Me and my boyfriend have had sex many times but for some reason i rip more and more each time we dont do nothing differnt so why does this keep happening. we use a condom too.
2007-12-23 13:02:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it has alot to do with the angle that you are having sex. If it is concerning I would talk to your lover about it and experiment with different angles to see if it can be corrected, it could be fun at the same time... :)... if that doesnt work I would see your doctor, chances are you could have thin membranes in this area and scar tissue will just have to build up to protect that area. It could be a natural body thing or a medical one. Just dont keep doing it if it discomforts you alot, that is not good for your love life. Try to work it out so you can both enjoy what you are doing and even after the fact.
2007-12-23 13:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to change the use of his condom or get another brand. Somehow it either gets sticky too soon as faulty or your boyfriend leaves too much of his hand oils on it like touching it too much when he puts them on.
Go to a gynecologist and ask about it.
There are too many factors you and us do not know to make a determination here and now.
2007-12-23 21:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Owww... Probably because you're already a bit 'ripped' hun...
Use lots of lube and see a doctor pronto! Or stop having sex for a while to heal!
2007-12-23 21:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by serf m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're referring to your hymen ripping, that is perfectly normal. Not everyone tears their hymen the first time they have sex, and even when it does tear it isn't completely destroyed. The only thing that is guaranteed to get rid of the whole hymen is vaginal childbirth.
2007-12-23 21:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rip?wtf.
like what that other person said, maybe he has a big dick.
you guys have been having sex MANY times? tsk.tsk.(*cough* slut.) it's bad to have sex before marriage. it's one of the 7 deadly sins. good luck after death.
2007-12-23 21:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by blahhhh. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rip?
2007-12-23 21:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe not enough lubrication. I've experienced the same thing, it's not the position, or his size. It may be a small tear that's not being given time to heal.
2007-12-23 21:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see a gynecologist. This can create worse problems down the road.
2007-12-23 21:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
rip of his shirt or his underwear & then do the sexy dance..that'll be nice...lol!!!...maybe you're craving for more sex or you're bored in your usual sex positions.. add more spice
2007-12-23 21:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you bleed every time? I'd say go to a doctor.
2007-12-23 21:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by blu3et3rnity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋