I'm not in this situation now, but I know I will be eventually. How does a girl deal with a moody guy? Sometimes if a girl reaches her hand out to help, he'll just bite her. Especially if she's the cause of his pain (whether she did anything wrong or not). So guys? How can a girl help the man she cares about without agitating him?
2007-12-27 22:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by YearoftheRat 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not normally a moody person, but there are two things that can make me that way: girl troubles and money troubles.
The first thing you could do to help is ask. Don't ask like you think he might break. Do it as if you're asking if you can help clean his living room.
The second thing is not to act like there's something terribly wrong. Don't tiptoe around or ask him if he's moody. Just go about your business like normal.
The next thing is not to play games. Women have a tendency to want to sugar coat everything. That's great if you're dealing with children, but not if you're dealing with men. You need to be totally honest and up front no matter how uncomfortable it might be. If you need to turn a guy down, then just do it. Don't ever make up excuses or lead him on. Don't say, "Maybe another time," or "I'll call you," when you really mean "No." The only feelings you're sparing are your own. You're being cruel to him, because you just told him you're interested and that he should ask again. If you're not interested in him, make sure he knows it.
Finally, if he's just the moody sort, whether bipolar or something less extreme, then ignore it. Don't ride his roller coaster. Go back up to the first and second things above, but if he's just too moody, then consider looking for someone else to spend your time with.
-yk
P.S. BTW, you've given some excellent answers. Why don't you allow anyone to add you as a contact?
2007-12-28 12:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Yaakov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody helps moody guys. Get over it and be like all the other cold-hearted women. Women only want men who make them laugh.
2007-12-27 22:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Yes_I_Can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant , moody people will always be that way and do not like to be helped. The best thing you can do is give him space when he is in a mood
2007-12-27 22:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people should first think how they are infront of others.
if they care for others, they will get respect without doing anything else.
2007-12-27 22:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by krishna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋