Alright I've been dating this girl for about a week now and it's been going good so far.
Shes been calling be everyday because I can't call her since her dad can't find out.
So today we didn't talk all day, she hasn't called me or anything. So what right? Well, for some reason just because of this I have gotten really paranoid and I start thinking about how she might be cheating. It's pathetic I know.
She doesn't have a cell phone so it's not like I could call and she would be the only one to answer.
I have a serious problem here, I mean look how pathetic it is!!! Is there anyway I can overcome this?
2007-12-23 15:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ghost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw I don't act out, like I don't get all angry with her and start to question her. I just keep it to myself.
2007-12-23 15:19:36 · update #1
Don't worry about it she isn't cheating on you just because she hasn't called you. Don't think abouy it you are just drawing conclusions and making yourself worry.
2007-12-23 15:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does seem unusal and I can understand your papanoid but just take a step back for a second. Maybe she just wanted a break from talking for a day. Girls are moody(trust me i am one lol) Sometimes we just want a break. I bet she will talk to you tomorow and if not go up to her in school or wherever you see her and ask how she is and stuff don't act all freaked out or she may think ur weird or something(I don't I'm just saying) Just let her have her space if she wants it and not to worry. What good does worrying do? It won't change one thing it will just make things worse for you.
2007-12-23 23:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it. There's really not much we can tell you. The only thing you can do is convince yourself that nothing bad is going to happen. Think about it. She can be doing anything. What if she's busy and doesn't have the time to call? Or maybe she's on vacation? So many possibilities.
2007-12-23 23:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you need to calm down. I've had the same problem repeatedly in the past, if you let this get out of control you will lose her forever. Next time you see her just casually mention you missed hearing from her. Don't get angry. Accept her explanation. 95% chance it isn't a big deal.
2007-12-23 23:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are the two of you? Depending on that I would say you are overreacting for sure. Any why can't her dad find out? Are you much older then she is or something?
2007-12-23 23:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes been with her dad all day, try and calm down about it tho! if shes been calling you every day she obviously likes you. dont get ur knickers in a twist, there are plenty of reasons she hasnt called! maybe she got grounded, phone taken away...maybe its dead and she lost the charger...maybe the fone itself ia lost, and its on silent or vibrate or it died! maybe shes at grandmas and forgot her fone, maybe shes been at church and then went out to a realtives...plenty of possibilities, keep ur calm
2007-12-23 23:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by pokad0tprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and say to whoever answers to talk to her. You need homework. When does school start? Anything is a good excuse. Everything will be fine.
2007-12-23 23:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
grow some balls!
tell this to yourself -
where does the real problem lie? in the fact that i think she is cheating on me or that I love her so much yet i still can't trust her!?
assumptions ruin relationships! dont make them.
2007-12-23 23:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, shes not. Sometimes people just cant call. Dont worry. She will call.
2007-12-23 23:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mal777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have some trust issues. All you need to do is remember how trustworthy she is and how good she is to you.
2007-12-23 23:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ewa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋