So, since I graduated high school I've dated 3 different girls that all had the same thing in common. They all cheated on me at some point. I've been cheated on before and ended it but it kills me when they cheat and then end it...I feel like they got the upper hand on me. Personally, yeah it doesn't feel good but I hold myself like I can get whoever so it doesn't bother me in a large sense. I just hate when it feels like they get the upper-hand and dictated how it ends. I guess I may be kind of a control freak but girls do you feel like you gained something by ending it yourselves instead of the guy?
2007-12-25 16:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep i feeel your pain. i have been cheated n so many times and when i ended it, i finally just felt like i have the upper hand. but when they ended it i felt like crap. its normal. just forget those losers. God has someone wayyy better for you out there :) trust me ;) God bless.
2007-12-25 16:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to be the one to have to end a relationship, but sometimes when you feel it is inevitable making the decision yourself is better than waiting around for someone to hurt you by ending it. It has nothing to do with getting an "upper-hand" as you put it.
2007-12-26 00:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i hate break ups and i don't think anyone should feel like they have the upper hand. breaking up feels like ****. i just feel bad.
And since 3 girls have cheated on you maybe you should start looking for a different type of girl.
2007-12-26 00:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's "got the upper hand"?
2007-12-26 00:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by display name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see
u should always find a girl whom u think is guddd for yaaaaa
and if u thaught they were gudd for u(sometime)
it was your mistake your fault
AND ALL GIRLS R NOT THE SAME
2007-12-26 00:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by maina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had a boyfriend nor have i ever cheated haha which is good :P yeah u sound like u pick the good ones hey ur not alone i finally find a guy that matches my ideal man and i heard he raped a girl.........great!(hey dunno if its true but who knows)
2007-12-26 00:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm u have to find a good girl not bad girls who got sexy looks
2007-12-26 00:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋