me and my gf have been 2gether almost 2 years she is 19 and i 18. in the beginng we had sex all the time and now it is like she is never in the mood other than that our relationship is great and i know how girls are you cant push them to do it because then it will just be the opposite, so i feel like i have done everything i was just wondering is there was any ladys out there or anyone with a few words of advise??? thanks
2007-12-25 16:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by cvogt1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be that her conscience has got the best of her.
She probably wants to make sure you love her for her and not just for sex.
If all else is great, be appreciative of a loving relationship and know that sex is not the end all be all.
2007-12-25 16:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When was the last time you changed it up? When was the last time u were romantic? Ofcouse she got tired of doin it the same way for 2 yrs be adventerous. Take her to victoria secret pick somthin nice and have some fun. If this doent help I'm sry
2007-12-25 16:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by southerntonguedevil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she on birth control now or something? I've heard it can kill the sex drive, though it had the opposite effect for me. Other than that, relationships at some point reach a plateau, and things get too comfortable. Try spicing up your sex life.
2007-12-25 16:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are eighteen and you write like this? I hope you are just being sloppy on purpose. If this is your real writing then your lady might be having second thoughts about the possibility of having a baby with these limited abilities showing.
2007-12-25 16:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As Mark Gungor (a hilarious marriage counselor) says:
Climb up the palm tree.
He means:
do somethin nice to her. You have to climb the palm tree before getting to touch the coconuts! Lol
2007-12-25 16:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Xite ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may not be easy, but it is better to have a sexless relationship until marriage, in doing this you can really know the person and then when you find the right one you will be able to keep a healthy sexual relationship based on love. and being connected.
2007-12-25 16:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jesus is the best. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because its not her FIRST time. She knows what happens in sex and she knows how it feels. She also doesnt have a hymen anymore which means theres nothing to break.
2016-05-26 06:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firsty try to be as sweet as possible with her......Complement her often on how great she looks.....n how much you like her.....tell her she luks just so beautiful naturally......Shez not in the mood probably coz shez feeling insecure about herself or her body.....So you must complement her on her body......try to catch hands n caress her as often u like........cuddle, etc. dont be tooo pushy......let everything go slowly n steadily......make her feel secure abt her looks n body......also create an atmosphere of love by putting lavender candles......take her out on a gr8 dinner.......den try to be intimate wid her but be slow.......u shud spice up your sex life by eating straberries dipped in chocolate while intimate n other such items.......experiment more......but most imp. make her trust you..........if ur sayin dat only ur sex life is down......so I guess shez not involved wid ne1 else....also build up your own body n never stop complementin her while makin love......but don go overboard.......also try discussing wid her the problem.....but at the right time.....I guess dat shud help you.....
2007-12-25 16:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by First L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is usually the beginning of the end. I would begin looking at her friends as possible replacements.
2007-12-25 16:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you are both young, and young people have short attention spans. Give your relationship a clean break and date other people.
2007-12-25 16:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋