im really good with helping people out when it comes to relationships and helping my friends.
but there is this guy, we were together for two years and he ended the relationship. we still talk and he claims we are friends, but we go trough these stages like he will talk to me for like two week, but then not talk to me at all for like a month.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-12-23 08:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by kimba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If communicating with this guy is messing with your feelings then you will have to consider ending it completely. Sadly, there are no easy answers.
2007-12-23 08:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably easier to give other people advice on their situations, because you have the advantage of separation. It is always easier to see it from the outside, than from the inside -and easier to tell people what to do, than it is to do it yourself! Not a bad thing, just an observation! :)
The thing is, you are clearly very smart. You already know the answer to your question - he is friends with you - you are talking as friends, and the relationship is over. Because you were so close for so long, there is still a lot of feeling there - but he is really only just your friend. So, just because there are ebbs and flows in the amount of contact with him, does not mean there is a problem . There is nothing that you can do, other than seek "relationship"-type companionship elsewhere.
2007-12-23 08:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd prefer to head a action picture with you. That way, it rather is basically 2 pals going to the movies; then after the action picture, you are able to communicate approximately it, and slooooowly direct the communique in the trail you prefer it to head. as an occasion, "In that action picture, Susan rather enjoyed John yet she wasn't confident a thank you to ask him if he enjoyed her too. What do you think of she could desire to have completed?" pay interest to the respond.
2016-10-09 02:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on if you want to keep this foolishest up, because it sounds stupid there is no need to be "friends" with someone after you break up. It just keeps the feelings going. Let it go and move on.
2007-12-23 08:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what ya mean I am in the same situation. I think you should let it be. Give it time, if it was meant to be it will be. Start going out and having fun with the girls. :)
2007-12-23 08:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by adriannk4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things are easier said than done I'm the same way as for your problem with the guy I think you should just ask him why he does that.
2007-12-23 08:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the above said :P
2007-12-23 08:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Line 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are not in the situation then its cake when your in it things change and its your own heart on the line.
2007-12-23 08:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Moony3737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c it's easier said then done!
2007-12-23 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋