hes a gym rat, loves going to the gym and kinda watches what he eats in terms of high cholesterol or high sugar foods. I'm 5'3 119lbs. Today we were together and in his converstaion he goes "like you r not thin" which made me mad and I asked him if he thinks Im fat and he said "ur not fat ur average"..which makes me madder cuz I think Im thin ..average means between thin and chubby...what do u guys think??
2007-12-27 19:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by kera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over yourself, you're way too shallow, both of you, if you're average it means your neither under weight or over weight, but you already knew that didn't you?You're just making a fuss over nothing.
2007-12-27 22:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your relationship is based on his view of his body and everyone else's. He's self-centered and shouldn't have even said what he did about you being thin or otherwise.
Women's bodies look different in different times of their lives. Does he want thin, like starving thin? Are you even built to be scrawny thin? Do you have long Thoroughbred muscles on long lean bones, or do you have a different type of body structure?
I'd dump this Adonis and find someone who just likes to be alive. It would be lots more fun. And for heaven's sake, don't worry yourself about whether a word or phrase describes you. If you feel good in your jeans, and can feel happy during the day, and are healthy, then smile and leave this guy with his magic mirror on the wall!
2007-12-27 19:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a typical guy, I'm pretty sure your BF wasn't meaning to offend you at all. Most guys I know prefer average-weight girls to the boyishly skinny type, so saying that probably means he likes you just how you are. 5'3 & 119 is NOT fat. In fact, its probably ideal.
2007-12-27 19:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by modax42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh for gods sake woman! thats a good thing not being thin! if ur happy with ur wieght then dont fret over wot ur boyf says, he didnt mean anything horrible by saying it it may even be a compliment as in your not skin and bone! when people say thin i think of stick thin people (like posh spice!) dont get pissy at him accept that ur not thin trust me its a good thing to have a bit of meat on you!
2007-12-27 19:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Crissie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend seems a man of few words,and you do not sound to thin you sound about right to me , I think he thinks you are the right size but has not got the right words to say he likes you as you are . Being to thin is not a good thing and men do not like women to thin you sound like you are a good size to be you are SLIM lucky you xx
2007-12-27 19:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 is thin
10 to 12 average 14 and over fat
regards x Kitti x
2007-12-27 19:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't matter if he called you average. it could have been worse and he could have called you fat. i am sure you would have been offended then. he obviously has a different opinion to you about your build. tell him how you feel about this. he may think this because he is around all dofferent people at the gym and sees people of all different sizes
2007-12-27 22:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Average is a great place to be in the terms of fat or thin. I would call this perfect, and him an A**hole!!!!!!
2007-12-27 19:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by James S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is so critical then he does not love YOU. He wants you to be someone else. Someone thinner and muscled. I would suggest that he has you as you are or not at all.
Happy New Year.
2007-12-27 20:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by ANF 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5'3 119?
you sound about right to me
BTW some guys do this to keep their GFs in check from gaining to much weight
2007-12-27 19:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋