I met a girl last year in a bar. She was a stripper. She works on the side as a prostitute and I availed of her services. We never had intercourse just oral sex. She is not very good at it. We still communicate sometimes. She lives in another city. I find her very attractive but I don't really like her personality. But why do I always think about her? and when I think about her it is usually non-sexual. I asked her to look for another job and even help her financially. No, I don't want her to be my girlfriend. I am concerned about her. But I often ask myself why I should care what happens to her. She is just hooker. But I always worry if she is ok and stuff. What's happening to me?
2007-12-27 22:12:44 · 16 answers · asked by Simon U 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u care bout her.. i mean it couldn't be any other thing. and to show u care bout her to tried to help her out financally and everything. ur just a person that cares and have concerns for other people easily there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-12-27 22:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have feeling for her and that could be sign of good human being provided you have same feeling when you show a poor boy on the street.
2007-12-28 06:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by smart ca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be you are starting to respect her as a person instead of using her for gratification? You care for her as a human should. We all make mistakes in our life.
Women do deserve respect and not to be judged by what they do. I will pray that she finds a better way of life. Continue to offer her your friendship.
2007-12-28 06:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be just attraction sometimes due to something or the other you can get to feel like this but it's different this time .........you really need to stop this as she is having a different world try to look ahead i know it's not only difficult but it's almost helpless....so you can try something real and different........see by your text only i can predict that it's just a mere attraction this time you may feel pity on her that's why you may be concerned of her.it's contagious......so really try something different ...........don't sit in a corner ......
2007-12-28 06:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have some feelings for her or you wouldn't have ask this question..Hookers need friends to.Tell her that if she ever need a friend,you will be there for her.No strings attached.Good Luck!
2007-12-28 06:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being grown-up and caring and compassionate. And that's good. But if you try to get in contact with her, it'll probably just lead to trouble. Much easier to stay away.
2007-12-28 06:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask yourself first like: What do I really expect from what I'm doing? Is it really for my sake or for her sake? Do I really want to do this or do I feel compelled to do this? Am i doing this because I have feelings for her or do i treat it as charity work? Hope this helps.
2007-12-28 06:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by *yawn* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's so nice of you. But, I'm sure your concerns ARE selfish and you do want her sexually.
2007-12-28 06:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Enigma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably reminds you of some1 you really cared about.
2007-12-28 06:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jamaican girl<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its your fatherly figure in you coming out. You want to help her.
2007-12-28 06:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Nessie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋