I was talking to my bf and he told me that my bestfriend did'nt have a booty as big as mine. I kind of got worried because he basically said he looked at her butt and he told me he only looked a couple times. It bothered me to think that the guy that tells me he loves me was checking out my bestfriend. I don't know If I should stay with him or break up with him. What should I do?
2007-12-23 14:29:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The truth of the matter is that your man is always going to check out other girls... but he shouldn't be telling you about it, unless you guys have that kind of relationship. Typically guys will (out of respect for you) pretend not to have noticed. Since your boyfriend already pointed out that he's checked out your best friend, next time he approaches the subject just tell him that you know he looks at other girls, but he should be respectful and not comment to you about it.. that's what he has friends for... besides, how would he like it if you did that to him?
2007-12-23 14:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm almost speechless.
You're considering breaking it off with your boyfriend all because he looked at another girl's butt a couple of times and was honest about it?
In terms of "bad boyfriend behavior", doing that barely even registers!
I'm sure you check out other guys too, it's human nature - when we see something we like, we look at it. Did you tell your guy about that?
2007-12-23 22:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start asking the question "should I break up with him?" you deffinately should. If you are doubting a relationship it obviously isn't the way you want it to be. For your happiness you should & you could probably find someone much better. Don't waste your time with a guy you don't really like & if he does something that bothers you, just end it. Or if you really like the guy A LOT & want to keep him, but are just mad at this one little thing, then talk to him. It could really help.
2007-12-23 22:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him, he sounds cute.
Didn`t you ever check out another guy`s butt?
As long as he just looks and not touches, he is being
faithful to you.
2007-12-23 22:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋