Alot of times when i go to a store with my mom i see some pretty girls. Alot of times i see them starring at me maybe thats a really good sign or bad. I was just woundering how can I get her phone number or even give her my phone number. Alot of times i feel depressed when i miss out on some of these girls. I don't go for those model looking girls I just go for short, friendly, cute girls. Alot of times these types of girls are really shy so im even more scared of going up to them. U can read my other question about me if u want to more who i am and stuff.
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2007-12-23 15:13:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are so cute, no need to be shy, any gal would be happy to go out with you. All you have to do is just go up to them and say Hi, my name is .................................... What is your name. From there, it's where do you go to school, what grade are you in, etc. Just be nice and friendly, and you will be just fine.
2007-12-23 15:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by always b natural 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well some ppl r right ... mom's CAN be a turnoff to most girls ... some dont really care. Solve the problem by saying "hey mom, i'll go over there and get the chips" or "i'm gonng go walk around the freezer section is really cold ... call me if u need me on my cell" and that solves that
instead of going straight up to the girl and saying HEY ... which is wayy too predictable ... just go in the isle or whatever u both r nearby and look at the food (hopefully u wont be in the tampon section) look at the food mayb grab something minding ur own business ... then "suddenly notice her" and then just b laid back and say something about the food or some other small talk. not too cheesey though .... or just flat out go hey how r u? this way it doesnt seem like she is the ONLY reason u went in the isle. you dont want her to thnk that for more reason u would want her to think that. you would want her to think that so she could have an ego boost and still have the ability to turn u down. but if she doesnt think you went near her to talk to her, but only to get some green beans, and you talk to her, she will most likely think "oh well anyone could have come over here and anyone could have started small talk. to big deal i'll just talk back" if u feel necessary, like you feel a conversation's starting, give her your NAME ... dont just throw your cell number at her. give her your name THEN talk a little more (stop talking about the beans by the way ....) and eventually ease into "hey let talk again sometime ... want my number?" maybe crack a little joke and do something like .... look around the store and b like "we should do this again sometime .." considering your in a grocery store .... yeah very exciting ...
by doing stuff like this, to you it'll be like "i saw her went over and talked to her" but to her it'll be more like "oh well we just kind of were in the same place at the same time and started talking"
and if one girl blows u off, theres always more .... didn't you say you see girls in the grocery store alot? just go for it if it turns out embarrassing its not like the girl will include you in her "of my life" book when she's 83 years old ... right?
good luck
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2007-12-23 15:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a cute guy you just need to stop being so shy and go for it. Don't be depressed for missing out on something there is always another chance in the future. Just be yourself and get to know the girls you like and then go from there and as for givin the phone # just give it to them and tell them to give you a call if they ever want to hang out.
2007-12-23 15:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww you are soo cute =]
try this, i thoguth of this approach the other day when i was bored lol:
if your in the mall, get away from your mom first of all lol... go up to a girl you think is cute and be like "heyyy are you ____ (random name)..she will obviously be liek umm no??..and be like ohh sorry you look exactly like someone i used to know... and then either you can start talking to her askign her where she is from what school .all that basic stuff adn then look at your watch or cell and be like ohh i have to go im sorry, but would you like to exchange numbers so we can talk later?...or if you are truly too shy to keep a conversation going with her right off the bat, you can be liek ohh im sorry for the mistake, adn then when you turn around, nonchallently you can drop a piece of paper with your number and name on it =]...if you try this, let me know if it works---i still havnt tested it out lol
and too bad, you most likley dont live in my town or area--b/d im a short nice little girl looking for a b/f haha
2007-12-23 15:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you having trouble because your moms there? If so, ask her to wait in the car for you. Just try to make small talk about something like whatever she is looking at in the store or What school does she go to? Does she live around there? When you approach her she will figure out that its because you want to talk to her or ask her something. Just go for it you have nothing to lose by trying. Your picture is really cute
2007-12-23 15:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are BRAVE for posting your pic like that so use some of that to go up to the girl next time! Some girls are shy at first ... until they get to know you. Dont be shy because the next guy wont be and you'll be the one left standing you know? Anyways; good luck!
2007-12-23 15:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by q dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt go up to her and give her your number right away if you dont know her. if you see her in the mall or whatever make sure you keep a good eye on her so she'll notice youre looking back ;] if she catches you then wave at her! then if she starts walking away with her friends run up to her and ask for her name. start talking maybe but dont try to sound desperate and all weird. then i know this'll be hard but make an excuse to go away then you can be like "hey i gotta go but maybe you can call me sometime?" & hand her your number. she'll be flattered =] hope that helped and best of luck ! <3=] PS. you're smokkinnn . ;] she'll dig you
2016-04-10 22:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....I am way older than you, but I would say just give them you're number hun...its a lot easier...trust me...and if they wanna call...9/10 they will....if they don't you have lost nothing....a girl will call you at some point...Im certain of it...by the way your pic is really cute.....and at your age you are all shy to a degree...thats the fun in getting to know yourself and others...have fun....sensibly...
2007-12-23 15:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 and it is time to venture out and not be afraid. Just be friendly and say hi and then start a conversation to get to know them. If it goes well, give them your number or email.
2007-12-23 15:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would not be with your mom when you go up and ask for a number. But just go up and say, "Hey I'm [your name here] you want to hang out sometime?" when they say sure ask for their phone number
2007-12-23 15:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋