alright...i am a freshman in high school, never dated yet but have liked this girl since 7th grade. I have told a few people and they say go for it but i would hate being rejected. The main thing holding me back is I really have never talked to her, ever. I would always hope in classes i get to sit near here, to at least attempt to talk but never got the chance. Thats really it.....=(
2007-12-20 15:17:55 · 19 answers · asked by ... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
background info:
i am the starting fullback on my freshman team
I love sports
we go to same confirmation class
im in a public school
i never talk to girls much....
friends with geeks/dorks (no problem with that at all)
2007-12-20 15:21:55 · update #1
yea i figured so... i am a smart guy, i should trust myself more often, thanks
2007-12-20 15:23:32 · update #2
ask her out man. if your dont ask you will go the rest of your life wondering what might have been. you know i think she was in here earlier asking a similar question. you dont have anything to be afraid of unless she has drackular teeth. even if she says no you can respect yourself for trying.
2007-12-20 15:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by insainejobhunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well bro if u never talked to her before thats the first step...cus it wud be wierd to just go up to her and tell her u like her if u havent ever talked before
talk to her start a casual conversation dont get too into it just a small 5-10 min conversation... ask if u can talk to her again get her number wait a day call her small conversations again... after about the 1st week get to kno her alil better...more time on the phone..and possibly ask her out on a cafual date..nothing over the top...take her to a fair..movies arent a good first date...the point is to make her laugh and have a good time...a movie will not let u talk to her...then move form there bro...good luck u seem like a cool guy...hope everything works out
2007-12-20 15:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by emar2614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should get some nerve and go talk to her! It would be great if you knew her before asking her out. You should talk about things that you have in common, such as a certain TV show or if you both hate a certain teacher. Just make it casual. Take a deep breath and talk!
2007-12-20 15:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest to just talk to her first get to know her as a friend if she is in any of your classes talk about your homework or somthing to break the ice than gradually get casual with her ask her if she would like to do something on the weekend or even study for a test hey you never know untill you try and if she says no she says know trust me its not the end of the world there are plenty of girls out there don't stress over just one your still young
2007-12-20 15:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. i say first look for hints that she likes you 2, that way if there arent any then there is no point in asking. Oh and you should try talking to her, just ask how her day was.
But like i said i wouldnt. just wait and look for hints (like she looks at u, she talks to u, and stuff like that) or ask her friends.
Well good luck!! and i hope things work out for you!
2007-12-20 15:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, i agree with Uriel. You'll probably get rejected. Only ask people out if you like them and see a few signs that they like you back.
2007-12-20 15:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k.....if u no her # make up an excuse 2 call her n call her!! become sorta friends w/ her then go fr it!!!!!theres nothing to lose if she rejects u then shes not the 1 fr u!!!!! it may take some guts but just go up 2 her and talk!!!! it wil help!!
2007-12-20 15:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Julia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Look for a place where you two can be alone, so even when she rejects you, you won't get embarassed, then ask her out, it's better to do it then regret it later.
2007-12-20 15:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Fyre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the first time you speak with her! do talk with her. when the time is right, ask her out in a CONFIDENT casual way. and trust me, you are only young once, so live your life and go after what you want my young brother!
2007-12-20 15:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by mr. buns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a crazy idea... It'll allow you to see if she likes you, and, lower the embarrassment of being rejected.
Just simply go up to her and ask, "Do you like me."
If she says yes, there you have it.
If she says no... then that's where you say..
"NO!! I meant as a friend... i heard that ALOT of people were saying your mad at me..."
&& SHAZAM! problem solved
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2007-12-20 15:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋