want to feel awkward, even though I already feel a little nervous on how she will react. Advice on how to approach this?

2007-12-25 16:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by hey girl hey 2

2007-12-25 16:28:24 · 18 answers · asked by mecca 1

me and my gf have been 2gether almost 2 years she is 19 and i 18. in the beginng we had sex all the time and now it is like she is never in the mood other than that our relationship is great and i know how girls are you cant push them to do it because then it will just be the opposite, so i feel like i have done everything i was just wondering is there was any ladys out there or anyone with a few words of advise??? thanks

2007-12-25 16:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by cvogt1 1

You are stalking me again. And I know that. Nice try on the phone call, my parents haven't mentioned anything to me. My brother said that you called him. And to let you know, the next time it happens, actually I believe I will try to go ahead and do so tomorrow, you are not allowed to call me OR MY FAMILY, SO...when you see this msg., get your *** hole prepared because you are going to jail.

OH

And FYI-I wrote the last msg for something with Cosmopolitian. My friend asked me a question and I was going to tell her some good answers from people on here.

So stop running to my daddy everytime you want to whine. I'm his daughter I believe he will believe me over you any day, 1. Because I dont lie to him. 2. Because I've gained all trust back. and 3. I'm not a psychotic bi polar patient who is a pathological liar. The deal is two years no contact. Or else you go to jail and other consequences. The break up was 6 months ago. Go get a life.

2007-12-25 16:21:15 · 1 answers · asked by In♥ 3

So, since I graduated high school I've dated 3 different girls that all had the same thing in common. They all cheated on me at some point. I've been cheated on before and ended it but it kills me when they cheat and then end it...I feel like they got the upper hand on me. Personally, yeah it doesn't feel good but I hold myself like I can get whoever so it doesn't bother me in a large sense. I just hate when it feels like they get the upper-hand and dictated how it ends. I guess I may be kind of a control freak but girls do you feel like you gained something by ending it yourselves instead of the guy?

2007-12-25 16:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-25 16:18:45 · 12 answers · asked by deeggtfugt 1

Theres a guy I've been flirting with regularly, and he flirts back. I can tell that he likes me, and I like him. We hang out at parties and stuff. How can I clue him into the fact that we should take it to the next level and get him to ask me out?

2007-12-25 16:18:17 · 24 answers · asked by lovemelc8 2

you know this guy likes / what would u do?

2007-12-25 16:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by mecca 1

we have been talkin for months know. at first he would call like once a week. now he calls like all the time. first he was acting jealous of me talking to other guys and accusing me of not calling him no more. right now when he calls he talks about hooking me up with his friend. and i'm like why would he do that! i asked him would his friend like me! he said most definetly! what.

2007-12-25 16:17:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He recently went to a bar with some friends and passed his name and number out to a number of gals their. We live in a small town and i found out about it...

2007-12-25 16:12:36 · 21 answers · asked by finally_single 1

-they rape us and abuse us
(knowing women are not as strong physically)
-they use of for sex
-they manipulate our feelings
(knowing women are sensitive)
-they don't want to get to know us relationsip-wise
-they picked on us when we were young
-they don't want to understand us
(don't listen, don't care, don't try, etc...)
-they make fun of us

2007-12-25 15:59:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous