I moved three states away, we reconciled, I moved three states back. She says she still has problems with me, OK< and she says, Go Away from me, don't call, don't write, don't darken my door. I did. Now she sends all manner of e-mail, I have responded once, out of ten. She has called at 6/am, twice and won't speak, but the caller ID says it's her. I have not called, or initiated contact. Should I , and the love has cooled on my end. This woman inflicted herself on me, and now seems to think I owe her more explanations. Still three states away, and safe. Thanks.
2007-12-27 19:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by Tacit Hue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay way you have more to do with your life than be entrapped by a silly girl ~~
2007-12-27 19:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a tad confusing. First off you do need to tell her that you don't have feelings for her anymore and you don't want to pursue a relationship and to back off and not contact you in any shape or form. After that if it continues you need to get her numbers blocked from calling your phone and mark her email as spam so you don't even bother looking at it. In the end it might come to a restraining order against her but some people get so obsessed about something there isn't much besides that you can do. You never know what a person is capable of when they are in a certain state of mind.
2007-12-27 19:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Virginia Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably best to confront her. This relationship needs closure and with a clean break you have the authority to tell her to leave you alone. Proximity plays a big part in how well a relationship turns out and the distance can cause rifts in communication. Make sure the both of you are on the same page and that she knows you want nothing to do with her (if that's the case) If she's clingy, then you might have to move another state away and change ur number. Good Luck!
2007-12-27 19:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls want what they can't have and vice versa. maybe she's lonely and taking that out on u right now. i'd suggest that u try to cut-off contact for your own sake b/c it's not fair to you. if u can't ut it off right away, then be up-front with her and ask point-blank why she would lack interest and then seem to want to be with you all of a sudden.
2007-12-27 19:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you moved 3 states away for her and then she says go away....I'd stay away....very far away....too immature for me...calling and not saying anything is way too high school !
2007-12-27 19:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by nemofish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you :) lol. Send you away, and now want you back.definetely confront.
Good Luck!
2007-12-27 19:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your problem. She has an obsession.
2007-12-27 19:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋