Hey...My BF wants to break up with me & go out with my BFF..shes really pretty but so am I but she has more of

Question

a butt than me..should I be mad? I am really hurt..but I am only a 7th grader..am I being pathetic..Theres ALOT of other guys that want me but I dont wanna be a slut...

I have a butt to...but see Imma white gurl and all the boys say i got booty for my size..but she puertorican...whateva there is more guys out there who look a hell of alot better and who can treat me better to and besides HE TOTALLY CANT KISS

Answer 1

If shes your best friend she shouldn't even touch him.

Answer 2

Hell yeah u should be mad at him but if ur bff want to be with him too then you dont need to be her friend cause thats trifflin. Gurl it dont matter what grade u are in feeling are feelings you should be hurt. But at the same time you are only in the 7th grade that boyfriend you have is nothing ok you have your whole life ahead of you its so much more. u have high school where u might just find you first love and then college gurl one day you gonna look at this and just laugh to even think you let this non sense stress you out.

Answer 3

Don't listen to what these people say it is okay to have a b/f in the 7th grade! I mean hello as long as you aren't having sex it is okay. And it is good practice for relationships when you are older. I wish I had more b/fs in 7th I only had one now I am in 11th.
Well I think that you should ask your bff what she thinks about him. Does she like him too? It is a wierd situation for your bff and bf to have a thing going on, usually the friend should stay away from the boyfriend because thats rude and ruins the code of women! No going out with your friends ex-boyfriends! It is okay of you to be mad! But yeah I think you should dump him and find a new guy who is hotter and NICER cuz that is kinda rude of him to dump you jus cuz he wants a girl with a bigger butt. What a jerk for real! I bet your friend wont even go out w. him if she knows this because she will stick by your side. Tell her to get even for you and say no when he asks her out! haha. Idk this is just my advice, do what you want to do, good luck girl!

Answer 4

Well, at your age I kno that boyz are kind of a big deal. But if ur BFF iz a true friend then she wont even think about talkin 2 ur BF.
Im only 16 but i kno that most guyz in their teenage years arent tryin 2 b serious about relationships. I kno this bcoz ma x-bf broke up wit me 4 a gurl who i thought was my BFF. Unfortunately she wasnt a real BFF. I was hurt but i realized that there are PLENTY of guyz out there and most-likely, the person ur with wen ur young wont end up being the person u grow old with lol. So now u kno that this guy iz an a**hole and he'z not rite 4 u. So move on. Please believe u will find sum 1 who iz WAY BETTER than him and then ur gonna look back at him n say "WAT WAS I THINKN?!"
LMFAO!
Good Luck ;)

Answer 5

Your boyfriend wants to break up with you to go out with your best friend. Well, seventh grade is not to young to learn about loyalty and being a good friend. Unless you were not really into your boyfriend in the first place she should not pursue a relationship with him. That's just how it is, an unwritten rule, put the shoe on the other foot, if she would not want you to do that to her she should not be doing that to you.

I don't think it's about the fact that she has a bigger butt then you or looks prettier then you. If it is then he is shallow, or only wants to be with someone who makes him look good. I hope it's because maybe he feels he has more in common or chemistry with her. But like I said, when in doubt, talk to your friend, assess your true feelings about the situation and TELL HER and refer back to rule number 1. She should not get with him.

Answer 6

OMG i have had the same thing happen to me. I was hurt to the point of tears. Not because the guy was a catch, becaseu I was so hurt that my so called BFF would try to take my boyfriend. To this day I still feel sad whenever I see him. And mad when I see her. Obviously he doesnt deserve you. And if she goes out with him. She was never a BEST freind anyway.

BTW I was in 8th grade when this happened to me. If you need to talk.... Im am always free at [e-mail]

Answer 7

no don't be mad. he is an idiot that is no reason to break up with you, just because ur friend has a better butt. Don't worry about it ur only in 7th grade. Guys are very immature at that age. i know i was. He is just new with relationships and doesn't understand what is really important in a girl! it will be ok!!

Answer 8

Boyfriends come and go. Friends are supposed to be there forever. You need to talk to your friend! She shouldn't do that to you. Granted when you are in Junior high, that sorta thing happens more often than in high school, Because by then, a girl just knows that you dont cross that territory. Anyway, talk to your friend about it...she shouldnt do it. But maybe you can settle something and all remain friends and move on...there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Good luck

Answer 9

First of all, your bff shouldn't be dating your ex. That's a rule of girl code. Looks aren't the only things that matter. In 7th grade (actually, all males) boys are stupid. Don't get down on yourself. Start hanging out with a new boyfriend that likes you and not your bff. forget about this stupid boy.

Answer 10

Don't be mad. I went through something very similar. Best advice I can give is to forget about guys right now. Wait until AT LEAST freshman year because at least by then sme guys have slightly matured and are less likely to be as stupid as your current boyfriend.

7th grade guys are lame an are just looking to have a girlfriend to say they have one.

Answer 11

Start over:

Let me give you some advice: ditch the'best friend', ditch the boyfriend, be a loner, get good grades, and make new friends in high school. Question the world, question society, and question the things that are now being expected of people your age. Form your own opinions, your own thoughts, and be different.