I hang about with girls all the time and I hang about with boys sometimes but very rarely and I don't think of girls as being weak or anything like that, I think women are capable of anything men can do apart from peeing standing but then women are able to give birth so but for some reason I feel like I have to protect my mates just because they're girls and I'm the only boy and I don't know why?
2007-12-23 20:46:33 · 14 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also all my mates are younger then me, I'm 15 and my mates are 12-14years old and one of my three bestfriends is my exgirlfriend and I've got over her enough to want another girlfriend but I still love her(she's 12 going on 13) and I fancy my ex's bestfriend who is also one of my bestfriends and me and her flirt alot and she's the same age as my ex.
2007-12-23 20:46:53 · update #1
I know girls can stand up for themselves, I've seen them do it.
2007-12-23 20:51:59 · update #2
Just to make the question abit clearer for those who don't get it:
Why do I feel like I have to protect my mates just because they're girls?
2007-12-23 20:53:24 · update #3
I admit I'm British but I ain't posh or anything.
2007-12-23 20:56:20 · update #4
fire_inur_eyes, you bloody b*stard, I am not being friends with these girls just so I can go out with them, half of my mates I don't even fancy, infact there's only two and that's my ex and her friend and I am not trying to screw them and I am trying to prevent anyone else from attempting that while they're under-age.
2007-12-23 21:02:15 · update #5
By the way have a Merry Christmas everyone.
2007-12-23 21:03:17 · update #6
Girls can be very manipulative especially at that age..friends or not.
2007-12-23 20:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by reallysuri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Corey, it is not so easy these days anyway. I often wonder this also...that if I had a wife, how could I possibly protect her from all that is bad out there. I'm strong but I'm no fighter, having always avoided getting into fights. Fighting just seems meaningless to me...I was raised with the Christian concept that violence begets more violence and solves nothing. However, if I had a woman that I loved, I would want to be able to defend her. Also if I married her, I believe that one of the vows a man makes is to protect his woman. It is good that you have a sense of honour Corey and maybe it is a sign that you are more of a man than you give yourself credit for.
2007-12-24 03:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Corey--you have a strange way of saying that you hang with these little girls for the chance to go out with them--they are vulnerable and you have the hidden talent to manipulate them and pick the easy ones. You are 15?? Well after today it is bordering on pedophilia---the uncontrollable desire to screw with 12 year olds--so get with the guys for a while and go out with girls your own age. I am telling you--you are creepy and if my 12 year old was with you as a 15 year old --you would be at the police station ,then in court----some fathers will kick your butt-- but I think prisoners will have more fun with your butt to teach you a lesson. Straighten up buddy--you are headed for trouble.
2007-12-23 20:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
perhaps the reason you feel protective of them is just a brotherly instinct. if you've known them for a long time, care for them a lot, etc.,
it's only natural that you feel the need to take care of them.
I have the same thing going on with my little cousins....I always feel the need to shield them from innuendos, graphics, violence, physical harm, even spotty fruit. it's alright.
and perhaps it's a subconcious fear that, being young girls on the brink of maturity, other boys are going to come along and want them, or physically or emotionally hurt them....and that's where your "big brother" kind of instinct kicks in.
2007-12-23 20:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by none n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its just your 'brotherly instinct'...it's okay I am actually impressed when men behave like that. It's so rare to find men like you but make you're not too over protective with them, they are at that stage that they will rebel and go against advices and try not make it look like you are jealous they can get big heads lol.....be protective but in right and small doses.
2007-12-23 20:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by Paola M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree you are a gentle man, don;t worry though girls can do i t for themselves.
Maybe introduce somebody of your own age into the group, because I have the feeling that you feel like their parents because you are older and male.
Good Luck xxx
2007-12-23 20:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Please :) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a nice lad, with a good heart Corey. Happy Christmas hun.
2007-12-23 21:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy get over it. Get some friends your own age. Don't hang around with people younger than you. You can still hang around with them, though not just as much.
I think you want them to know that you are big and strong and all that and you are ready to protect them. Trust me, us girls can stnd up for ourselves.
2007-12-23 20:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because you're a gentleman
read - knight in shining armor
and the ladies loved to be spoiled - like opening a door for them
so SPOIL 'EM ROTTEN
2007-12-23 20:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol..you don't get it either...it's FUN to manipulate boys into being protective. don't fall for it..it makes it more fun!
it's part of being a boy....protecing ppls.
but belive me..i can stick up for myself and i betcha your friends can too
2007-12-24 00:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by OMGWHO?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋