this is for my sister she needs advice
i was in a relationship with someone who showed a lot of signs of sincerity and caring in the midst of all this is ex fiance of a year and half ago contacts him through email saying she was sorry for what she did and she still has feelings for him. meanwhile this girl really did him wrong so he had mixed feelings for her which ended our relationship. my question is when we had broken up we had a talk and i told him that i didnt want him to contact me unless he was110% sure he wanted to be with me. so after about 3 and half weeks i get a text message " would it be okay if i gave you a christmas gift"? so what i wrote back was " if that is something you feel you would like to do you shouldnt have to ask me" and his response was "okay".
that was about a week ago and he doesnt call or keep up any form of comunication that was it. for me that was a very strange situation what do you guys think?
2007-12-16 10:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she should have stuck to what she said about no contact and refused it. All this will do is keep her hopes up where there arent any. Also does your sister really want to be 2nd prize if he leaves his ex? He will never be good for her. Even if he comes back he will leave when something "better" comes along. I say that because he never loved her or he wouldnt have left. She need to write him off forever and move on with her life.
2007-12-16 10:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that confused. . . he did you a favor. Imagine if you two got married and he pulled that. I'm so sorry you had to go through that, but you're not alone. Try and keep yourself busy and believe me. . . in time. . . you'll find that mentally stable guy. Good Luck!
2007-12-16 18:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are confused (men are not) guys are looking for the worlds greatest everything but until they understand that they cannot have the world but they can make a world that they can live in and love in they will become MEN.
a man is only as good as his word and when he learns the word LOVE he will be completed
2007-12-16 19:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they go into overdrive when thinking and they go dum and rely on instict
2007-12-16 18:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser - you know where he can stick his present! lol
2007-12-16 18:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by chandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋