Well first off i'll state a few facts about myself.. :)
I'm 15,
I'm 140 pounds (though i am very tall. i have a little bit of fat on my stomach and legs but i've never been told i'm fat or anything)
And i've been told i'm very pretty with an unusual look, but i think nothing of the sort.
I have very low self confidence. I think I am GINORMOUS and ugly and gross. But most of the time i try to look good when I go out and all these older guys look at me and check me out. But i get really self conscious about myself and turn the other way and walk off. Even if i think they're hot too. Sometimes i see people checking me out behind my back in mirrors and I get really uncomfortable but flattered. Please help me deal? I'm usually shopping with my mom ( i know, immature, but hey she loves it)
2007-12-25 17:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha. By "Older guys" I don't mean 30 or 40.. i mean like 17 or 18..
2007-12-25 17:49:47 · update #1
Quit worrying so much about your outward appearance. A good personality over shadows looks every time. The most important things are within you. Are you a nice person,do you treat others with kindness and respect, are you sincere, are you trustworthy, have you given yourself the opportunity to get a good education? Those are the things that count most.
People that depend on their looks to get by in life become bitterly disappointed when they get older. The attention and opportunities are taken from them, because their looks begin to fade, and they have failed to develop the rest of themselves.
2007-12-25 17:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what do you need help with?
What's your point?
well first of all you are 15, within time you will gain experience. They are older so it is best for you to stay away from those "Men" because obviously they dont respect. Most of them probably have a wife, kids or a gf at home. You are not a whor* which is why you are not going after these men. the right guy will aproach you and you will follow
2007-12-25 17:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by suga9ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like me 1 year ago until I read Proverbs 31:10-31( in the bible) God showed me that because he created me I am priceless. read these verses and let God tell you how much he values you. Then walk with your head held high because you are 1 in a billion.
2007-12-25 17:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go through the same thing i love when guys check me out but it kind of freaks me out and i use to have low confidence but one i realized this was who i was and began to love me for me my confidence went up and so did the # of boys on my phones contact list
2007-12-25 17:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just meet someone that's not randomly checking you out.
most ppl get freaked if a stranger is checking you out.
maybe you could meet someone with something more in common with you, like in a class or church or whatever it is you do.
good luck.
2007-12-25 17:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by seashell eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋