Singles & Dating - 16 December 2007

I like this teacher and she is going to be married. I known her for 3 years. She is gorgous , beautiful, smart, everything a guy would ask for. I know it may sound immature, but its unbelievable. If I let her go, I know I would feel pain the rest of my life. I feel that I can't let her go. I have done things like opening the door for her each day, and I know she knows that I like her, and one day she came to me and said stop holding the door for me and go to class. I thought its ok, So I kept doing it agian for 2 weeks and then she fianlly said to me to Stop it, its a nice thing your doing but seriously stp it. Stop it and she walked through the door. I felt that she knew that I liked her becasue why would she say stop it. i am just holding the door. She knows. I lve her so much. She is also in her 20s. and I am like couple years behind, i know its wrong and I should give her up. But I feel also if I do, I will feel pain as if my heart was snateched and is being burned in the fire.Help

2007-12-16 11:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by James Bond 3

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When we first started dating he had pictures of all his friends and his ex-girlfriends on his wall. I was like okay their just friends, even though he dated all of them. .but eventually he took them down because it's rude and I don't display exes on my wall. .but anyways once in awhile the conversation comes up and he always randomly goes "yeah I still have pictures of my ex girlfriends and I'm never gonna throw them out". .I laugh and go okay? I never told him to throw them out I just found it weird and disrespectful he kept them on his wall for so long until I had to say something. Who want to lay down on their girlfriends/boyfriends bed and see a gallery of their exes? I don't and I don't even talk about them so why does he? Does anyone find this weird or have dealt with this?

2007-12-16 11:30:59 · 10 answers · asked by xclusivexxxbella 2

discribe your perfect date(from begining to end)

2007-12-16 11:30:08 · 11 answers · asked by H0N3Y 2

The smell of attractive women's feet after they've been working out, or simply haven't been washed for a few hours, drives my hormones wild. What should I do? It's not like you can meet a woman at a bar, bring her home, make love to her and ask to smell her feet. Seems a little strange, but I just really want to so bad.

2007-12-16 11:28:22 · 14 answers · asked by Scorpio 1

Why does a man state that he really wants to get with a person? Then when the person reciprocates, the person who "gushed" all over themselves, "acts" as though he has no clue. This has not been done "once" but multiple times. When he appears, he is all "happy" to see me. He even pretended he didn't say that he cared for me, to all of those people. What is going on here. The way that he acted, it almost sounded like an advertisement. He "kissed me" on the cheek at a "party" and no alcohol was served there. He "hugged me" in the aisle at church. This is very strange behavior.

2007-12-16 11:28:12 · 1 answers · asked by In God We Trust 7

My best friend just broke up with his girlfriend and I knew he liked me. I asked him what he saw in me and he said he really liked me but there was his girlfriend back home. He ended up breaking up with her. I asked him if he could ever see us dating and he said he'd love to date me but wanted to wait until after Christmas break is over and we go back to college so he could clear his mind. Well, I ended up asking him out yesterday and he wasn't sure what to say all he kept saying was "umm" "uhh" and then he said "I guess sure?" then today...he wrote me a letter and this is what it said.....

PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IT MEANS!!!!

2007-12-16 11:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by Nnay 1

I see several questions regarding break-ups after a relationship was too rushed.

How many have learned the hard way that you need to take it slow, get to know someone first before investing in them emotionally?

What else have you learned about rushing a relationship? I know those that do are either needy or desperate.

2007-12-16 11:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by MadforMAC 7

Been dating this girl for almost a year. She's great, has great family tons of great qualities. But I just don't see myself marrying this girl and I have no idea why... Any ideas?

2007-12-16 11:09:07 · 12 answers · asked by Rickls 2

We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-16 11:07:35 · 36 answers · asked by mangolove 1

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, we're both 17. She loves me and I love her and we both know that. Our relationship has had many ups and downs like any relationship has, but we've gotten through it. I would do anything for her and I do, to the point when her friends and my friends have both said that she takes advantage of me. We've talked about her giving me more respect and lately it's been great. I think that it's time now to have sex, and i've told her this, but I would never pressure her into anything. She's said she wanted to and promised she would, but whenever she says she will, she ends up not. I don't know why, and i've talked to her and not received a concrete response. The farthest we've gone is her giving me a handjob, and she will not do anymore than that. I'm frustrated more by the broken promises that the actual lack of action (though that bothers me too) what should I do? I do everything for her.

2007-12-16 11:06:43 · 51 answers · asked by John H 2

when,how and where? and was it worth it? oh, and why?

2007-12-16 11:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

like how do guys act around good looking girls?

2007-12-16 10:56:35 · 3 answers · asked by You Rock 1

I feel like that I'm not being honest to my boyfriend right now! first, I haven't gotten over my crush (For 4 years) yet, second, 3 guys like me and I like them as friends, and third, I haven't gotten over my ex either! I'm just getting more depressed and upset with all this. I'm crying right now because of all this! So what should I do about all this? Should I tell my boyfriend (once he's back from vacation) the whole truth about this? plz be honest and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Thanks so much for answering this question and I will check on this later!

-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-16 10:53:38 · 21 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7

i dated this guy for a few months i gave him my everything i love him so much .. we never broke up he moved out of state wen he was about 2 came bck and marry me (he had an afear) he found out that the other grl was prgnat ...he cryed and ask me for forgiveness he broke my heart but i ofer him only my frndship after the baby was born i changed my num and i hvnt heard from him in almos 2years but i miss him so much i have dated but never loved like i still love him .... help please....

2007-12-16 10:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

when a guy and a girl are dancing in a frat, party, or club, should the guy be "leading"? or should the girl? if you catch my drift...

aka...should the girl be doing all the work? personally i dont think so, but i was wondering what y'all thought

bear in mind, when i say dancing, i don't mean ballroom dancing or anything close to that...haha

2007-12-16 10:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been in bad relationships b4..im a very good boyfriend and i treat girls very good..but all my relationships are bad...all the girls take advantage of me being so good..is there any girl out there looking for someone to treat them like they sh0od be treated...and hopefully lives in brooklyn...let me know

2007-12-16 10:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 1

The girl I like works at the store, we both went to school together she graduated a year after me, and I thought she use to like me but I duno, like the things she did I couldent tell if she actually liked me or not, like for instance one time I went in to check on my graudation stuff and came back out and she was sitting on bench near double doors and I was on way out the door and she walked in front of it and asked where I was going and I said home, and she said I dont want you to go, and I said Y?..and she said I would miss you, and I told her I had to go so she moved. So give or take 2 years later we talked online for awhile I told her I liked her and I asked her maybe to go to a movie sometime she said maybe and then sometime later she is working at the store and she has a boyfriend, but when I go in she always smiles at me and gazes at me, its weird we dont really talk even when I go through her register..so I duno what to do..is she nervious?..so I say bye bye fair lady?..

2007-12-16 10:49:55 · 19 answers · asked by ssss 1

So I recently asked a question about why younger girls tend to go for older guys and most of the answers were "girls mature faster than guys so they go for older guys."

Understandable, but then does that mean that girls are attracted to maturity? With all of the girls that go for "players" and "bad boys," people obviously just out there for sex and not a mature relationship, it doesn't seem like girls are attracted to maturity....

But then again, I don't know a ton about girls, so I could be very wrong. But let me know what you think!

2007-12-16 10:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by pieninja 5

My BBF went out with this guy about 8 times. He's a total man-whore..but she didnt see it.Everyone else did. Do you think she was being stupid?
(alyssa dont get mad)

2007-12-16 10:43:48 · 3 answers · asked by lysette 2

this is for my sister she needs advice

i was in a relationship with someone who showed a lot of signs of sincerity and caring in the midst of all this is ex fiance of a year and half ago contacts him through email saying she was sorry for what she did and she still has feelings for him. meanwhile this girl really did him wrong so he had mixed feelings for her which ended our relationship. my question is when we had broken up we had a talk and i told him that i didnt want him to contact me unless he was110% sure he wanted to be with me. so after about 3 and half weeks i get a text message " would it be okay if i gave you a christmas gift"? so what i wrote back was " if that is something you feel you would like to do you shouldnt have to ask me" and his response was "okay".

that was about a week ago and he doesnt call or keep up any form of comunication that was it. for me that was a very strange situation what do you guys think?

2007-12-16 10:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1

Seriously he never hums at any other time. It's very weird. The hum is no particular song. He doesn't hum when he walks past others or others walk past him.

What could it be?

2007-12-16 10:39:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you like girly girls, tomboys, girly girls that play sports, down to earth girls, plastics, etc..... what kinda girl do you like?

2007-12-16 10:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you like being in a relationship, or would you rather be single right now in your life?

2007-12-16 10:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-16 10:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3

We have been dating for 5 1/2 years now. A couple months ago we got into a fight and he said he would marry me. I think he said it just to get me to take him back. We have talked about it since then its kind of planned out that we'll go to vegas and tie the knot after we get our taxes back in feburary or march. Is it really a done deal if he hasnt bought the ring yet? I dont want to keep bringing it up and nagging him so I dont know what to do. I dont want to bug him into asking me I want him to ask becasue he loves me and wants a life with me. The biggest thing that bugging me now is he's been going out of town for work from monday to friday and I'm left at home without him all week. This is the third year he takes off all week and comes home on the weekends and everytime I've been 100% faithful, I think he has too, but its bugging me cuz I'm staying home and waiting for him like a wife but not with the title or anything.

2007-12-16 10:26:49 · 4 answers · asked by juniper555 5

GIRLS

A. Madison

B. Bella

C. Erica

D. Baily

BOYS

A. Mat

B. Elliot

C. Eathen

D. Joey


For your answer it should like like this

example:

Girls- A
Boys-C

Somethign like that!

THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-16 10:23:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

from your girlfriend.

i have an absolute amazing boyfriend.
just i dont know what to get him.

help plzzz.

2007-12-16 10:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by JayJay <3 2

I don't want to know if it hurts/feels good or not. I wanna know what it feels like. "The notion of it"...or i don't know what i'm trying to say... I'm just curious.

2007-12-16 10:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to be strong and move on but then out of nowhere I dwell on the past, incase of no one knowing what Im possibly talking about I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 yrs. : ( so I want to just let it go, I would appreciate any advice given.

2007-12-16 10:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by dominicandyme22 2

my boyfriend and i broke up a couple of days ago we decided to stay friends because he really doesnt have time for a relationship and im really busy both of us just wanna focus on school hes glad we're friends he said he wants my friendship but the other day when he knocked my door. he just walked in and started kissing me i still love it when we kiss. is wrong that kiss my ex and still have feelings for him?

2007-12-16 10:12:27 · 52 answers · asked by snookie 2