ok well my birthday is on saturday and the BIGGEST crush i have ever had is comming (him and his brother) and i have now clue how i should act around him last time we hung out i was really flirty and it kinda worked but not really so i need some flirting tips things i should do (like hold hand and stuff like that)
plezzz help!!!!!
-♥-
♥me♥
2007-12-27 18:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by <3 Allie nash :) <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fala thank you for the happy birthday!
and thanks to every one
2007-12-27 19:23:49 · update #1
like when your talking put your hand on his shoulder!!
2007-12-27 19:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dylannnnnn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like a lady. Don't hold his hand. If he reaches out to hold your hand, then let him do it for a few minutes, then say you have to mingle with your other guests.
If you toss yourself at him, people will notice and laugh behind your back. He will notice and probably know that you are going to be an easy mark.
If you act like a lady, and make yourself special to him by not being easy to get to, and by not being too encouraging, you will have found your groove. You will be special because he has to work at getting you to pay attention to him. You will also be special because when he does get your attention, it will feel like an accomplishment to him.
This is kind of how relations between men and women work. No matter how badly you want to throw yourself into his arms, be sure he's the one asking, and that you always stop or cut it short before he does.
This party is for everyone, and they are coming for you, so do be sure not to treat it like a date. Treat him as a special guest, but make sure everyone else feels special, also.
Have fun!
2007-12-28 03:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting can get you in trouble do you want a boy friend or a one night stand? When you answer the question then act accordingly
Make sure you do not get the sign crossed.
Happy birthday! Have FUN.
2007-12-28 03:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by ex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT throw yourself at him, or be too available. Just be friendly and use body language and maybe the touch on a hand or shoulder while having a conversation to show that you ARE approachable. Do not spend too much time with him, mingle with everyone there.
2007-12-28 03:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Soapflake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal. First of jus' be cool like nothing has happend as he arrives. Dont make him feel so sweet this might lead you not to get him into your arms. I mean, do not keep your eyes on him all the time. Pretend.......... let him feel like u dont need nothing. Then you can get to hook him up after the party is over. Hey! Happy birthday.
2007-12-28 03:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dont go too hard, or he'll get scared off! Act confident and flirty at the same time, but don't go too far!
its a bigger turn on for guys the girls that they can almost get, but not quite!!
keep him runnin 4 u!!!!
2007-12-28 03:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm a guy and i hate flirty girls it makes you look loos and not that much attractive be suttle and descreete act like hes not there but glance at him every so often dont be on his meat like hes got money down there
2007-12-28 03:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are shooting a movie....DON'T ACT! I know this is a tired expression but be who you are. Be comfortable with yourself and pay attention to how other people are "acting" It makes it easier to see who the posers are and who the real people are. Acting is a lot like lying. the more you do it the harder it is to keep it up!
2007-12-28 03:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by deubee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, this is the single most important piece of advice I can give you, because they aren't going to feel any vibes with you if you act phony around them to impress them. And if they do like you because of your phoniness, nothing will ever become of your relationship because you can't fake your behavior forever.
Being yourself is the only way to be in life, and if people don't like it they can go screw themselves, because that's the only way you can ever be happy.
2007-12-28 03:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he looks at you stick your tongue out like in a childish way and then smile and look away. When you do things like that it inadvertedly puts a dirty thought in his mind and he will be thinking about you all night.
2007-12-28 03:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well simple.. when u talk to him.. sit beside him and look him in the eye in flirting way.. than he will be shy and all the u make move by holdin his hand and say to him.. "i think u look cute"..
that will work..
2007-12-28 03:03:54 · answer #11 · answered by Ezz@cRaps 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋