I feel like that I'm not being honest to my boyfriend right now! first, I haven't gotten over my crush (For 4 years) yet, second, 3 guys like me and I like them as friends, and third, I haven't gotten over my ex either! I'm just getting more depressed and upset with all this. I'm crying right now because of all this! So what should I do about all this? Should I tell my boyfriend (once he's back from vacation) the whole truth about this? plz be honest and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Thanks so much for answering this question and I will check on this later!
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-16 10:53:38 · 21 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm so sorry! please cheer up :) its not your fault
that you still like your ex. you shouldn't feel guilty..
what you should do however is talk to your now current
boyfriend, and tell him the truth! a relationship is nothing
without honesty.. you should tell him everything your feeling.. hide nothing from him.. and if your boyfriend really cares for you he will be there for you .. tell you its okay.. and wow you really need to read the twilight series by: stephenie meyer .. i think if you read those books..
( even though they're fantasy )
you would see a whole other world to what true love can really mean! the twilight series is a fictional/romance/adventure... and every one of my friends who have read it have fallen completley 100% in love with them! TRUST ME!! even if you hate to read.. sit down & read this book...
it has given me a whole new perspective on love!
well .. i hope everything works out okay :)
good luck :)
~bella swan <3333
plz.. answer this question~
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoemG_Hw7HVY7XBPSmZGUv3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071217095059AAbzegA
2007-12-16 13:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♡ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My Dearest Diane,
You should always be straight forward and completely honest at all times about everything. How would you feel if in fact you were in his shoes?
Do not play games with another persons emotions or their heart ever! You will feel much better about yourself once you have brought all of this business out into the open.
Best wishes to you on these issues .....
Look him directly in the eye and come right with the whole truth my dear young lady, I promise you that you will in fact sleep much better tonight.
Sincerely, Jerry Hamilton aka poet man =) Peace!!
2007-12-17 09:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breathe and relax. You being depressed and stressed out wont help one bit. First to be honest you have to be honest to yourself so try to clear up all these emotion that you are having. And when you're boyfriend comes back talk to him and tell him all that has been going on your head tell him how you feel. And if he loves you he will understand you.
In my opinion i think you and your boyfriend just need some time give you relationship a break and figure out what is going on with you
♥
Ana
2007-12-18 08:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm... you need to distance yourself for a second. Take a step back from it all and think: "What would Jesus do???" Sorry...*looks up* you said no retardisms... Sorry... I'll stop...
But really...
You don't have to break up with him. Just go somewhere for a day and tell him you're not feelin good *which, by what you've said, seems to be true* and do some serious self evaluation. Go somewhere with the least polluted\poisonous air in the area and breathe. Take in the semi mediocre quality air and take some time to notice yourself and your natural rhythm. Take notice of what first comes to your mind and what's most important to you.
It won't help you get over him, but it puts things into perspective for you.
good luck and God *or whoever is in charge of th blessing in your religion/ lack-thereof* Bless.
2007-12-17 11:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Selah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is your boyfriend, so you have to tell him. If he were feeling this way, you would want him to tell you right? So you have to tell him. Don't do it in a mean way, which I know you won't do, but don't be to brash about it. He is your boyfriend after all, but if you are still having feelings for your ex, maybe you shouldn't be with your boyfriend right now. The thing about the three other guys liking you, that doesn't really affect you and your boyfriend does it? You did say that you only like them as a friend, so you don't really have to worry about that for now. Just let them know that you have a boyfriend so they can move on to. You don't want to hurt them, so don't keep them liking you when they don't have a chance. It will hurt them now, but in the long run it is better for them. When your bf comes back from vacation, have a talk with him. Good luck
2007-12-16 11:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by i4munwritten 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Um wow. Alright tell her parents or an adult, so that they can get her medical help, she shouldn't have put that kind of pressure of you, it's emotional blackmail, she's saying she'll cut her wrist so she'll stop loving you, It doesn't work that way, and then you have this big weight on your shoulders now because you feel that if you don't date her, she'll hurt herself or worse kill herself, and that's not right. And remember it's not your fault if you don't feel attracted to her in that way. I have a friend who did something simiular, he told my friends that he was going to go home and hang himself because we we're mad at him, and we we're mad because he was an attention hog, every single thing had to be about him, and he was always saying bad stuff about us, and he cut his wrist because "he just wanted to know what it felt like" and then kept doing it because it felt good. We ended up going to the school guidence consoler and his grandma and grandpa. So hurry and go to her parents. Hope I helped
2016-04-09 07:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with ur boy friend, dont hurt him tell him the truth, and tell the guys that like u that u dont like them back that there no more then friends. and bout ur ex keep trying to get over him, unless u think theres a chance u 2 will get bak togehter.
good luck
2007-12-17 09:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by ღ£Ðwå®Ðz§ løv£®ღ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need distance from them all. My bf & I broke up a month ago. I am not over him at all & he is still very much on my mind. I tried to move on but I couldn't. I am still in love with him so I don't see how I could be with anyone else. he was not around for a while but now he is back in london. We were still in touch anyway through messaging & blogs. Anyway, I can not reach a closure & so I am trying to move on slowly hoping that time will be on my side. It is very confusing.
In your case I think you will need distance from all these guys. Take time for yourself, think it over & take it easy. Use the time to go over your goals in life & in time you will be able to see clearly.
Good Luck
2007-12-16 23:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
honestly??
i think you should be single for a while.
cut the guys loose and have some YOU time, sounds like this dating lark is getting a bit much for you sweetie.
complicated aint it.....
if its meant to be with any of them then they will come back to you
figure out what YOU want and WHO you want first-you cant do that whilst you got all of that going on-must be doing your head in....
lots af love to you and best of luck....really hope you take my advice,,really think thats what you need right now...the current situation will just mess you up even more
ps-thanks for answering my question too
2007-12-16 11:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't say anything because if its just a crush then its nuthing 2 worry about, its not like u cheated on him or anything
oh yeah and i answered ur question n gave u a star!
like u did 2 me
well i fink it was u lol
2007-12-17 10:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋