First question, is where can I find a prostitute or just an anonymous sex encounter. Also, if you think this is a good idea? i'm 24, and increasingly self-conscious of the fact that i'm a virgin, i declined at least one opportunity in college at a party, and i feel lately having hit a dry streak dating wise, that maybe this would be a good thing for me, just to have some sexual encounter, and get that out of the way, so i can not have to feel like i'm constantly having to catch up to my peers in terms of dating experience and everything else. our society is so sex-obsessed and sometimes i fall into that, i guess. of course, i also try finding dates, making female friends and all of that, but the whole process can be very slow. Sometimes, I also go to bars with the aim of losing my virginity, usually i just end up getting someone's phone number at best and that usually doesn't lead to much.
2007-12-20 16:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by sophomrecritic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't worry about the virgin thing. Most women would be impressed by you waiting.
2007-12-20 17:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 10⤋
quit being a loser. Take these steps. 1. Go to public places like pubs, or parties etc. 2. Be confident and not a little ***** and go talk to a nice girl. 3. Get the balls to ask her out. 4. If you like her and you made a connection with her ask her out again and again. 5. Be a gentlemen and treat your woman with the respect she deserves. 6. When you feel the time is right and you are know she is the one, ask her to marry you. 7. Do the electric slide at your wedding. 8. Make love on your wedding night. 9. **** like minks, raise rugrats, and live happily ever after. There is someone out there for everyone and you aren't going to find her sitting on your ***, you have to go get her.
2016-03-16 04:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 7⤋
Like you said, the culture is too sex obsessed, and you sometimes fall into that, to get out of it, go in the bathroom.. and.. ya know.. it isn't a good idea, do you want to just get the only thing in your life that you can only do once, out of the way, do you not want it to be special, and do you want it just because lately things are slow, it is really easy to find someone, you just have to be friendly, not too much and just be there for people, help them out, support them, compliment them, but not overly, don't seem too eager or they will know what you want. Also prostitutes can have diseases like aids, and stuff, and they are a lot more likely than anyone else to have it, basically don't go, just try being slightly different around women, them being happy and safe, and open, turn them on a lot more than looks or.. just to do it
Just imagine someone asking how you lost your virginity, maybe a partner, could you even say.. it may be a terrible experience and one that will be brought up over and over again, every time you see something sexual, trust me, sex can be great, a lot better with love, but it is way way way over rated, it isn't anything super special, it's just a nice thing to do, we all just want it so much because of the chemicals in our body that say.. our species needs to grow.. make babies, and then we are all sex zombies
2007-12-20 17:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 4⤊ 3⤋
First of all I think you're just feeling down right now. I dont think you should lose your virginity to a prostitute. Your first time should be with someone that you love (or at least like) and hopefully they have the same feelings about you. It may take a while but at least it'll be worth it. Cheer up and go have fun...you'll find the right one when you least expect it.
2007-12-20 17:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by kiwisweetie 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
It isnt like losing your virginity is something you can never do. Its going to happen. But sleeping with a prostitute? That's gross, and something you can NEVER take back. You're worried about what people think of you now just because you aren't sexually active. Imagine what people would say if they found out you'd had sex with some girl you had to pay! That's a reputation ruiner, let me tell ya!
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