ok,
my problem is..
im dating two guys..kinda
one of them i can see occasionally.
the other idk when i'll see.
maybe not for a very very long time...
well, i think im in love with the one i dont kno if i can see.
but i also like the one i can see sometimes.
but...
i cant keep "dating" them both...
because as expected neither of them are happy about it.
i just cant break up with either of them. idk why.
i just need some help.
2007-12-27 19:38:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're really that into either of these guys, You're into the idea of being in love and having romantic dramas.
If you loved them, you would respect their feelings and wishes as well as your own. As it is, you're in danger of treating them like extras in your personal soap opera.
Maybe you should look at the rest of your life. It's good to consider where you are and where you're headed every now and then, and this is a great time of year to do that.
Picture your ideal life, if everything was just as you wanted it, and then see what you need to do to get there.
What are your plans and ambitions? What's your current situation at school or work and how do you aim to improve it? How are your relationships with family and friends doing?
Love and romance should be part of your life, not all of it. A wonderful, fulfilling relationship is a great achievement, not just a lucky chance. Like all achievements, it takes time and effort to get there. Maybe one of these guys will be part of your life, maybe not, but it's your life. Start living it.
2007-12-27 19:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if i was you i would tell them the truth and hope that one of them will forgive you. If not then dont worry. If they love you they will forgive yooh! You dont need a boy to make you feel special. So thats my advice. Goodluck gorguz!
Tell me how you went! Bye
Monique xx
2007-12-28 03:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have fear of commement. Make a list of likes and dislikes of both. average the dislike # with the like # and the one with the higher # means more to you inless they have more dislikes then ther likes
2007-12-28 03:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by I miss you (RIP Mikey & Devan) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one you see most often. Long distant relationships rarely work.
2007-12-28 03:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAyum girls that's not cool...
well it depends which one you think treats you right(better), the one that means more to you, the one that won't get you mad very eaisly, things that are better
2007-12-28 03:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you have something better to do? Life isnt about guys and guys.
2007-12-28 03:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Shalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to dump one of them, would you like it if your boyfriend was spoted in town kissing another girl , do the right thing .......
2007-12-28 03:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like if u take sex out of the quation you'll know for yourself
2007-12-28 03:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by kisses and hugs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋