I really do love him. I thought I had been in love before but its nothing compared to this. the problem is that he has a girl friend that he has been with for about 9 years now...I don't know why they aren't married yet...but whatever. I got drunk last night with them and I couldn't stop touching him. but I don't think she saw any of this. he made it clear that we are just friends. I think the right thing to do would be to just stop talking to them so I can get over him or at least not ruin their relationship. I have been thinking this for a while. but the thought of him not being there anymore makes me feel like life just isn't worth it and I can't stop crying. also...he flirts with me a lot but then he turns around and says that we are just friends and tries to make that clear. I would give anything to be with him. what do I do?
2007-12-23 13:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in the same boat with a friend of mine, but im married and have been for awhile. It hurts like hell but, you just have to let it go, let him know that you are there and hope things work out. Sometimes people fall out of love and sometimes they dont. Just deal with the pain and maybe one day it will happen.
2007-12-23 23:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by David P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him then you need to let him be happy. Sometimes loving someone means you just need to set it free and if he loves you then he will eventually be back at your side. If hes really your best friend you wouldnt be doing what your doing, you would let him be happy!! You should be honest with him about how you feel, maybe he isn't truely happy with his relationship. Best of luck!!
2007-12-23 21:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sabrina K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there don't that... and your gonna have to let i go, maybe you need to get away from them for awhile so that you get over your feelings for him. He's been with his girlfriend for 9 years and he isn't gonna leave her anytime soon and he's not gonna leave her for you. I know it hurts to hear that but its the truth and you need to try and move on, and try and date other people.
2007-12-23 21:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by iluvmeushld2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that u must avoid him 4 sumtime. if he really loves u he will surely come back n leave everything 4 u even her girlfrnd too.
2007-12-23 21:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt back,show him a nice smile and a little cleavage,then walk away
2007-12-23 21:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is taking over advantage of you,, because he know you like him..act as friend to him..just a friend
2007-12-23 21:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋