Well me and this really nice guy have been friends for a long time now. We even went out before, but I had to breake up with him. Dont ask why...anyways we never exchanged numbers before because we're practicly neighbors, but all of the sudden he asks for my number so I gave it to him. We text like everyday for 3 hours straight and he told me I was beautiful and he loved me! I was soooo happy! He asked me if I wanted to get back together with him. I really do...but how can I believe all of this over a text? Why doesnt he say it to my face, or even call me? I'm really confused...and I dont want it to be awkward at school or anything...please help! Thanks for your time to read this! :P
2007-12-27 21:43:37 · 17 answers · asked by Another Knife In my Hands 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think it depends on the reason for you breaking up. but, if you love him ring him and ask him. Also you could go up to him and talk to him rather than actually texting, as you can't really tell wether they are having you on or not. It is entirely up too you!
2007-12-27 21:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have know the guy for a long time and you guys talk regularly, than it would be natural for him to start to like and love you, especially if you guys have a past and he never got over you, but the first thing you want to talk about is why you broke up with him in the first place and if this will occur again, because the last thing you want to do is make the same mistake twice. Also, if you really want to take it to the next level with him, maybe you guys should start talking on the phone and go out more often then just text. Texting is stil communication but hearing it and saying it is much different that spelling it out in a text. I m just saying take it slow since you did break up with him before, there is always dating the guy before you actually take the next step and get in a relationship with him. Good Luck!
2007-12-27 21:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by spartansparta09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text back and say you believe a guy ought to ask a girl out to her face, rather than in a text message. I'm sure he'll rock up within a few days :)
2007-12-27 21:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he doesn't want to see your reaction and feel pathetic in case you reject him after you broke up with him once before. You don't have to believe this over a text, but you have to consider what he might've felt when he sent those texts.
If you're really confused, don't answer him right away. Give it a few days, and if he still wants to get back together, then he's serious. :)
Good luck!
2007-12-27 21:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by eDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 10:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all....this is no guy if he doesnt call you and ask you to your face
if your mates surely you must go out at weekends?
whatever you do DONT agree until he says it to you directly be honeset with him tell him that you need to hear it from him face to face and then it will be more special
if he really wants you and likes you he'll do practically anything if he doesnt then its all a front
good luck x
2007-12-27 21:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a text isnt nessesarily a bad thing. he might be afraid of showing how he feels, seeing as you broke up with him once before..He might not be sure that you'll want to get back with him. And trust me telling someone that you love them is not an easy thing to do. Im sure if you accept him he'll have the guts to say it to your face.
2007-12-27 21:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by surfer2thextreme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you talk by text then ask him if he would tell you in person and ask him over text. But the real question is does he talk to you other than text ?
2007-12-27 21:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by CHRISTINA E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he feel shy to say it on ur face as you said long time and u didnt exchange numbers so have a enough time with this new way of communication then u will relaize by ur self !! good luck
2007-12-27 21:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Norma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to be a man and tell you in person. just bring up the conversation again when you see em.. ask him if he really meant what he said. and then ask him.. do you remember what you said? what did you say? and bam!.. he has to tell you. and if he does, tell him how you feel too.. dont let him be the only one confessing every last word.. this way you both open up for future communication.
2007-12-27 21:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by rockstar101481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋