Singles & Dating - 23 December 2007

Did you meet by chance or did you go out trying to meet someone?

2007-12-23 09:20:47 · 8 answers · asked by betty 2

A guy I work with has been doing a few things lately - he’s in a much higher position, but we work closely together b/c it’s a small company.

He always stares at me when I walk by his office, or when we walk by each other; he has tried to run into me in the file room so that we almost bumped into each other; he has pressed the side of his body against mine when we were leaning over a table to get food (although there was plenty of space); he has completely stopped talking to other people when I walked by, started staring and cut off his conversation.

The other night, everybody was out for drinks and he kept looking at me from a distance; when he sat next to us, he would try to hold my gaze for a really long time, and really staring into my eyes; I dropped my gaze, looked back up at him, and he was still staring and smiling (and this was with MY boss sitting between us!). He also made comments about how “innocent and sweet” I was, and when he left, he went around my boss and touched my arm for quite a bit when he said goodbye…

He is also married. Is this intense flirting, or is he just playing a game to boost his ego (I’m 10 years younger, in my 20s)?

2007-12-23 09:18:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Addressed mainly to black women, but everyone feel free to answer.

2007-12-23 09:17:24 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-12-23 09:13:08 · 19 answers · asked by JAMES M 1

none around hear are help im only thirteen

2007-12-23 09:11:58 · 4 answers · asked by cherrio lover 1

Ok. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a month. She is amazing! Anyway...We are both in college and she lives off campus while I live on campus...Whenever we have alone time (after I kick my roommate out), we makeout and don't stop for like 3 or 4 hours...which I am not complaining. :D But sometimes she comes over two days in a row or three or four and we always do the same thing. As great as it is, it wears me out... What can I do? I don't want to be mean and tell her to stop or slow down because hell, we both LOVE it and each other...Suggestions? (I know you all are complete strangers but I want to know what others have done or would do)
Thanks

2007-12-23 09:09:39 · 9 answers · asked by good_wasp 2

Ladies: Do you categorize a 'hot guy' (someone you're physically attracted to) as dateable or someone you would prefer to have a one night stand with? Or do you prefer to look and be more compatible with the person you're in a relationship with (in other words, you could care less about looks but just enjoy looking at the guy)?

Why/why not?

2007-12-23 09:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other night this guy grabbed my one of my boobs. I yelled at him but then he texted me last night and was like: I wanted to get with you the other night and I liked grabbing you. Should I tell my boyfriend about this? I would rather him hear it from me then someone else... but maybe what he doesn't know won't hurt him?

2007-12-23 09:01:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

(if she is below average height)

2007-12-23 09:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hands down for girls,they are stubborn in everyway!

2007-12-23 09:00:41 · 14 answers · asked by . 6

Looking back I can see where I ignored all the red flags, so try not to beat me up here. I know...

A part of me feels flattered that this guy worked so hard to hook me in, but another part of me just feels angry, vengeful, and obsessed. I am no angel here. I flirted with him too, but it turns out that our romance meant more to me than it did to him. Grrrr...

Have you been there? How did shake off these negative feelings?

If I can let go of this negativity and stop beating up on myself, then at least I will unblock and write and sing about my experience. Right now I just want to expose the guy and strangle him. Not good...:)

2007-12-23 09:00:08 · 5 answers · asked by Indi 4

2007-12-23 08:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by a21777angel 1

I am sending this to a girl I love. She does not know I love her. Can you help me to make it more impressive?


Sorry for choosing today to extend a birthday wish your way as I only know you are a December girl, but I don’t know when your exact birthday is. I think today is the best day to give you the wish as the sky is clear, wind brow softly, and the sun rised up again this morning in which assembled such a wonderful day, for that it is as same as a wonderful you. May your 50th is full of joy and happiness, and be the best that you ever had. May you not only have your cake in this coming wonderful year, but also eat it too.

2007-12-23 08:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by Jackson 1

2007-12-23 08:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by a21777angel 1

i'm a single black male with a single white companion/roomate who is quadreplegic with a special shower chair. i bathe him daily but never together but since they are rationing water does it make me gay to join him in the shower, with his special shower chair, with me on the bottom and him on the top...to save water.

i'm totally straight but dont have a girlfriend at the minute.

signed,

single and straight

2007-12-23 08:51:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 08:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

someone that you have been chating for 6 months and lives in Arkansas. this person is coming to California next month to meet me.

2007-12-23 08:48:10 · 14 answers · asked by norma * 1

What is your sexual fantisy involving only one woman?
I want to know mens oppions mostly, but I don't care if women answer too.
and also, any ideas on how to "be" sexy, would be good.
I think my husband is getting bord of me, and I need ideas.
I'm not saying that he is cheating, 'cause I don't think he is. Just bored.
any real ideas would really help.
Thanks

2007-12-23 08:46:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

http://www.lyricsmasti.com/song/4718/get_lyrics_of_Ek-Din-Teri-Raahon.html

go on this website
to read the lyrics and translation of this song

listen deeply
because this song

believe it or not-please don't laugh
but makes me dance in slow and steady moves(if you understand me)
and sing it
and it also makes me look in the miror at myself in a mysterious way when i listen to it

i also imagine myself in a ballroom dancing with this boy
when i listen to it

and also in my dreams
i imagine us dancing

how does it make you feel?

is this love???

or in hindi..kya yeh pyaar hosakhtaa hain?

2007-12-23 08:40:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

!!ok...its really getting on my nerves!!
I have been going out with my boyfriend for only a couple of weeks. one day when the bell rang 2 go home from school he turns 2ward me and gives me a freakin high 5 instead of a hug!! i mean hello, im not in preschool, we r in the 7th grade! so how do i tell him that i dont want a high 5....i want a hug? should i just go up 2 him 1 day and hug him? or talk 2 him about it, i mean i dont want 2 hurt his feelings in any way...cuz i really like him!!! please u have 2 help me(a.s.a.p.)!!!!!!!

2007-12-23 08:34:09 · 18 answers · asked by -nicolee- 1

i have a really close friend, we are always together and i like him, we have a really comfortable relationship like no personal space or anything, and it has always been like that between us, neither of us really cares when people touch us, i sit on his lap and he hugs me and stuff and we are just really affectionate, we always say we are married and stuff like that
however the whole time i have known him i have had a bf so he*my friend* and i never went any farther than just friends, well the bf that i had for 2 years broke up with me a month ago and i am really realizing how much i like my friend, the problem is that he got a gf about the time i lost my bf, he and his new gf are really odd together and everyone expects them to break up. i feel bad saying it but i want them to break up because i think he and i could be great together, when we are together i really want to kiss him, should we just go for it?

2007-12-23 08:28:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

looking for crazy names people use

2007-12-23 08:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by iuoma 3

im really good with helping people out when it comes to relationships and helping my friends.

but there is this guy, we were together for two years and he ended the relationship. we still talk and he claims we are friends, but we go trough these stages like he will talk to me for like two week, but then not talk to me at all for like a month.



WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-12-23 08:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by kimba 1

You're probably a nice guy but girls aren't attracted to nice guys. People always want what they can't have. She already knows she can have you and this bores her.

It's like a cat with a piece of string. Wave it over the cat's head, just out of reach and the cat will go insane trying to get it, but if you let the cat have it, it will look at it for a minute and then walk away bored.

You have to be more unpredictable. Jerks are unpredictable, that's why they get girls. But you don't have to be a jerk, just be interesting and challenging..."



By the way, this same user was shilling a double your dating type site.......

FYI, I am interesting and have lots going for me. Is he suggesting I become an act? Why be someone Im not to impress a girl?

BTW, I know some girls like jerks, but I am who I am, I have to be someone im not? Is that what he's saying? Is this guy ill-informed?

2007-12-23 08:19:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a junior now bt when i was a freshman i went out with this kid that was a sophmore we only went out twice there were like dates without importance but i kissed him after that we didnt talk much we never saw each other in school or anything then this he got a gf n i got a bf too we forgot about each other we didnt talked for a whole year but we had a really close friend in common almost at the end of my sophmore year we started talking again then last summer i went to my friend's pool and i met his gf but she wasnt going out with him but she was talking to him w.e we became really close friends and when school started since he always hanged out with her i became close friends with him too he wanted to go back with her but she had doubts because he cheated on her with another girl and i knew because i knew the girl he cheated with
he started asking me for advise and to help him to get her back and i helped him and now they're back together and we're all really good friends

2007-12-23 08:18:15 · 8 answers · asked by kat 2

My friend thinks there is such thing as santa claus, what should i do? Should i tell her theres know such person or just let her believe entill she moves out? Oh and i know this a different subject but my bff broke her arm and i feel like its my falt, so what do i do to show i really do feel sorry for her?

2007-12-23 08:18:15 · 27 answers · asked by Maddy Rules :) 1

what do you think of the name vanessa nice yuk please tell me honest opinion please

2007-12-23 08:15:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to see everyones opinion about this ...i personally think there is more to a relationship than just having sex .


i'll appreciate ur answer =D

2007-12-23 08:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Meems 3

HELP ME!!!!! My boyfriend broke up with me for a nother girl but i still have feelings for him so what should i do i mean i can't tell him PLEASE HELP ME

2007-12-23 08:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had to pee really bad!!!

HAHA!!...it makes me laugh even though i think it made him mad!

2007-12-23 08:06:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous