in the beginning of the term, i was deemed as the most fun and well-liked girl in my class, everyone loved me and found me sincere and loving. furthermore, i'm rather tall slim and unique-looking compared to most people in my school, thus that maybe helped in drawing certain people closer to me. i was a hyper and fun-filled girl and always on the go with my friends.
however, s time goes by, i realised that friends started drifting away from me slowly. one day i found myself at a point w/o much friends. when having activities in class, i'd end up as the left odd one out.
right now is term break and i'm really bored and lonely. i have no idea who to call out to town with me, neither did i have anyone to celebrate with on christmas and upcoming new year.
where does the problem here?? guys can you pls help me out by telling me what's actually happened and how do i do to solve this problem? thank you.. i really need help.
2007-12-27 22:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think it too hard. All you need to do is:
1. easy going
2. try to smile to your friend, around you
3. start a conversation or joke with friend around you
4. do not only think yourself, think other (they're special, they're important than/to you)
5. be the first to help them, do not wait until they ask
6. don't ask their attention, give them your attention
7. think positive
2007-12-28 02:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. That could be one of those horrible/amazing things that helps you realize what/where you want to be in life. Maybe you are getting sick of the situations or bored and sometimes that means you need a new atmosphere. As for the boy thing. I don't really know. I had my first real boyfriend at 17 but I didn't really care enough to put effort into it. So maybe you just aren't into that right now, or you are but don't know how to go about it. I used to have a tons of friends to but maybe you need one really steady like best friend, someone who you do a lot with inside/outside school.
2016-04-11 05:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta go with James on this. If you were being fake, then thats gonna drive people away quickly.
But if not then it's probly due to a rumor.
You have to be a detective with this kind of stuff. And you have to only trust your closest friends.
Keep your ears open for anything out of the ordinary when people are talking if it involves you. Look at your surroundings to notice anything.
Is it someone your hanging out with? Something your doing? Something you didnt do? Its things like this that people love to gossip over. But you shouldnt let this stuff get to you. People are gonna talk regardless of what you do and this is when you find out who is your friend and who isnt.
Besides, you gotta ask yourself, was the people you were hanging out with the type of crowd you loved being around, or did you just do it to have people around you.
If you did, then it's not a problem of people, it's a problem of who you are and what you are looking for.
2007-12-27 22:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Cory Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you know better than I do what your problem is, hon. Sounds like you shouldn't have any from what you wrote. It may be a phase you're going thru. Learn to make a pizza and invite a friend over to visit. Invite your friend to listen to music witih you. Go for a walk in a near by park with her or him. Most popular ppl reach out to others.
2007-12-27 22:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this has happened 2 me as well, after a while people start to get bored of other people. it happens.
start making new friends, but still keep friends with the other people that left you. that way you will hav new friends and gradually your old ones will come bak to you!
keep positive cos people like to stay away from negativity and sadness. stay hyper!
2007-12-27 22:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by killer Leprechauns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u sound exactly like me. and im not kidding around. im well liked. ive made many friends. im nice, funny, out going and other good stuff. im also good looking, not trying to be cocky. since the start of the year my friends and I ahve been drifting apart. and now at the end. on hollowen, christmas and I will be on boxing day spending time alone. im not sure if ur in high school in college, but ive been told that in hs, its a stage. but i have been thinking of switching schools.im not sure waht to do anymore. it would be great to have someone in ur lives. u sound like me, I would like to talk, if u want email me. good luck and happy new year
2007-12-27 22:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you've done something that you don't know. That you didn't seem to notice. If not, try to talk to them to clear things out. I hope that you wouldn't be alone or bored there. I hope my piece of advice has helped you. Don't think that you're alone or what. Keep in mind that "no man is an island."
2007-12-27 22:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i think is the problem is here is that you and ur just started to go down a different path. i mean and there is nothing wrong with that i mean now ur lonely and everything i mean just get out there and meet some people to hang it.
2007-12-27 22:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore the first answer you received and here is what you do, learn to like yourself and not care what other people think of you or how many friends you have and do the best that you can do and everything will work out fine
2007-12-27 22:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
too little info to go on. be a good friend and have patient endurance during down times. your happiness needs to come from yourself. others just influence you.
2007-12-27 22:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋