The other night this guy grabbed my one of my boobs. I yelled at him but then he texted me last night and was like: I wanted to get with you the other night and I liked grabbing you. Should I tell my boyfriend about this? I would rather him hear it from me then someone else... but maybe what he doesn't know won't hurt him?
2007-12-23 09:01:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell no if you love him then tell him he desrves to know everthing like that
2007-12-23 09:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by the power 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done nothing wrong in this situation. I recommend telling your boyfriend about it. There is nothing he could get mad at you about, and it's better to be open and honest. Plus, he might get the sleeze who grabbed your boobs to leave you alone. Don't hang out with those types of people. Furthermore, do not allow texts, calls, or anything from the guy. You don't need to fuel the fire, and cause there to be a reason why your boyfriend might be upset.
2007-12-23 09:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Debi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him if you think relationship honesty is a valuable thing,and if you think he has reasonable self-restraint (because that has a good probability of starting a fight). The last statement you made was the most telling: "maybe what he doesn't know won't hurt him?" Now, THAT sounds like you might've enjoyed the attention a bit...nothing wrong if you did, but I think that's something you ought to honestly assess within yourself before you do anything else. Good luck, and Merry Christmas.
2007-12-23 09:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just depends on your relationship with your current b/f. Are you upset by this or do you see this happening again. Sounds like the guy who grabbed you is a jerk. I am a boob man, but i would never just up and grab someone because i wanted to get to know them. It's the easiest way to bet punched..
2007-12-23 09:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by tim102621 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely, however be prepared for him to possibly go a little crazy. Men can say some pretty crazy things under such conditions, even hurtful things. He may even try to go after the other person. Try to be understanding, but realize too that he will almost certainly come around with the understanding of your rejection of the other guy. If he is a keeper he will be supportive and understand how violated you feel.
2007-12-23 09:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings are just meant to be kept a secret.
He might do something stupid like hit the guy.
You don't want him in jail...
You might wanna contact the police though. He sexually assaulted you and he is now harassing you.
You now have proof to show (if you haven't erased the text message.
This guy will go to jail instead. Then after he's in you could tell your BF if you still feel guilty not telling him.
2007-12-23 09:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by pnoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMMM How did this guy know your number. Sounds like you know him and apparently so does your boyfriend. I would tell your boyfriend about this creep. If he knows that you have a bf and knows your bf and STILL does that,whats not to stop HIM from telling your bf that you 2 hooked up, or having your bf hear it from somebody else(at which case,by then, it would have gone from him grabbing you to you to doing it...you know how people exaggerate
2007-12-23 09:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are built on trust. Bottom line. Do what your conscience tells you to do, otherwise it will leave a haunting, lingering feeling until something happens to resolve the issue. Hopefully it's not your boyfriend finding out and being upset with you for not telling him.
2007-12-23 09:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by KeriAnnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even bothering to ask us? Based on what you posted, you did nothing wrong. I bet your boyfriend would like to know.
There is no way this would ruin your relationship unless you lied to him and said you were somewhere else, or unless you enjoyed it. In which case you shouldn't be so hurtful towards your boyfriend
2007-12-23 09:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i had this problem before. you should tell him. because if you dont. like i did. they will get more mad when they hear it from someone else and they will think you did stuff with the other guy since u were keeping it from your boyfriend.
2007-12-23 09:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think he should hear it from you. So you should tell him. Because if he hears it from someone else, that person could blow it way out of portion and than he'll be even mader that you didnt tell him. You should really tell him. you shouldnt keep things from him. trust me. been there done that. its not good.
i hope i helped. Merry Christmas.
2007-12-23 09:06:49 · answer #11 · answered by Meggyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋