im dating this guy for about 1 month and we plan on moving in together soon like in exactly 1 month. i got the apartment and everything ive known him for a year like as a friend(not a close friend) i think i made a mistake bc ive sign the lease papers and everything. (i know it was a dumb move)now he is acting weird like he lies about what time he has to work, and he doesnt want to be with me on cmas day. when he agreed to hang w me and my family earlier. i havent talked to him more than 5min on the phone in last 2 days. i dont know what going on. its like he doesnt have time for me. what do i do bc i know once we move 2gether it will not get better.i dont know if he still likes me or what. who doesnt want to hang w there gf on cmas day? help advice needed
2007-12-23 15:20:00 · 7 answers · asked by veg4life 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf sugguested we move together not me
2007-12-23 15:28:51 · update #1
Don't move in together, it will be a disaster. Remember, when someone shows you who they are, believe them. He is making all the signs of someone who does not want to share a life with you. Cut your losses, find out if you can get out of the lease, and if not, move in with a girlfriend. Save the living together for when you are more properly prepared.
2007-12-23 15:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by always b natural 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to spend time with his family. Moving in together so soon is going way too fast! He is probably freaked out that its moving that fast. Dont be surprised if he doesnt move in with you after all. If he didnt sign the lease, then its that much easier for him to not move in. His actions seem as if he may be cheating or getting bored. The only thing to do is talk about it with him.
2007-12-23 15:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would sit him down and have a serious talk, see how he feels and his plans. Maybe you should consider finding another roommate. Even if you rented a one bedroom, find a same sex friend, get two twin beds and split the rent, utilities, etc.
2007-12-23 15:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts about moving in with him DO NOT DO IT! Make sure you want it 100% before you take that step.
2007-12-23 15:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE do not move into together
there is a reason why Christianity forbids it
in U.S., the people who practice cohabitation are more likely to divorce
why buy the milk without the cow?
2007-12-23 15:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 him. he might be acting distant because he has some big christmas surprise or something. just talk face = to face and ask if anything is wrong.
2007-12-23 15:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with him. if he doesnt want to hang out with or ignores you thts the first sign he is waiting for you to break up with him he is to much of a coward to do it to you.
2007-12-23 15:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by breakupgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋