He ended our one year and 3 months relationship because of another girl. What should I do?

Question

Hi,

Me and my ex were unimates and we have been together for more than a year. He broke up with me last night because he says that he doesn't see us in the long term, and he is attracted to another girl who is his colleague. He has graduated and is currently working, while I am in my junior year. But he doesn't want to discard our period of relationship and regret it, so he is giving himself a week to figure things out. He keeps saying he doesn't know what he is doing, and he needs a little time. What does this mean? Do you think I should give him another chance? I was very serious with him, and we are staying in the same house, but in different rooms. I would deeply appreciate any advice and opinion/ perspective.

Thanks.

Answer 1

the reason he broke up w/ u is that he's attracted in another girl. i think he needs time not to think but to choose between the two o u. if the other girl didn't go out w/ him or doesn't like him, then he will go back to u. if he really loves u, he wouldn't do this.

move on. try to spend some time w/ your friends or date other guys. don't show him that he's the last man on earth. he does this to u because he knows he can go back to u anytime he wants.

you'll find someone better.

Answer 2

If he has any doubts about you two having a future together, then he is probably telling you the truth. Be thankful he was honest. Most guys would cheat and not give it a second thought.

Really, the fact that he does not see you two in the long term means he already knows he would never marry you. Don't be a stool pigeon and wait around for this guy while he has his fun with this new chic-duh. Tell him you aren't giving him a week to think then you have the upper hand-see?

Answer 3

First off, some advice I wish I could take myself....DON'T OVERBEAR HIM! Do not text him, call him, give him guilt trips, tell him how much you love him. NOTHING. You will drive him away even faster! You can maybe set up and time to sit him down to talk about your feelings so that he does know, but don't push them onto him. If he says that he is going to take a week to figure things out, then in that week he needs to feel how it would feel to be without you! If he isn't without you for that week, then he will not be able to visualize what life will be without you.

Since you do stay in the same house, maybe one night sneak into his room and slip into bed just to show him that you do care. Because if you just drop him like a bad habit for the whole week he might think that you really don't care about him.

Just don't overbear him! That is the best advice anyone can give someone!

Answer 4

Don't give any time to figure out love. At least he's being a honest. Hey they all don't work out. There's others, not to mention if you TALK him in ti coming back, he'll still end up leaving sometime. If I married any of my ex's that I didn't want to let go... heck I'd regret it for sure. Just keep on truckin hun, GOD has the right one for you. Just wait for those pieces to fall into place. In the mean time go have fun with life.

Answer 5

So you know the background of splitting with you and he has taken the entire mental liability on his own even of staying with you in the same building. May be this is one of the reason for losing interest in you.What I suggest, maintain your self respect, giving of chance is a balancing or compromising act whee there exists no other respectable or suitable option. But since you are not married to him you need not to worried about him. Moreover if he finds that even of his liking/dating with another girl has not damaged the relation he is having with U , in future the same situation may likely to occur and then u will be no where. So, leave him in lieu of giving another chance but mentally u can wait confidentially just to verify whether he repents for his act sincerely. Take decision accordingly. Best of luck.

Answer 6

give him another chance to do what, hurt you again, is all he wants is the chance to be with that other girl, who knows she may not even like him after a week, thats why he "quote" needs a little time, haaa!!!, if I were you, I would not even give him the time of day, you should find things to do without him, as hard as it might be,,,come and go as you please, you know longer have him to answer to, and what you do is none of his business, nor the company(male) you may decide to keep, if any, just change the way you feel about him, and move on,,,,he don't deserve you,,,,good luck!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Why do no longer you in simple terms refer to him approximately it till now you do something rash . tell him which you're feeling as while you're being caged in . You adult males can paintings on making it greater suitable quite than falling by means of the wayside and calling it quits . Make him come to a determination . If he can not be adventurous or perhaps attempt than it is sturdy reason to break it off . You replaced for him , now that's his turn to alter for you . desire this opens new doorways for you (:

Answer 8

Well life and show must go on. Time has answer to all questions. You can talk once but be sure you will have another good opportunity for you in future. All the best

Answer 9

well if he needs time then he really doesnt know if he is in love with you or not ... tell him maybe you and him do need to take time apart and date other people .. and dont live together while dating others ...make sure you both want the same thing ..he already has doubts ... i wouldnt want to be with anyone who didnt want to be with me

Answer 10

Tell him that you are going to take this week to date others also, to see how you relly feel. See if he appreciates that.