i'm a very shy guy and im 17, theres this girl ive like for 2 years and shes 18, i have trouble talking to girls so i dont have many female friends, i dont see this girl much during school other than lunch, i havent ever talked to her before but when im with my guy friends i always see her at our schools basketball games and i was wondering how i could approach her?
2007-12-20 13:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by ballalot6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe talk to a mutual friend and have them put ina good word for you. that way she'll know you're an awesome guy and she'll want to talk to you. also make sure you have something to talk about to her before you talk to her so its not awkward. maybe somehow manuever so you can go out in a group with her in it or something and then get her to hang out with you the whole time and then gradually hang out more from there. wooooooooo!
2007-12-20 13:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ang! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her, one day just walk up to her and grab her lightly on the shoulders and say, you have the most beautiful eyes, or you sure make the lunchroom look a lot better! You might ask her if she wants some company at the game. You have to have confidence in yourself first, love the skin your in. The minute you like yourself asking girls ANYTHING will become easier. You have to build confidence in yourself that NO one for any reason would say no. The minute you stop fearing the answer NO the easier it will be. think like this..... Shes only a girl, if she says no I'll just ask another. The fact that you have adored her for 2 years and built up this fear, doesn't mean shes hard to talk to, talk to her like youve known her for years, like this sooooooooooooooooooo Sandy, wanna go to the movies this weekend? My parents are tired of watching me stare at the walls and want me to get outside and do something. So I was wondering, can you keep me company, so my day isn't so BORING? Anything upbeat and fun, don't feel nervous, relax like your her best friend, we don't bite and we rarely say no. We are just as nervous as you are, TRUST ME!!!!
2007-12-20 22:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by darlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go close to where she is and drop something. If she opens her mouth at all, engage her in conversation. If she dosnt talk, say something casual like, do you know what time it is? Or pretend you dropped your cell phone and ask if she has seen it-let your imagination go, you will think of something.
2007-12-20 21:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by canam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the conversation light, just say; hi, I saw you at the game last night, it was a good/bad one wasn't it? Then tell her your name and ask hers. See if she is open to continuing the conversation, if not, just keep smiling and say; well, nice talking to you, gotta go.
2007-12-20 21:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit next to her during a basket ball game and introduce yourself and start a conversation with her.. you never know, she might be as shy as you are and you wont know what happens unless you make the first move to talk to her and get to know her better..
2007-12-20 21:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact when you see her and smile or say Hi. If you don't make a move someone else will and it might even be one of your boys if they don't know you like her, and that would suck : {
Good luck Shy Boy :- )
2007-12-20 21:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Twinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her something nice and walk out....without waiting for anything....and the next day sit with her and talk like u were friends from a long time..it works like charm every time i do it
2007-12-20 21:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by ChangeHere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit next to her at lunch and have a conversation.
2007-12-20 21:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Alegria B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start a casual convo with her.
2007-12-20 21:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by pockybunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋