is this a good angry break up email? rate me 1-10! i love when an jack *** gets what he deserves . .?

Question

please read my previous question . .
I just broke up with BF via email
ITS OVER :

The damn text isn't going through so I'll make this
really clear, I want out.

you know what? I want to believe that this could work
but sorry . . everything inside of me is screaming
that I should let you go and that I deserve better
than this. I am here and you are there and this makes
no sense and why are you driving upstate with a girl
named Ashley?? . . would you like it if we were going
out and I drove upstate with Chris or Kyle or Peter or
Dustin . . . I don't think so . . . and why don't you
ever call or return my calls. I remember when I was
really worried about you, you had cut your head on a
rail road track and I left that worried message and
you never never called me back not even to say you
were ok. If you liked me that much than why don't you
think about me as much as I think about you? Why don't
you make me feel all warm and happy inside? You make
me feel really sad

(not anymore because I am through ok!)

I am always interested in how your day went even if
you wanted to talk to me about an awesome movie you
saw, I would listen to you just because it's something
you enjoyed and that makes me happy so that would make
me happy. You are going through a lot . . anyone
including myself can see that. I wanted to be there
for you . . I don't think you really care about me
though. Then maybe we just shouldn't date because it's
really really really really really really really
really not fair for me to have to wait for you to be
yourself again. Why should I have to be abused and
tortured by you emotionally. I deserve better and you
know what I've had better!!
First of all, you don't tell your girlfriend whom you
care about so much that a demon helped her . . thats
just mean . . thats abusive and not right and I am
soooooo not cool with that.
And then when was the last time you ever called me to
ask me if I just wanted to hang out and then when I do

call you say that you can't???? what the hell??!!

Look, I am not looking down on you because you are
going through a lot BUT i CERTAINLY DONT HAVE TO SIT
AROUND AND BE TREATED LIKE THIS!!

I talked to some friends and they enlightened me about
the way you've been treating me and they even said I
deserve better!

So don't bother looking for me when the new semester
comes, I probably won't even be there and if I am than
please give me my space .

that is all I have to say. Have a nice trip to San
Fran.

(and you were not fooling me by taking a "break" from
our relationaship the very week you were planning on
going to San Fran with you quote "friend" Ashley.
Thats probably why you didn't want me to come over to
say goodbye and thats probably why you didn't talk
with me on the phone very long. Have a nice SLEEP . .
. I mean trip.

bye

maybe it was too much but it felt really good telling putting that in words. I did give him too much credit but I don't care . . I am over it now, besides I am not a short and sweet kind of gal it has to be cold and dramatic . . . i want him to get an idea what the hell he put me through . . . after that I am at peace with everything

chow! everyone
I'm done with Y! Answers

Answer 1

As a jack *** myself we love when a girl gets mad when they break up with us....I will give you a lil secret don't show that it bothers you because we love that! and by how angry you sound it will just backfire and he will just sit there smiling with ashley laughing at you while your sitting there all mad.....just say i deserve better and you are not even close to being man enough for me because that way you are attacking him and not his actions......i shouldn't be giving away my secrets because who knows i might "play" you sometime but oh well....goodluck and if you need to spot a playa just ask me i can give ya some secrets

Answer 2

I hope you havent already sent him this, Degee is right its far too wordy and he is probably getting off on the fact he has so much control over your feelings. You dont want this hysterical, emotional email to be his last reminder of you, it would be far better for him to remember you as the cool girl who just wasnt that interested in him no matter what he did. Even though its really hard and you do want to have the last say. Ignoring him would be far better I think.

So to answer your question I would rate it 1/10 for effectiveness but 10/10 for venting & therapeutic purposes.

Answer 3

he sounds like a loserrrrrr...i definitely would not put up with behavior like that. you're doing the right thing by getting out of THAT relationship...but i think you put too much info into that whole thing. guys have like a 3 second attention span and what if he doesnt read the whole thing? i think it needs to be more to the point..like for example: you're a useless, ungrateful @sshole who doesn't deserve someone like me..i deserve waaayy better and i've HAD better and you're cramping my style. greaaatt..send ashley my regards..i mean regrets..byebyeee.


short and sweet =)
i ammm a lil dramatic at times but thats how i'd do it.

Answer 4

I think you are putting too much information in the email...I really don't think he'll read all of it and furthermore, he may share it with his friends and make a joke about how freaked out and angry you are over him...don't give him that much credit. Keep it short and simple.

Answer 5

Damn...I know The feeling But I Just Used The Old Kiss my @ss Line : )

Answer 6

Dang Girl! Its definately a 10...

Answer 7

Nice. That scores high. In my personal opinion though, I prefer to do things in person, whenever possible. That way you get to see them squirm when your accusations hit home. If I do anything in email I prefer to keep it short and sweet...

"Screw you."

That does the trick quite effectively.

Answer 8

sorry too much info on the email he could so his friends and they joke i agree and if your meaning giving a rate of bad : then 10 sorry as i said too much info and stuff

good:2 heys its better than 1!!!!!

Answer 9

he wont read it. maybe on the toilet ....if he's off with some other girl...he definitely wont read it..

but, if it made you feel good to write it and 'its over'....bury the note in the backyard and let your dog poo on it.

Answer 10

you want the truth?that was retarted.was that suppose to hurt?
ya you got -2