Singles & Dating - 23 December 2007

Ok, i've had it up to here with being single. I am 18 and I have never had a girlfriend. I've never kissed in my life and I've never even seen boobs in the flesh.

Problem is there is no way a guy like me can find a girl on an island like this. the girls here suck, they are close-minded, boring and it takes a girl 6 months here ona varage to move to base 2. Could ALL the girls be like that? Yes, that's what happens when you live on a small island, everyone is the same.

Another thing is that most girls i've met are 'scared' of being in a long relationship. So what am I sopposed to do? go in a relationship which I am for certain it's not going to work out? no thanks.

I've already tought it over to 'fix' myself and get rid of this sexual urge. I'm 6 years past my ******* puberty god dammit.

2007-12-23 14:13:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been two months and he says it was a big mistake, but I'm still having trust issues. Me questioning him all the time is making things worse. Guys- is talking to girls online serious? And girls- what would you do?

2007-12-23 14:09:22 · 25 answers · asked by Lynnesky 2

idk what to do. im white btw and im not attracted to white guys at all!!! and my family doesnt approve of interracial dating. but i dont want to end up with someone i dont really love because i want to please them. ..any advice?

2007-12-23 14:08:35 · 21 answers · asked by xolifeislove 1

i recenty did a singing concert and i had three rehersals with a band and i thought the guitarist was hot but we never spoke, the concert was a few days ago and it all went well, and after when i was walking out the guitarist turns to me and says hey you did really well in your song, i said aw thanks you too then i walked off, and i cant stop thinking about him now, it doesnt take much for me to like someone, im 14 but almost 15 and my friend thinks hes like 20! but no way i think hes about 16 or 17. in a week when the place opens agin i will ring them for his number because i need to ask him if its ok for me to put the footage of the concert on the internet, please help, what shouldi say to him on the phone thats flirty but not desprete? and i want no answers of people saying i shoudl stay away form him becaus eim too young or stick to my studes as alot of peopel say. thankyouuuuuuuu

2007-12-23 13:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently seperated from my fiance about 3 months ago, during that time I guess I got lonely and started seeing this other guy. I never gotten completely over my ex even though I seperated from him because of cheating issues on his part. I still love him and want to be with him its just a matter of rebuild the trust if I can and Ive been afraid to give it another try. He keeps telling me he has changed and he wants to be with me. He never physically cheated on me but he had online flirting relationships with women, recieving inappropriate pictures. Now I have this other guy in the picture and he is so sweet to me and he is so much fun to be around he could be a great boyfriend, he is trying to be patient. I really like him at the same time and would like to get to know him better I just dont know how I would fit in his life he is twice my age. I feel like I have made a mess I am torn between two guys. I like him yet I still love my ex, and I dont know who to move forward with.

2007-12-23 13:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by ecuaprincessachi 2

I was shocked by a recent question from a 6th grader (11 years old) regarding a boy and dating.

At what age are kids actually going out now and do parents get involved in this? I can't believe a parent would allow a 6th grader to go out by themselves, would they?

2007-12-23 13:47:36 · 32 answers · asked by MadforMAC 7

i know im young but ive had two serious relationships of 3 years and recently 1 year. both girls have broke my heart. i hate being single i get afaird that i wont find someone else.my friends say im attractive but i still get nervous i wont find someone.my last girlfriend dosent want a bf anymore but every few days she will call me or text me saying she misses me. so it gives me hope we can get back together then i wont hear from her for days. do you think she is playing with my head? i want to get over her but i keep calling her and driving by her house to see if shes home. i hate being alone

2007-12-23 13:45:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do girls think of bodybuilders??? ive been training alote but im not really a bodybuilder but just really fit i would like to become one but i kinda find that nasty to be so big and most girls tell me that dont like bodybuilders so thats pretty much why i dont push it to the next level but i just want to know what other girls think???

2007-12-23 13:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

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ok so I wanna surprise my guy and showed up on his doorstep naked he has no roomates BUT he lives in an apartment where neighbors are close by should i do it

GUYS if your girl did that how would u react

GUys if u saw a nude girl on your neighbors doorstep what would u do

2007-12-23 13:42:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in 6th grade and there is this boy I really like and he knows I like him. My friend also knew I liked him, but when he asked her out, she said yes. I really want him to break up with her and ask me out. What should I do?

2007-12-23 13:41:06 · 20 answers · asked by coolnerdpopular 2

im 16...? i like 1 girl which is in our class i love her too much . i dont know wheather she loves me or want to be my friend . i dont know wat to do to make her frnd .

2007-12-23 13:39:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard woman talking about which type of penis they prefer. I think it should not matter.
My 2 exboyfriends were circumcised and my boyfriend now isnt. I dont feel any difference but i think uncircumcised ones tend to be more pleasurable? What do u think??

2007-12-23 13:23:56 · 6 answers · asked by Bunty 1

There is this girl that I love more than anything... but she doesn't notice me. It makes me so sad, but all I have is a picture of her... so I use it to imagine when I masturbate. Well, my friend found out. (He asked me if I did, but I denied it. He could tell though by the way I was blushing. So I admitted it.)
Well, he likes her too, and told her. Now I am so embarrassed I want to kill myself. She just thinks I am a perv, and now she will never like me.

I am not talking to my friend anymore. What should I do?

2007-12-23 13:22:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really do love him. I thought I had been in love before but its nothing compared to this. the problem is that he has a girl friend that he has been with for about 9 years now...I don't know why they aren't married yet...but whatever. I got drunk last night with them and I couldn't stop touching him. but I don't think she saw any of this. he made it clear that we are just friends. I think the right thing to do would be to just stop talking to them so I can get over him or at least not ruin their relationship. I have been thinking this for a while. but the thought of him not being there anymore makes me feel like life just isn't worth it and I can't stop crying. also...he flirts with me a lot but then he turns around and says that we are just friends and tries to make that clear. I would give anything to be with him. what do I do?

2007-12-23 13:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 2

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2007-12-23 13:07:47 · 12 answers · asked by shortstump911 1

This is for the Men...when you are attracted to a certain woman, what goes through your mind about her? Do you think about her constantly?

2007-12-23 13:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by **Sparkle** 1

Me and my boyfriend have had sex many times but for some reason i rip more and more each time we dont do nothing differnt so why does this keep happening. we use a condom too.

2007-12-23 13:02:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

yo yes its a girls problems my ex and i been apart for 7 month now but why cant i get over her everytime i see like her pix or remember place we been to i still have this weird feeling like i miss her and i dont really seen to be very interesting in other girl i seen but only for girl that almost looks like her. do ya think i should try to hook up back with her or just for get about her im those type of person that doesnt show feeling im lost at sea

2007-12-23 13:02:39 · 5 answers · asked by WILD_V 3

I am 20 yrs old i am severely lonly...i dont know what to do...right now i feel as my life will never change....ever since me and the friends that have betrailing me broke up i only have a couple friends to talk to and they are the type of friends that dont like to go out and do any thing. so basically i am always at home... all weekend with nothing to do and i dont have a boyfriend.... i am getting depressed can soneone please help me..i feel i am wastingh my life.... and i will regret it

2007-12-23 12:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl at my chruch she say i was cute like 4 or 5 times and she stare and smile at me and when i look sad she makes a sad nosie and then next week when i walk into chruch she was siting like 2 feet of me i look everywhere and i see her looking at me and i look at her and after ilook at her we move fast are face and after chruch is over she stare at me like 20 or 15 sec does she like me?

2007-12-23 12:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 and a virgin. I see a hot guy and all i think about is doing the dirtiest things. I have dreams at night about sex, all i think about is riding guys. I mean, theres about 10 guys at my school i would die to have sex with. I dont even want a relationship, i want a boyfriend to have sex with, thats it. Ive read things about positions, everything and i cant get it off my mind. How could i be feeling this when ive never even had sex? Is it normal? if a guy asked me to have sex i would jump on the chance, (protected of course, im a smart girl) is this normal? Its like a craving??? oh god somebody help me.

2007-12-23 12:52:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

big hips/thighs
small waist

2007-12-23 12:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by yesyesyesladies and gentlemen 1

2007-12-23 12:45:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want one1

2007-12-23 12:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by Fufu Head 4

or alone?

2007-12-23 12:42:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guys tells a girl he isn't looking for a serious relationship...but tells her alot that he misses her & when she doesn't call him, then he questions why she hasn't...what is he doing? What does he want? If he really & truly doesn't want to be serious yet, then does he want her to call/text him all the time & seem really interested or does he want her to back off a little & only call/text him every few days or so? I'm a little confused. He said he isn't looking to be serious right now but we talk everyday & he wants to see me Christmas. I try not to be clingy but we didn't talk for one day & he was wondering why I didn't call him. Can you guys help me figure this one out? When I speak of "him" I am referring to my friend w/benefits.

2007-12-23 12:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by love my life 2

Ok so some of the questions I have asked in the past on here I have gotten some really rude comments back to. I dont understand why people have to respond with a..hole answers on here. All you people that do that its just not called for, dont think your cool just cuz you can go crazy with the Keyboard. Why cant you just give some helpful answers. Thats what most people use this for, so they can get help. NOT STUPID MEAN AND HEARTLESS RESPONSES... Well anyways I would love to know how to email these jerk offs back. But I'm just computer stupid. I'm sure I'm still gonna get some a..hole responses back but w/e...

2007-12-23 12:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous