we met at a work meeting, she works in a store 2 towns over. we didn't even really meet, we shared an elevator ride and i was smitten by her. i went to her job after about a week to tell her that i can't stop thinking of her and would like to take her out. she gave me her number, i called, we arranged a date. date day comes and she made other plans b/c she hadn't heard from me all day and just assumed i was blowing her off. we rescheduled for this past saturday, but she never called. i stoped by her job again today, this time with flowers. she wasn't there so i left the flowers. she texted me thanking me and said she would call, i still haven't heard from her. am i getting the run around here? what should i do?
2007-12-23 15:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by GuitarSwizzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the hint (because most women don't have the balls to face men to tell them that they aren't interested) she's not interested in you. Second mistake is the deal with the flowers. Don't give them the opportunity unless its a date because they will expect more than just flowers ie expensive restaurant. Move on and hope you for the best in 2008.
2007-12-23 15:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by The Chaotic Darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just call her more? Some women need more consistent contact then what you offered. I wouldn't plan on going out with someone who hadn't talked to me that day. You should take all the initiative because you are the one who initially pursued her. Later on in the relationship (if one happens) you could become more concerned with her calling you. Just step up and call her a bunch and check up about dates you make. She doesn't know you so obviously she couldn't know that you were still planning on going out when you hadn't called her all day. Call her! Don't hesitate, and don't be shy.
2007-12-23 23:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by turns_you_around 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open. Don't put your eggs in one basket. If you come across as sensitive and you give her flowers after she doesn't call you, she is going to think that you're soft. Ease up on her, just wait for her to call you. She doesn't even want to give you an hour for dinner, so you should definately look for someone else to talk to for a while.
2007-12-23 23:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Darin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but I must say it wasn't very smart of you to reward her bad behavior by bringing her flowers. and, you are acting like a doormat. women don't respect that. so i would suggest you move on to someone who will appreciate your time and efforts. and next time, don't be so eager....don't reveal that you 'can't stop thinking of her', don't bring flowers unless she is deserving, etc. keep a little mystery but still show you are interested. stop chasing a lost cause who is not interested or worthy of you. move on...
2007-12-23 23:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by funone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... Why are YOU waiting for her to call you? I think you should call her during the week, just to say hello. Second of all you showing up with flowers is sweet but maybe she thinks your an obsessed weirdo :) ( I would) and have you thought that maybe she was at work, but just hiding from you? Im sure everyone at her work knows about you??? I dunno that;s just mine?
2007-12-23 23:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the direct approach, call her and ask.
2007-12-23 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋