HELP ME!!!!! My boyfriend broke up with me for a nother girl but i still have feelings for him so what should i do i mean i can't tell him PLEASE HELP ME
2007-12-23 08:07:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't try to get him back.He obviously wasn't the guy for you and there's a reason why things didn't work out.Just live everyday to the fullest and give it some time.You will soon get over him and be able to move on with your life.Then you will meet another guy who is better for you.
2007-12-23 08:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he wasn't the guy for you.I mean he did not really care about your feelings if he left you for another girl. He probably been was talking 2 the girl on the side and finally got the nerve 2 dump you and talk 2 the other girl. Guys can really be a pain some time but you know how the saying goes cant live with them and you cant live without them. Im not telling you to get over him fast cause i know i woun't be able to but u should try 2 get over him. Maybe you need 2 listen 2 Keyshia Cole: Let It Go that will lift your spirits. I wish you the best
2007-12-23 21:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by mz.Un4gettable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person; learn to live without him. If he moved on to someone else, then it's obviously already too late, and I'm sorry to be the one to tell you that. Whatever you do, do not take him back; once him and this girl break up, you will be the next option if there's no one else for him. Don't be the back up or the second choice for this boy. Broken hearts suck, and I know that. I'm sorry :(
2007-12-23 16:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Britt (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just joined a very large sisterhood of girls and women who've had their hearts broken, many more than once!
Of course you can't tell him you still have feelings for him. You just have to give yourself time to heal and move on. But think about it this way: would you really want to be with a guy who wanted to be with someone else?
2007-12-23 16:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when someone you seem to like doesn't feel the same way, but at the end of the day you cannot make him like you, can you? If it's ment to be, it will be.
Just think you will hav emore opportunities with guys, so dont worry.
I wouldnt tell him, because he might use it against you and if he still doesnt feel the same way, it will only bring his ego levels up and make it seem like your his puppet.
Try get over him and show him what he's missing just make yourself seem untouchable to him!
M.Q
2007-12-23 16:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a slow deep breath. inhale. exhale. relax for five minutes (do anything u like to do that helps...)
ok that was step one. here's step two: look within urself and write out (brainstorm) all the things u feel and have inside. the good things the bad things. cry! sob. let it out!
if u know of a safe way to do this- burn whatever u wrote about him.
yeah...basically i'm saying get over him...
2007-12-23 16:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always going to be tough. but what you need to do is call a best friend over and go to blockbuster. then rent like 5 or 6 comedies and grab a huge tub of rocky road, some teen mags and nail polish. have a sleepover, and take your mind off it. i know you're thinking ill never get my mind off it but i promise you'll have like such the best time. good luck!
2007-12-23 16:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by preppyy_pinkette17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he broke off with you for another girl, that's mean that he doesn't loves you! don't even cry for him! Get a new look, and a new life!:) forget him.:) all the best!
2007-12-23 16:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by annamaria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youll have to move on, its hard and itll hurt for a while.
just keep urself busy and spend time with your friends, theyll help you feel better(what are they for??!).
youll find someone when youre not looking.
gd luck :)
2007-12-23 16:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by xx*Ice*xx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deal...you wallow and cry and you watch sad movies and you eat a lot of chocolate and you just live day to day and wait till it gets better...and it will....(hug)
2007-12-23 16:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by dianah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋