Singles & Dating - 23 December 2007

1st time I had friendship w/a professor gone desperate. I was as fault, but my mom still called him the devil. Then I had a boyfriend, he only stayed sober while we were dating, mom didn't like him but afterwards says that she really did like him. Now I like this man that has all the right stuff and she doesn't what to hear it. I don't have my mom's support for this area of my life. Can anyone offer objective advice?

2007-12-23 15:38:29 · 3 answers · asked by aletheiapneuma 2

2007-12-23 15:37:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and i r having problems. i'm not going to forget him cus in the past he was my closest guy friend ever. hes now mad at me for some reason and hes making up excuses. hes saids hes not mad or anything when he cusses and yells at me when i wanna talk too him. help?

2007-12-23 15:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by lil hottie<3 1

2007-12-23 15:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean seriously WTF?

2007-12-23 15:29:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Fell in love with this one guy in 7th grade. Broke up with me bc he thought he didnt like me anymore. Dated other guys that lasted only 1 month. They all left me. Then dated two guys that lasted for four months and then I didnt want them anymore but couldn't let go, now this is the third guy, same situation. Somethings wrong with me. It is more than not wanting to let go because right now with the third guy, I was calling him and he wouldnt pick up and I broke down because I felt scared he just left me hanging [traumatized from the past]. And I get kindaa angry if I call him and he's with his friends and I was expecting him to come over. You see? Its just strange. I dont get whats up with me, really I dont. :( Now Im in 11th grade.
Whats this pattern?

2007-12-23 15:28:46 · 2 answers · asked by Melanie 2

2007-12-23 15:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by JOhn 1

I was just wondering how a white/asian guy would think of me. I'm a mixed girl. I'm a little light skinned, thicky thick girl. a lot of guys say they think i'm beatiful. they're all latinos and black. i don't know if they compliment the way i look just to get in my pants or if they really think i'm a pretty girl. i hope it's the truth. but anyway, i was thinking i would like to date a white guy. maybe even an asian. but i don't think that would ever happen. i work with a bunch of white guys and asian guys. they all seem to be into the blondes with blue eyes and who are a size zero.

2007-12-23 15:28:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl that i like in high school, but im not really sure if she likes me back. We sometimes hang out together and we seem to always have a blast when we do. I asked her out on a date not to long ago, but she said that she couldn't because she had her friends birthday. Now I dont know what to do.

2007-12-23 15:27:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we met at a work meeting, she works in a store 2 towns over. we didn't even really meet, we shared an elevator ride and i was smitten by her. i went to her job after about a week to tell her that i can't stop thinking of her and would like to take her out. she gave me her number, i called, we arranged a date. date day comes and she made other plans b/c she hadn't heard from me all day and just assumed i was blowing her off. we rescheduled for this past saturday, but she never called. i stoped by her job again today, this time with flowers. she wasn't there so i left the flowers. she texted me thanking me and said she would call, i still haven't heard from her. am i getting the run around here? what should i do?

2007-12-23 15:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by GuitarSwizzle 1

lol without freaking my man out

2007-12-23 15:21:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im dating this guy for about 1 month and we plan on moving in together soon like in exactly 1 month. i got the apartment and everything ive known him for a year like as a friend(not a close friend) i think i made a mistake bc ive sign the lease papers and everything. (i know it was a dumb move)now he is acting weird like he lies about what time he has to work, and he doesnt want to be with me on cmas day. when he agreed to hang w me and my family earlier. i havent talked to him more than 5min on the phone in last 2 days. i dont know what going on. its like he doesnt have time for me. what do i do bc i know once we move 2gether it will not get better.i dont know if he still likes me or what. who doesnt want to hang w there gf on cmas day? help advice needed

2007-12-23 15:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by veg4life 3

Alot of times when i go to a store with my mom i see some pretty girls. Alot of times i see them starring at me maybe thats a really good sign or bad. I was just woundering how can I get her phone number or even give her my phone number. Alot of times i feel depressed when i miss out on some of these girls. I don't go for those model looking girls I just go for short, friendly, cute girls. Alot of times these types of girls are really shy so im even more scared of going up to them. U can read my other question about me if u want to more who i am and stuff.

Well her is my pic http://img84.imageshack.us/img84/576/ggrreuv8.jpg

my myspace www.myspace.com/artem90

2007-12-23 15:13:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello im a black male 19 years old. And i like dating white women. my first two relationships have been with white girls, but either one of the parents or both of them dont liek me cuz im black? should i start dating my own race? or should i just go with my heart and date any race?

2007-12-23 15:10:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive had a girlfriend for four months and shes the love of my life. i moved away but our relationship is still strong. then i have another girl. ive known her for a year but i know her inside and out. and she knows me like that too. but now im confused. if i break up with my girl. im gonna have a hole in my heart. then if i say no to the other girl. then i dont want to break her heart and loose her as a friend. what should i do?

2007-12-23 15:07:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright I've been dating this girl for about a week now and it's been going good so far.

Shes been calling be everyday because I can't call her since her dad can't find out.

So today we didn't talk all day, she hasn't called me or anything. So what right? Well, for some reason just because of this I have gotten really paranoid and I start thinking about how she might be cheating. It's pathetic I know.

She doesn't have a cell phone so it's not like I could call and she would be the only one to answer.

I have a serious problem here, I mean look how pathetic it is!!! Is there anyway I can overcome this?

2007-12-23 15:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2

i m not pregnant but i know if i will, i will have to abort a child. I am 23 and i feel like if he cannot accept my child, why am i keeping this relations. What will u do if u were in my shoes?

2007-12-23 15:01:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 15:00:42 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a virgin and 43 years old please help me out im desperate id do a 600 pound lady if i had to

2007-12-23 14:59:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-23 14:55:24 · 10 answers · asked by CherryCheri 7

we started in a loveless relationship, but for the last 7 months we learned to care deeply for each other, inlove and inseparable. problems is he has so much plan in his life, that getting married is not one of his priorities right now-which i perfectly understand but he keeps on telling me about having other boyfriends, and i should not wait for him for i may end up becoming a spinster, but he is also jealous whenever i talk to other guys, he said he is not jealous, that he is just concerned that he only wanted me to end up with the right guy. i am lost

2007-12-23 14:48:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy a few weeks ago and we really got along and had so much fun together. He said to me that night he really liked me. I felt the same. He lives 35 minutes away from me...Is that too much?? We are 21 (me) and 22 (him).

2007-12-23 14:37:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my boyfriend of two months, whom still hasn't kissed me, was acting odd he other day.

First, when we were outside (hes a very huggy lad) he started hugging me a bit, and then he would like put his hands on my shoulders and look into my eyes. i could tell he was nervy, but i don't know why. then he would just like let go.

Also, the next day, we were outside one of my classes (he always hugs me when we leave each other which is nice) he kinda looked in my eyes a bit before he did, then he hugged me really tight (not painfully so) and then he kinda hesitated to let go. He sorta kept his arm around me and looked at me a bit more, leaned foward like a centemeter, then hesitated again and let go.
then, at the end of the day, he hugged me twice. the first one was that same kind of tight hug as before, then the second was odd. he kinda brushed his cheek against mine a little and tilted his head kinda into my neck. he did the same hestitant eye gazing thing again and leaned foward.

2007-12-23 14:34:05 · 26 answers · asked by AJmc 2

I was talking to my bf and he told me that my bestfriend did'nt have a booty as big as mine. I kind of got worried because he basically said he looked at her butt and he told me he only looked a couple times. It bothered me to think that the guy that tells me he loves me was checking out my bestfriend. I don't know If I should stay with him or break up with him. What should I do?

2007-12-23 14:29:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my ex boyfrien and i have been geting closer and closer over the last few months. we broke up last yr and then didnt talk again till this yr. we are always taking, hours upon hours, he has told me he loves me(more than once(actually evey time we talk) im am always hesatent to say it cuz they r strong words but he has made me fall for him yet again. i cant stop thinking about him and i no he is the same way. the only problem is that we r a little different w/ the ppl we hang out with he is a hick and im more preppy well when we went out before i got alotta crap from ppl about going out with him(thats what eventully broke us up). i no the last thing he wants to do is hurt me by having ppl give me c.rap about us...... do u think thats what is stopping him? thanks in advanced=]

2007-12-23 14:29:55 · 1 answers · asked by LOVIN*JOE*J 3

The reason why I don't believe it is that if that was truth, I wouldn't be a virgin at age 22.

2007-12-23 14:26:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like one of my coworkers. We have worked together for a little over a year and we always have a great time. We have gone out with groups from work several times and she always hangs around me and wants me to dance with her. I am going to be starting a new job in a month or two and wont see her that often anymore since we wont be working together so when I was talking with her on the phone the other night about a concert we are going to next month I kind of sprung the question would you like to go out some time on her. I could tell it really cought her off guard and she said maybe and then went on to tell me that she has had alot of bad relationships (a couple had kids, one ended up in jail, and one in a mental institution). We ended the conversation there. I have worked with her alot since then and gone out with her a couple times and she still seems comfortable around me. We talk and joke around and she is still always trying to get me to dance with her.

2007-12-23 14:25:49 · 2 answers · asked by Joe H 2

How is that at splitting everything 50% ? You cannot add if you think that is equal?

2007-12-23 14:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

i'm a generally nice person, friendly, smart, ambitious and thus far accomplished. i'm shy at first but when i open up i'm really funny and all that good stuff. i don't think i'm pretty but people have told me that i am and that i have a great body, etc. (i was very insecure when younger and i guess that still lingers). i have had guys who stare at me when i go out, guys who have had crushes on me throughout the yrs.....
but i've never had a bf. i'm in college. what's wrong with me?

2007-12-23 14:22:11 · 18 answers · asked by abby j 5

I really like this girl. Shes 18, I'm 19...neither of us have had a BF/GF... She drives me crazy... when i see her at church, in SS, when none of her family is around, she'll smile and laugh at me, look at me alot, etc... When i see her around her family (her parents are WAY overprotective, to a point where its actually a bad thing, and her little siblings tattle on EVERYTHING), she doesnt really talk to me/ look at me, and almost seems to avoid me... We talk a bit around them, but mostly only briefly...Its like two different world, like night and day difference... Shes not the "playing" type, so dont get the wrong idea.

Also, if I see her when shes alone/ stop to talk to her at her work, she's shy/ nervous, until i joke around/ make her laugh, then she opens up. Am i reading too much into nothing, or is she just afraid of judgement from her parents (mainly her mother)?

Opinions? I can give more specific details/ situations that confused me mainly, if interested.

2007-12-23 14:16:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous