2007-12-27 21:41:51 · 17 answers · asked by CATRINA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most men are like this and are very selfish people. Their lesson in life is to learn how to give and a women's lesson in life is to learn that she can survive on her own without a male partner. But yes its ugly to see these men who are very much "ME" orientated and suggest to look for one that knows how to give.
2007-12-27 21:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys aren't the only ones guilty of this either. I've met a few girls with a me first attitude.
It depends on the person. I think everyone has that attitude at first, but when you enter into a relationship that is hopefully heading somewhere you had better make sure both people have a "relationship first, you second" attitude.
2007-12-28 05:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you mean while dating? It's because they view a date like a job interview. First, they are there to see if they want to continue dating you. Once they've decided they do want to take you out again, they start going on about themselves to assure you that they are the "right guy for the job." They wouldn't get a job if they didn't big note themselves, and they approach a date the same way. It's a shame their parents didn't teach them the difference.
2007-12-28 05:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for a long time chivalry was our way of saying we want you to be first, and over time it has come to be expected. Now if we actually have a problem and need to focus on ourselves, we get questions like this one.
2007-12-28 05:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by linked2gether 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the guys who do it are generally egotistical. Can't say all men are like this but some i have met are. best thing to do is to yawn and walk away. they really are boring.
2007-12-28 05:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not gender specific. Many people, men and women, have that 'me first' attitude. It's the way they were brought up; overindulged, every whim catered to, never required to take responsibility for their actions. Welcome to today's society. You want to fix it? Teach your children to take responsibility for their actions.
2007-12-28 05:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by capandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I guess it must be from birth that they get it. The females in the relationship their girlfriend, finacee, wife etc. need to work on it with them.
2007-12-28 05:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see i think women are just as much me first as men are but they do it in a way that does not make them look like the bad ones
they want to stay home for the kids but in reallity there just lazy and dont want to work, or they think they need new clothes cuz they dont want there kids to see mom with old clothes
see were im going with this they say its for the kids but really its for them, as for the man they dont hide behind it they just come out and say it
2007-12-28 05:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hunting instinct from the caveman era - days gone by.
2007-12-28 05:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Drews Princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but I have gotten tired of it, and just broke up with my bf for the same reason.
2007-12-28 05:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋