Singles & Dating - 23 December 2007

he dumped me because, we are too different, and that he wasnt ready for a relationship and he dont lvoe me no more :'(


we was together for over a year which is long, he was my first for everything!
and i was his first for everything!

and he says he doesnt love me nor wants to be friends with me

im so upset cos im IN Love with him and being without him hurts like ****!


will he come back later in the year?

will he realise that differences doesnt matter

what should i do except move on :'(


i just want him back in my life


please help!

2007-12-23 21:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by St*r 2

Ok guys, I'm really curious what does the, "I'm not ready to be in a relationship," mean? I mean if you're spending alot of time with someone and really like them, would this "line" even matter?

Does it mean this person won't give you a chance and you should forget about it? or does this mean the timing is just bad and they'll come around?

I'd really like to hear the honest perspective of those who've said this or have heard it before.

Thanks

2007-12-23 21:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 4

2007-12-23 21:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by leo 1

My BF cheated on me a few mths ago n the song I was hooked on was "Take A Bow" by Madonna.. Its so old school but I love this lyric

"I've always been in love with u... I guess you've always known its true... you took my love for granted"....

What's your fave breakup song?

2007-12-23 21:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by ♥aman-duh leigh♥ 6

Everytime I meet an attractive woman, I have the tendency to chase her even though I have a girl friend. The funny thing is that the new woman always gets attracted by me, and we will start dating. I then will end up either dumping my exisiting girl friend or hiding the new girl. What's wrong with me?

2007-12-23 21:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by itguru5354 1

Because i do it quite often but i do it just for fun and blow it in their face later on that it's a farce just to see their reaction.Wot do u ppl think?

2007-12-23 21:28:26 · 10 answers · asked by Jack 1

2007-12-23 21:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by kingg 1

my boyfreind want me to loose wait for him pls tel me how to do that

2007-12-23 21:19:54 · 6 answers · asked by Naja 1

I was talking to a different guy in an msn convo with him who ive been friends with since i was five. I tried texting him but his phone is off, I tried emailing him but he hasnt answerd and i tried getting my friends to talk to him but he hasnt signed into msn in a while and we're on holidays. Yes btw im 13 ... big deal i can still like some1. Anyway I dnt no what else to do! Please help

2007-12-23 21:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you call at all if you're not interested?

Just curious.

2007-12-23 21:04:09 · 15 answers · asked by cb2222 1

2007-12-23 21:03:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I answered a question a while ago (How should men treat women). My response was that she should be treated with love and respect. But I added that most women don't seem to like this. Paraphrasing my answer, I said women seem to (emphasize seem to) prefer being ignored, cheated on, sometimes even beaten. I base this on pretty much any woman I've come across so far who has a boyfriend.

I have yet to find a girl with a boyfriend who isn't being mistreated in some way. I know they exist, but the fact that they are so hard to find would suggest they are in a minority.

I know a lot of good guys who just want someone to care about, and they are usually alone. If they aren't alone, they usually wind up being so soon after.

If women want guys to treat them right, then why do they almost always go for the loser who treats them wrong? When there are so many nice guys out there, why go for th bad ones? And why do you then complain there are no good guys?

2007-12-23 20:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres a question for the girls,
Do girls like to be told they they are/look "hot"?

2007-12-23 20:59:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

its a long story but in short we've been flirting for quite a while and we're really good mates to. but we finally admitted our feelings to each other and i said that i didn't really want to tell her at the moment because I don't really know how i feel and i didn't want to hurt her (which i told her). But i ended up telling her anyway, i told her i definately have feelings for her but not like i used to, i like her one moment and then not at another.

she said fair enough and we decided we can still be good mates because we pretty much knew we like each other before anyway.

but now she seems she feels she has to get back at me, she's flirting deliberately with other people right in front of me and saying insults to me or about me to my other mates. But then at other times she will be really nice to me.

its especially hard because i still like her a lot of the time.
i still can't stop thinking about her

also what can i do to forget about her?

2007-12-23 20:53:30 · 17 answers · asked by Ed 1

Actually, how long do you THINK a woman should wait? My answer is atleast a month.

2007-12-23 20:52:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hang about with girls all the time and I hang about with boys sometimes but very rarely and I don't think of girls as being weak or anything like that, I think women are capable of anything men can do apart from peeing standing but then women are able to give birth so but for some reason I feel like I have to protect my mates just because they're girls and I'm the only boy and I don't know why?

2007-12-23 20:46:33 · 14 answers · asked by Lily R 6

When it is none of their business.

2007-12-23 20:40:59 · 16 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

Ive been working at my job for about three weeks now and I really like one of my coworkers. I think she is the most wonderfull woman in the world but she has a boyfriend. We talk and joke around all the time, and we have a great working relationship. I was thinking about getting her a small "See's" chocolates box as a christmas gift because I know she loves them, but Im worried that this could make things strange between us. What do you think?

2007-12-23 20:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by Jlnwhly 1

Okay well she's on Birth Control Yasmin.. She takes it every day. The condom broke..Is she Preg?

2007-12-23 20:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by Robert J 1

2007-12-23 20:35:08 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

so whenever a guy likes me, i get scared about it and i start to avoid them... even though i'm friends with them...why do i panic about it??? i don't mean to do...

2007-12-23 20:31:23 · 11 answers · asked by (F)abulous (O)reintal (B)reunett 1

So there is this boy and i really really like him a lot. im not sure if he likes me back though. but it wierd because we kinda talk like on aim but not on the fone. i havent told him i like him but my bestfriend told me he already knows. but im not to sure because even though we always flirt(at least it seems like it to me) im not sure how he feels about me or what i should do next. plz HELP ME!!!!

2007-12-23 20:19:48 · 15 answers · asked by baby_gurl_ace 1

people tell me i'm beautiful on the inside but why do guys never see that? =(

should i just give up forever?

2007-12-23 20:18:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you like facial hair on a guy or just clean cut???

2007-12-23 20:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

or would a feather duster do?

2007-12-23 20:15:56 · 9 answers · asked by 5 star 3

well theres this one guy i really like hes a year older than me but thats ok i guess? so like he knows i like him but then i feel like he doesnt like me and my friends keep saying that they have a "feeling" that he likes me but you never know that "feeling" might be wrong but i also noticed he keeps looking my way and he keeps smiling to himself o.0. He also started hanging around wit his friend at my grade hallway. He does notice me but then i have him on msn as well and he's written something like i miss her and it has something else written like for "......(someones name) read this msg" or something like that but that girl is already taken by someone else so im really confused here if he likes someone or if hes just writting that for well iono fun or something and thats written on his msn name so please help me and does he even like me or do i even have a chance and what can i do to make him like me some of my friends are helping me to try and make him like me and i am getting to

2007-12-23 20:15:46 · 3 answers · asked by ohsofresh! 2

she's your ex, would you kiss her even if you didn;t feel anything for her??

2007-12-23 20:14:14 · 15 answers · asked by Loli 2

my bff, her boyfrid moved way AWAY (to Korea) and she hopeing they can still be together, but i'm worried it wont work so what do you think.

2007-12-23 20:13:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have recently started seeing this girl whom i love. but tonight i went out with friends and she called me i said i would call back in 30 min but forgot cause of all the booze ppl where buing me. she sent me a txt saying not to do that again i replyed saying i was sorry and tred calling her to no avail. now i love this girl what should i do to make this right in her eyes

2007-12-23 20:12:45 · 5 answers · asked by 86fire 1

I started dating one of my friends soon after he & his GF broke up. I was ready-don't think he truly was. Things were great for a while..until he got back with her behind my back. He lied and lied-& one day he got caught. This all of course happens after I find out I'm pregnant. I had a miscarriage though. We didn't talk for about a week but I missed him despite it all. He is back with her & somehow I have found myself being the other girl & sneaking around. I hate it-& its not fair to me. YET I love him. I can't imagine not having him. But he's so flirty w/other women when we go out-& he recently has been hangin out with my so called best friend behind my back. She says he asked her sister out on a date when i was there int he other room. he says no. they sing very diff tunes..who do i believe-i think they are both shady. He doesn't see how patient I have been. Ive also spent alot $ on him. i feel that he cares-but also think hes a scumbag for doing this to me&her.tell me how to fixit

2007-12-23 20:08:34 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle Bell 2