You're probably a nice guy but girls aren't attracted to nice guys. People always want what they can't have. She already knows she can have you and this bores her.
It's like a cat with a piece of string. Wave it over the cat's head, just out of reach and the cat will go insane trying to get it, but if you let the cat have it, it will look at it for a minute and then walk away bored.
You have to be more unpredictable. Jerks are unpredictable, that's why they get girls. But you don't have to be a jerk, just be interesting and challenging..."
By the way, this same user was shilling a double your dating type site.......
FYI, I am interesting and have lots going for me. Is he suggesting I become an act? Why be someone Im not to impress a girl?
BTW, I know some girls like jerks, but I am who I am, I have to be someone im not? Is that what he's saying? Is this guy ill-informed?
2007-12-23 08:19:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smiley, you're a dork.
2007-12-23 08:25:04 · update #1
Bonnie, I have no idea what you're talking about.
2007-12-23 08:32:22 · update #2
Adams Sweetheart, you didn't offer me any closure to my question, but Im glad you got to vent. I saw your myspace pic and you're a very attractive young woman. Im glad you apparently ended up doing better....I on the other hand also have things to offer but because im a guy, I become the friend. It's Hell sometimes.
2007-12-23 08:54:07 · update #3
Men need to make themselves understood. That means you say to the woman what you mean and not play games. Men want you to break out a crystal ball sometimes...
2007-12-23 08:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human nature is what it is. Some girls find unpredictable men desirable and challenging. And yes, some do not want things to come to easily. But it is exactly the same with a guy. He wants to work for what he gets. Something like...if an apple falls into your hand it is probably rotten, so you would rather pick one after a long climb to the top of the tree.
2007-12-23 16:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh my ex was reading this **** I couldn't figure out why he was acting so differently then I found the package to for some dvds he ordered and I was so pissed! why is he doubling his dating when he is in a serious relationship with me? yes he was acting like a jerk, but he always thought he was funny. he even told me one night when I thats right I took him out to dinner that if I caught him starring at another girls chest not to get mad because I wasn't the worlds most beautiful girl! yes I know I'm not but I didn't think that I was that bad looking and it completely crushed my self esteem I still haven't gotten completely over it and that was like almost 2 years ago. but I dumped him for a guy who makes me feel wonderful mind you I haven't gotten over the whole looks thing yet but I'm working on it and the fact that my current bf tells me every day that I am the beautiful helps. so I guess I am trying to say not all girls are into the bad boys we are just looking for a real man. and the only thing you need is confidence. and by the way my ex still hasn't dated anyone since I broke up with him and that was over 10 months ago. sorry if this doesn't make sense to you I'm kinda venting about it and I could go on and on and on. but I say he doesnt know what he is talking about.
-Edit- lol sorry I didn't really answer you. but I think that the only way you are going to find someone who you are compatible with is you are going to have to be yourself otherwise things won't work out when they realize you really aren't who they thought you were even though there may be nothing wrong with you the best way to be in a relationship is honest. and the site is really geared more at one night stands than a relationship and thats one more reason I was so pissed about my ex reading the crap. but yeah he is saying change and never go back to how you were its just a confidence boost me ex has only ever dated one girl and that was me so it didn't double his dating at all. he took me out to olive garden on my birthday and was flirting with the waitress he didn't think I knew what he was doing but I really was waiting on him to ask her for her number but he didn't she wasn't interested in him she thought he was weird lol. so just be yourself but don't be shy around girls. good luck.
2007-12-23 16:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever
2007-12-23 16:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋