My friend thinks there is such thing as santa claus, what should i do? Should i tell her theres know such person or just let her believe entill she moves out? Oh and i know this a different subject but my bff broke her arm and i feel like its my falt, so what do i do to show i really do feel sorry for her?
2007-12-23 08:18:15 · 27 answers · asked by Maddy Rules :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you I'd let her believe in Santa, she probably knows the truth anyway, it's just fun to slip away from reality at Christmas and believe there really is some fat, jolly, old man in a red suit who gives free toys and things away on Christmas Eve. It's all part of the fun. As for breaking your friends arm, if it was your fault you should just appologize and maybe get her a really sweet gift. Perfect for Christmas!
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2007-12-23 08:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a scrooge O.K. Let your girl friend hold on to that beautiful belief that Santa Clause does exist. Remember to her it's real. Just because you don't believe in Santa does not mean you go around busting everybody's balloon. Nobody has that right.
As for the "broken arm" bit. Why do you feel it's your fault. Did she tell you so? Don't take blame unless she points it out and then you can say "Sorry, didn't mean to do it". Are you the type who is going 25 miles in a 20 mile an hour zone without anyone watching and you stop the next police car and claim you were speeding just to say I'm sorry? Sure sounds like it to me.
2007-12-23 08:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, let your friend believe in whatever they want. How do you know that Santa doesn't exist in some form?? Even if it is only in the form of peoples faith. Dont be a dream crasher.
About your BFF, maybe, say your sorry, and that you feel guilty. (Not sure why unless you pushed her out of a tree or something). But tell them that if they need help since YOU BROKE THEIR ARM that all they need do is give you a call. What else are you going to do? Invest in researching robotic limbs to see if she'd take that over her arm (that heals).
2007-12-23 08:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by ihti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First let your friend continue to believe in Santa Claus as the truth is that it is a Holiday spirit and who can say that we do not have spirits around us all the time?
Second if you feel that your friends broken arm is your fault then go and apologize to her for it and ask if there is anything you can do to help her!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Years!
2007-12-23 08:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by THing4CSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her believe what she wants. You believing your bff is worth having as a bff is even more idiotic than your friend believing in Santa Claus. Wait until the bff decides to break your head, and then remember that you were warned.
2007-12-23 08:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You let your friend continue to believe for as long as she can. Remember how it felt at Christmas after you'd found out? Never quite the same, is it?
As for your friends injury - did you cause the break? If so - say you're very sorry (and mean it) perhaps consider a small gift, something that'll make her life easier while her arm is out of use. Otherwise, stop feeling guilty.
2007-12-23 08:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Hamish A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it gives her comfort to believe then let her.
You don't say if your bff broke her arm on purpose or if it was an accident, or why you consider it your fault, both of which would be really good to know. Do whatever you can for her that she can't do with only one good arm, and tell her to call you and let you know how she is doing and what you can do for her. And let her know that you are sorry her arm is broken.
2007-12-23 08:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the Santa Claus issue: she find out when sooner or later let her believe for a little while because we need a little hope in this world
the broken arm issue: if she's your best friend she will know if you feel sorry after its natural to blame ourselves once in a while
2007-12-23 08:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by T-Hasan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her some kind of a video explaining the story of Santa Clause and if you believe breaking her arm was truly your fault then buy her a gift or one of those sympathy cards.
2007-12-23 08:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, learn to spell. Santa Claus, there's, no (not know), until, fault.
A person's beliefs are their own. Leave them be.
As for the broken arm, act like a human and go see her and be sympathetic. It's about her pain not your guilt.
2007-12-23 08:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by bardmere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋