!!ok...its really getting on my nerves!!
I have been going out with my boyfriend for only a couple of weeks. one day when the bell rang 2 go home from school he turns 2ward me and gives me a freakin high 5 instead of a hug!! i mean hello, im not in preschool, we r in the 7th grade! so how do i tell him that i dont want a high 5....i want a hug? should i just go up 2 him 1 day and hug him? or talk 2 him about it, i mean i dont want 2 hurt his feelings in any way...cuz i really like him!!! please u have 2 help me(a.s.a.p.)!!!!!!!
2007-12-23 08:34:09 · 18 answers · asked by -nicolee- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want something done right, do it yourself. That means hug him!
2007-12-23 08:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by highball116 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Im in 7th grade too.
My boyfriend doesnt do high 5's, but he does kisses in front of peoples so i know he cares.
Well for you i would just got up to him and hug him before he gets to high 5 you and hopefully hell pick u the process.
Best of luck Love Elina
Hapy holidays <3
2007-12-23 16:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he puts his hand up to give a high-five, act like you're gonna high-five back, then turn it into a hug and say something along the lines of "I love hugging you..." And if he's not completely dumb he may get the picture and start hugging you more often. :)
Then tell him personally that u pefer a hug as his girlfreind,not as a dude.
2007-12-23 16:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by *Maximillionaire* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he puts his hand up to give a high-five, act like you're gonna high-five back, then turn it into a hug and say something along the lines of "I love hugging you..." And if he's not completely dumb he may get the picture and start hugging you more often. :)
2007-12-23 16:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by juliEmAnia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't expect a 7-th grader to be mature- he (and you) are still kids, and boys mature later than girls. Plus, I know a lot of older guys, even attorneys, who give each other high fives in informal situations. You can either try hugging him, or just get over it- it's not a really big deal.
2007-12-23 16:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raise your hand as if you're going to meet his high five, but at the last second psych him out by running it through your hair.
Since you're not from the '80s, maybe you don't know this classic psych-out.
2007-12-23 16:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Grumpus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just politely say you would prefer a hug instead of hive fives and remind him you are his girlfriend, not a dude.
2007-12-23 16:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in 7th grade all boys are going to be immature. i would talk to him, make him realize you are his girlfriend not his buddy. and that you want to show some affection. give him a hug and see how he reacts.
2007-12-23 16:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Stop giving me high 5's."
Either that or "you know, usually girls like a hug from their boyfriend instead of a high five."
2007-12-23 16:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hug and see what he does
2007-12-23 16:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by NinjaSquirrel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋