Do u ever wish you could just become a cold hearted *****, so u didnt have to feel pain, love,hatred ???I just want to cut out my feelings cos i cant stand the pain of not having him ad so much more... does anyoe know how to do this like hypnotherapy or something?? I know it seems drastic but i feel it would be worth it !!!!
2007-12-27 23:08:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are somethings that can help you avoiding the pain faster,but remember..you are just avoiding and motivating yourself to forget it.It can lead into baggage in the future that will ruin your future relationship with someone really meant for you.I know it's hard and it will takes time but I rather feel the pain and let it fade.After all no one in this earth hasn't feel it although in different ways.
The things we avoid could just keep in our subconscious and will haunt us,It can be in our dream,our feelings or even in our thoughts.
Enjoy and make yourself occupied,when you want to cry let it out,it's more healthy than cut out your feelings.
Don't forget to pray too, for He's always there to help us.
Good luck
2007-12-27 23:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by freeverse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, you know I sometimes feel the same way too.
You know like life would be much easier if I were cold hearted and never cared about anyone and stuff like that.
But then that would be unfair to anybody who wants to love you.
There are so many good people out there...they deserve you. Just be nice and care for everyone, even if they never cared about you. That's fine. You'll get your reward from someone else eventually.
2007-12-27 23:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by what goes around comes around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing this pain in order to prepare you for something in your future. It could be to make you learn how to appreciate a truly good guy that will come along later.
In time you will heal.
2007-12-27 23:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all in your mind..if you don't think about it and just think that there are A LOT more out there..then i think you would be fine..
2007-12-27 23:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by dnycomp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋